Sun Yi Dong Zijian divorced, "Don't believe in love if you don't move" "

Sudden divorce

Sure enough, big melon was caught off guard.

At 10 am the day before yesterday, Dong Zijian and Sun Yi posted on Weibo and announced their divorce.

"We are all good."

"I wish us in the past, I wish you and me in the future."

Picture source: Sun Yi, Dong Zijian's Weibo

Subsequently, the studio of both sides officially issued a divorce statement.

Suddenly, netizens covered:

Is the relationship between these two people not always good?

Not long ago, Dong Zijian was also photographed by the media to visit Sun Yi in Hengdian. In the meantime, the two said and laughed, and Sun Yi was lying on Dong Zijian's leg to rest.

In June of this year, Dong Zijian celebrated his birthday for Sun Yica, and kindly called Sun Yi's "big blessing mother".

Picture source: Dong Zijian's Weibo

Why did you suddenly divorce?

You know, since the two have been married, they have always been the benchmark for entertainment marriage in the hearts of netizens.

From the marriage to the marriage, to the child, the relationship between the two revealed the word "sweet" everywhere.

In 2015, at the Tokyo Film Festival, Dong Zijian, who was on the red carpet, met Sun Yi, who was under the red carpet.

Just a hurried glance, Dong Zijian remembered Sun Yi's sweet smile. He asked his agent to go to Sun Yi's contact information, and then began his pursuit of Sun Yi.

It is said that "the fate is not stopped." In fact, earlier, Sun Yi had a good opinion of Dong Zijian.

At that time, Dong Zijian appeared in the "Youth" and was quite famous in the circle.

When Sun Yi accidentally saw Dong Zijian's work, he was convinced by his charm. With the help of the agent, the two officially met at a party.

In October 2016, some media took pictures of the two people by plane together and broke the news online.

Without covering up, Dong Zijian generously disclosed his relationship.

Picture source: Sun Yi’s Weibo

Immediately after, in May 2017, the two appeared on the cover of the "Jiaren" magazine together, and the official announced the news of marriage.

Picture source: "Jiaren" magazine

Since then, "dog food" has become a habit.

Frequent interaction on Weibo, showing affection while chatting with each other:

In the show, you also seize the opportunity to sprinkle "dog food" for the audience:

Sun Yi participated in "Happy Camp", and He Yan asked her:

"Will you be better to him, or is it better for your baby?"

Sun Yi blurted out: "He is better to me."

Dong Zijian participated in the variety show. A guest asked him to repeat what he had chased Sun Yi at the beginning, and he explained directly:

"This kind of words can only tell your wife."

Picture source: oranges spicy visit

In 2021, at the awards ceremony of Bai Magnolia, Dong Zijian regretted not winning the award.

Sun Yi teased on Weibo and comforted:

"Dong Zijian, although you haven't won the prize today, after I watched the red carpet, I decided to add chicken legs tonight."

Picture source: Sun Yi’s Weibo

And what about Dong Zijian? I also thought of Sun Yi everywhere.

When he recorded "Just a Young", he said that he would squat at the bridge hole and cry when he thought about it before, and then watched the stars in the sky. When he returned, he found that the bridge hole was gone and his heart was sad.

As soon as he finished speaking, he saw the meteor, and immediately called Sun Yi and told her:

"I saw the meteor, I made my wish, I hope your performance is successful."

Such words and lines are exactly like a couple in love, which is no different from ordinary people.

In the year of marriage, Sun Yi and Dong Zijian were only 24 years old, and belonged to "British Early Marriage".

They were asked by many people, did they regret getting too early to get married?

Dong Zijian only said:

"If I didn't meet her, I wouldn't get married until now."

Sun Yi answered like this:

"I get married at the age of 24. Many people think that I am too early to get married and should I get married for a while.

"I am 28 years old and my child is 4 years old. I feel that my life is particularly full and happy."

