"Star Han Lily" is abducted in the name of love, how suffocating the motherly love of "good for you" is suffocating

The broadcast of "Star Han", what I never expected to see the suffocating mother and daughter in the costume drama. Originally, the love of the sweet male and female owners, but the majority of netizens were so angry that Xiao Yuanyi's attitude towards Cheng Shaoshang was so angry.

The father of the heroine Cheng Shaoshang is the general of the war, and the mother is also a prestigious female general on the battlefield. Seeing this, everyone will say the famous door. Parents are loving and properly contained in a golden spoon.

However, when Cheng Shaoshang was born, she was not born. As soon as she was born, her parents needed to go to the front line. After fifteen years, she never returned home.

Later, I finally returned home. I thought I saw a daughter with a sloppy daughter, but what she didn't want to see was a daughter full of ghosts and no educated daughters. This made Xiao Yuanyi, who originally wanted to make up, shifted the attention point, and eagerly wanted to correct Cheng Shaoshang's bad habits and start hard. He was ruthless, picked up faults, forced reading, and did not read. When you make a mistake, you always compare your children with other children's children ...

It is no exaggeration to say that for such a long time, he never praised his daughter. When there are rare mothers and piety, they also measure the size of clothes for their daughters. In the end, I still have to hit my daughter. The reason is: beating you for you!

Xiao Yuanyi saw only the daughter who did not meet her expectations, but did not see the difficult survival of left -behind children. Cheng Shaoshang's grandmother was a male and female, and her uncle was so poisonous that she was relieved to Cheng Shaoshang. The left -behind child Cheng Shaoshang has known to see people's faces since he was a child, pretending to be stupid, and tricks. It is just to live to the present by relying on these crooks.

Xiao Yuanyi is a prestigious female general. She uses the tough method of the army to regulate the tutorial of the lessons. It is a little unpleasant and severely punished the family law. As a result, the relationship between mother and daughter is becoming more and more tense. Cheng Shaoshang is not eager for motherly love, and he is getting fading with affection.

In my opinion, Xiao Yuanyi does not love his daughter, but the way of love is not the same. In fact, there is no parent who does not love his children in the world. Xiao Yuanyi is just going out all year round. Get along with her daughter, but after returning home, every bit of my daughter is always concerned.

Although he always spoke to reprimand his daughter, he was still afraid that Erxi took the bad way to take a bad way, and even torn her dignified face in marriage with her dignified faces. His daughter is better, in fact, this is also the hard work of the mother.

Xiao Yuanyi is a microcosm of the shortcomings of Chinese -style education. For example, parents have to "straighten" the idea of ​​"straightening" in accordance with their own wishes, and to define their children without authorization. The child's growth is derogatory education. Often hanging "children's children" to their mouths, but I can't see the excellence of their own children, and compare their children in front of outsiders. This way may be to be motivated in this way, but completely ignores it completely After the child's feelings, the more the children want, the more children want to do against you. "

Xiao Yuanyi was a prestigious general in front of outsiders, and the dignified mother -in -law, but in front of her child, she failed. The two sons were educated by her method of educating her as a soldier.

She is absolutely majestic in front of her child. