Xu Ruyun ｜ 19 years old, 29 years old, 39 years old

Dialogue · Xu Ruyun

The following is an interview summary

Never before it is too late

△ Xu Ruyun

Dialogue Xu Ruyun

Not long ago, Xu Ruyun participated in the record of the third season of the popular program "Breaking the Wind". For many years, Xu Ruyun walked into the reality show. During her appearance, she gave up her many famous love songs, but insisted on singing and performed her song "How to Good Now".

Xu Ruyun's impression to the audience is often the sad love song of soft intestines, blood and tears, and "even breathing pain". But Xu Ruyun in the reality show always laughed heartily. She relaxed and confidently liked to call herself a "creative singer".

Tian Chuan: Will the styling in the show be sent to the gentleman? Xu Ruyun: Yes, every time the makeup, the clothes he wear will show him, and he tells me where he can adjust. Tian Chuan: I think your husband is very different from the big Korean men in our impression. Xu Ruyun: Now because of the epidemic, we can't often go back and forth between the two countries, and we can only rely on video to contact every day. In fact, we have not met for about a year. I think it is a bit hard, but he still supports me. He told me that you are not an actor, and it is difficult to present his own life in music. So you have to participate in a reality show to let people know your cute side. I think he is very reasonable. I was really persuaded to participate in the show.

△ Xu Ruyun played the original song "What to be so good now" and "Breaking the Wind" in the third season of the original song

Tian Chuan: I feel that at every important stage of life, when we feel that they can be comfortable, they will make a choice that needs huge courage to make in outsiders. Xu Ruyun: I also discovered it later. At the age of 19, 29, and 39, a huge broke occurred, as if a turning point in 10 years. I think people can fight for the life they want at each stage. Don't think it is too late. It's too late. I don't think it is too late. If I met my husband 10 years earlier, I wouldn't necessarily like him, because at that time I might not see him good to me. So I am very encouraged to everyone, and I also hope that this energy can be passed on to everyone, and happiness is sometimes at the corner. I have to know what I want, I think this is important.

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Xu Ruyun grew up in Taipei. There were parents and brothers and sisters in the family. So far she still feels that her parents' education methods have shaped her today.

Xu Ruyun: My growth process is quite free, and my parents do not regulate me. But you may think from another angle, and they can't regulate me. I do what I think of. For example, when I first went to the college, some seniors took us out to play, and I would go to play, regardless of time, nine, 10, eleven, everyone chatted together, watching movies, watching MTV ... Later Going home all night may be the first time I went home at twelve o'clock. When I went back, I was already a little scared, and I thought it was over, but I thought that my parents should have fallen asleep again. As a result, as soon as I opened the door, I saw my dad sitting straight there, and said angrily, don't you say that you go home at nine o'clock? I was scared to death. Then Dad said, do you not tell me when you come back and don't call me. Do you know how anxious I am waiting here? Then he slapped on my thigh. This is a big thing for me, because my dad has never hit me. I ran back to my house and cried, crying for a while, my father came in and told me that he was actually very sad because I did not come back at the time of promise. It's okay to come back late, but to tell him, otherwise he doesn't know where he is. He said that Dad hit you with his hands, and his dad hurts. Tian Chuan: I think it is the reason of Dad and his way of handling, which has created your later personality. Xu Ruyun: Yes.

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After graduating, she was holding the mood of working. The 18 -year -old Xu Ruyun entered the folk song restaurant to sing. Soon after, she got the opportunity to sign a record company.