Picture source: variety show "Goodbye Lover"

Perhaps it was because the marriage of the two looked so happy that the divorce seemed so suddenly.

However, there are some different voices.

As no love or hate in the world has no reason, no one will leave for no reason.

Such happiness and happiness may be an illusion of netizens.

"The ending now has a foreshadowing."

Everything can follow

When Sun Yi was a guest in the variety show "Goodbye Lover", he had eased some stories in his marriage.

Among them, there are many troubles:

She and Dong Zijian quarreled before going to bed, and were angry, but found that Dong Zijian had fallen asleep;

She and Dong Zijian shared the things that he felt very interesting, and the result was just a very perfunctory "um";

In addition, she will be urged by Dong Zijian to have a second child, even if she explicitly states that she does not want to give birth ...

But these are not the most important.

Sun Yi's biggest trouble is Wang Jinghua from Dong Zijian's mother.

Who is Wang Jinghua?

In addition to "Dong Zijian's mother", she also has a more bullish label -the first generation of Chinese agents.

Picture source: Baidu Encyclopedia

When Wang Jinghua entered the industry, it was in the 1990s. At that time, there was no concept of "agent" in China.

At that time, Huayihua dug Wang Jinghua, so that Wang Jinghua shined in Huayi.

Wang Jinghua has won the artists such as Chen Daoming, Li Bingbing, and Ren Quan, which made her popular in the circle.

Thanks to Wang Jinghua's status and reputation, Dong Zijian, who grew up in the star bun, was born with a good card.

At the age of 19, he won the award with a "Youth". Many insiders said that he had the potential to "film emperor". Dong Zijian became famous, and his popularity became higher and higher.

And what about Sun Yi?

At that time, her family conditions, the reputation in the circle, and the personal works were far from being compared with Dong Zijian.

Even if she and Dong Zijian were together, some netizens exposed-

Not only was she just a small model of 18 lines, but her original acting resources were given by their predecessors.

So for a long time, Sun Yi married Dong Zijian's love story, and many people didn't take it for granted.

They feel that how can such a daughter -in -law be as strong as Wang Jinghua?

Some people say that Wang Jinghua once wanted to let Sun Yi take money away, and finally hindered the feelings of the young couple, especially Dong Zijian, who was firmly with Sun Yi.

As a last resort, Wang Jinghua accepted Sun Yi.

Seeing that a pair of stubborn stubborn couples are getting better and better, the attitude of netizens has also changed.

At the beginning, it was not optimistic, and then it became a blessing.

The two had not had a marriage certificate or a banquet. Sun Yi said that the two were too young at the time, and it was really unnecessary.

But deep in her heart, she hopes to have a wedding that belongs to her.

As for the rumors of the outside world, Sun Yi has never been able to pass this hurdle.

She explained more than once, and even tears the show scene:

"Everyone thinks that I marry Dong Zijian because of grabbing resources. Because Xiao Dong's mother is a broker, and a very successful agent. I have never said this, but I often see this on the Internet. Comments. Everyone will feel, oops she has such a good mother -in -law, she doesn't worry about anything ...

"Xiao Dong also asked me at the time, saying whether to go to my mother -in -law's company to work together. I said no, I have my own brokerage company, I hope that except for the family, I have my own small world. Women must be independent independent. ","

Sun Yi didn't want to have a second child, because she felt that the pressure of having a second child was too high.

At the beginning, in order to take care of her daughter who had just been born for 5 months, she had to take a show while taking a show.

What Dong Zijian was doing as her husband, and what Wang Jinghua was doing as her mother -in -law, Sun Yi did not say.

The end of a marriage is often not single.

I have read a metaphor for "feelings":

Lovers who broke up because of quarrels are not because of something, but because of dissatisfaction.

Emotions are like a bathtub, which can save water and water.

For the first time, you think she is okay, not really okay, but she can bear it.

I have been angry, always tolerate, and wait for the dissatisfaction in the bathtub to be full, and you don't care if you apologize again.

Some netizens found that before the divorce, Sun Yi posted a photo, and her mobile phone shell wrote four words: away from men.

Photo source: Sun Yi’s Xiaohongshu

Some people say that this is implying that he is hurt by Dong Zijian; some people say that this is a sign of divorce.

What is the reason for the divorce of the two? No one knows except them.

Maybe, there is not so much explanation at all.

Don't love, that's all.

Just like Sun Yanzi's lyrics:

Love is flowing, not because of people, why is it excited?

"Can you believe in love?"

The divorce of Dong Zijian and Sun Yi is decent in the entertainment industry.

Just as what the two people stated:

Separate peacefully, and then raise children as relatives and friends.

Picture source: Weibo@Dong Zijian Studio

What is confusing, but some netizens, and their words that repeated screens:

"××× Divorce, can you still believe in love?"

"××× is divorced, I never believe in love anymore."

Native

It seems that every time the entertainment industry has a star divorce, there will be the same emotion.

Or, some people imagine the relationship between the two people as their last "defense". Once the two people divorce or the emotion breaks, he no longer believes in love.

This topic can be searched every time, indicating that many people are looking for a benchmark for love in the entertainment industry.

Frankly speaking, the reason why many people have this idea is nothing more than two reasons.

First, in the words of a netizen, he believes in love.

Because of what?

The answer can list a long string: network, short video, social software, film and television dramas, reality shows ...

I have to admit that many young people's understanding of love now comes from online content such as film and television dramas, reality shows.

The conflict, the ending of the deliberately manufactured conflict, the endless guidance, the vision of the filter, and the person who is separated by the screen ...

Good -looking, exciting, interesting, but the appearance of love in the real world.

Yesterday I just ate a "dog food" to the celebrity, and today I may receive the news of their divorce; today, the affectionate role of an actor or star is the role model. As a result, he will be exposed tomorrow ...

Every time you give a point of true feelings, you may have more self -doubt in the end.

In the final analysis, the characters, bridges, and plots under these shots are too far from ordinary people.

It is unrealistic to let the actors and celebrities take on the guidance of love.

There are many people who are keen to dig the meaning of love and marriage from these groups and messages.

What we see, maybe just others want to let us see; what we hear just wants us to let us hear.

In the end, I found out that "moved", "break defense", and "do not believe", many were not moved and anesthetized. Gives expensive energy, time and emotions, leaving only cheap emotions.

What kind of view of love should a person have?

The benevolent sees benevolence.

But one thing is yes, that is:

Our outlook on love should be based on our true and personal feelings, rather than pinning on others.

So, look at the love and marriage around us.

There is a terrible grown chicken hair;

There are also ordinary and happy romance; the most important thing is that it is real.

Second, the subtext of "××× divorce, I don't believe in love anymore" is: divorce is a bad thing.

This is actually a kind of inherent cognition of many people.

After all, for a long time, we have been educated to "take peace", "persuasion and not persuasion", "to dismantle a temple without breaking a marriage."

But this is the case, is it right?

the answer is negative.

Everyone wants their marriage to be happy and harmonious, but reality may be contrary to their wishes.

Beautiful love needs to be operated, but inappropriate marriage does not have to make up.

Under the label of#Sun Yi Dong Zijian's divorce#, a netizen mentioned two concepts in the message:

"Divorce breakup" and "remarriage socialization".

Picture source: network

It means that divorce is as simple as breaking up, and remarriage is also a normal society.

Divorce is not a negative, bad thing, let alone the sweetness of the past.

Believe in love, at the same time, have the ability to choose to leave or not.

Maybe this is the cognition and preparation that we should have in the face of love and marriage. Author: Changqing. This article is authorized to reprint from a WeChat public account "Book: BookSelection), a recommended book: There is an old group of scholars who share thinking with you, welcome to follow. When the world sinks, we read. Reprinted, please contact the "Book List" public account.

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