Xu Ruyun: When I first graduated, my classmates invited me to sing to the folk song restaurant. Taiwan's folk song restaurant is a bit like a petty version of Live House. Some students and office workers eat there and listen to you to sing. You can also communicate with them up close. I hit me into that environment by mistake. I remember that a few record companies wanted to talk to me at that time. When they saw me in the folk song restaurant, they said that you sang well, and then showed me their contracts. I don't dare to talk to them, I will take it back to the contract. Some contract periods are jumped in 10 years, and I will not consider that time, because the cost of that time is unbearable. My parents and teachers gave me the educational method, so that I had a more free soul since I was a child. This will allow you to follow your intuition at each stage. I don't know why, when I was young, I had a strange concept of time. I once wrote in my diary. I was going to make my boyfriend at the age of 23, married at the age of 24, and gave birth to children at the age of 25. Looking around, none of the planned things happened. Actually, many of my unexpected life journey happened. So I am not deliberately going to see the contract period, I just want to know what the part that I can't afford is first.

Tian Chuan: Did you decide by signing the brokerage company alone? Xu Ruyun: Yes. Tian Chuan: So I told my father after signing the contract. Xu Ruyun: Yes, because the legal signing contract in Taiwan at that time was 20 years old, I was not enough, so they needed to make up a guardian signature. Tian Chuan: If you don't need a guardian to sign, would you still tell his father? Xu Ruyun: I will still tell him. Since my father hit me, I told him that everything would be told to him in the future, then he also asked me to do what I wanted to do. So I never cheated him again, and told him everything. He really didn't limit me, and let me do it. Tian Chuan: It's good, the relationship between you is very mature and very adult. Xu Ruyun: Yes, I think it is important for children to respect each other. △ Xu Ruyun's first album "pleased"

Xu Ruyun: My first record "Pod" may be the worst album sold in the early days. But my boss didn't say anything, and I didn't ask anything. This record is more ideological. It is weird. Wearing some bird cages on your body, there are many petals on his face. Now it ’s really avant -garde, I like this feeling. I am afraid that when I listen to my album, I don't want to hear. Fortunately, I listened to every song of each album, but I haven't found it so far.

"My world, almost only gray is left"

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Starting from the second album "Sea of ​​Tears", Xu Ruyun has two albums each year, and the sales of each record are hundreds of thousands of millions. Xu Ruyun sang a golden song, from CD, radio, KTV, sang to people's hearts.

Tian Chuan: I am very curious about you, a 20 -year -old girl, how can you hold the pain in the song? Xu Ruyun: First of all, it may be because my voice itself has fragile traits. Those love songs also have fragile traits, and there is an incomplete beauty. Then I like the sky and horses. I think I can easily enter the situation of the lyrics. Also, I am a little bit afraid of injury. I don't worry that I will become too sad, too painful, or invest more feelings. So when I was a kid, I was also a person who loved in love. I think people must collide themselves in their youth and break their heads to know what they want. When you listen to others' experience, it may still be painful or itchy. Only when you really hit, do you know what it feels like.

△ Xu Ruyun's album "Tears"

Tian Chuan: Why suddenly decided at the age of 29 and stopped working when he was in a successful career? Xu Ruyun: Maybe because my first job is a singer. After doing it for a long time, when you come home one day, especially after returning from many people's concerts, the sense of emptiness becomes particularly strong. Of course, there are other fuses. I reached the critical point of emotion with my boyfriend who had been dating for 7 years and decided to break up peacefully. I felt like there were many things at the end. If my job has ended one day, where should I go? At that time, I didn't know what I was talking about. Once on the show of Xiao Yan, she told me that you can finally relax. So only people who experienced Xiao Yan could see that I didn't relax at all in the show. I think girls are very important when they are 29th and 30 years old. At that time, there will be many crossroads of life, and you must choose clearly. I was solved in a packet of chaos at the time. It really couldn't solve it for a while, so I had to spend time slowly sorting out one by one.

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At the age of 29, the record contract came to an end. Xu Ruyun said that he didn't want to renew his contract. She went to New York, the farthest city -New York, to become a student. Among the various people in New York, Xu Ruyun spent an unforgettable year.

Tian Chuan: When I first went to New York, wouldn't it be more nervous to change to a strange environment? How can I make myself more relaxed than in a familiar environment? Xu Ruyun: For example, I used to wear high heels in Taiwan. In New York, the road in New York is difficult to walk. There are many potholes, and it has a twisted road. One day I did n’t wear high heels when I went out. When I went out, I found that this road is too good. From my home to school, we can only choose the most convenient way to wear high heels, but I can walk this one today and take that one tomorrow. I think New York is a watershed. After arriving in New York, my friends felt like I became another person. After returning from New York, in addition to taking off the high heels, I can live alone, or I can go to the movie alone, eat ... You can do a lot of things alone. The point is that I enjoy it very much.

△ "Comparison" Xu Ruyun

Xu Ruyun: When I was in New York, I had to change the house for a while, and I didn't find it. One day I ran home with heavy rain, and I found that the phone was lost after returning. At that time, the lease lease was expired in less than 10 days. I turned on the computer and suddenly jumped out of a rental information without pictures. I think it may be the last step. I seem to have no way to see this house, so I went to see the house. At that time, it was a door for a girl who felt comfortable. I liked her house very much at a glance. She said okay, then I will rent it to you, but can you give me half a year's rent first. I promised her if I didn't want to think at the time. After getting up the next day, I went to remit money. After getting it up, I called her and said, Katie, I am going to get your key. Is it okay now? She was embarrassed. I may not be able to let you come over today. Can we make an appointment in two days? I was stunned. Tian Chuan: Is this deceived? Xu Ruyun: She later said that you will call me again tomorrow. We see whether it is about tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. When I hung up the phone, I was really anxious, and turned to the convenience store to buy the first bag of cigarettes in my life. After I came out, I sat at the door of the convenience store. When I smoked the first cigarette, the whole person was dizzy and dizzy. I think this is the test of my trust in people. Because I will leave home and come to New York, it may be because I have some distrust of people. At that time, the transformation of the record company was also emotionally changed. I thought, if my life is to confirm that "people can't trust", I think it is OK, then I will go home and never believe others anymore. That night I didn't sleep almost overnight, and called Katie the next day. I said I can go to you now? She said that I just finished everything today. Come on, I will give you the key. Listening to her saying that I was put down in my heart, but because I hadn't got the key, and before the last moment, I still couldn't relax. Tian Chuan: Is it smooth after going? Xu Ruyun: You see that I am sitting here happily, and I know what the ending is. Later, Katie and I became very good friends, and there are still connections until now. I think it is this incident that let me re -believe people and know that people are right. If she really ran away at the time, maybe the world after 30 years old was gray. Tian Chuan: Before going to New York, I took a lot of questions, where would I retrieve myself after staying there for a year? Xu Ruyun: I think so, I think I found my original intention. After returning from New York, I value more is the value of the matter itself. I don't look at the size of the matter, just look at its weight. △ Xu Ruyun album

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After returning from New York, Xu Ruyun made a variety of creations. She made music albums. She wrote poetry, photography, participating in movies and drama, and sharing health experience ... Whether it is text, notes, or images, she is sincere in the work. On the title page of this collection of poems "Be careful", the gift she wrote to me was "protecting your girl's heart".

Tian Chuan: I feel that you will never neglect yourself with your personality, especially when you are 39 years old, you will not get married because of getting married. Xu Ruyun: Yes, I will never do this. When you find someone who can accept your complete appearance, I think this is the so -called right person. Especially, like me growing up in different places, different life, different languages, and respect for each other at this time, I think it is particularly important. Tian Chuan: Do you communicate in English? Xu Ruyun: Yes, in English. Tian Chuan: Is that no quarrel? Xu Ruyun: Also quarreled, but it would not be so hurtful. Sometimes when we speak in our own language, we may not know the other party. I think the two people who can finally come together must have the same life values. The alienation on the soul is the most terrible, so we say that the soul partner is in a spiritual fit. I know what you are talking about, and you know what I am talking about. In this part, I think two people need to continue to develop new things in order to advance with the times. If one party stagnates, two people will easily follow. It becomes what I tell you one, you actually listen or not, I think it is terrible. I like to move forward.

Director: Wang Yan

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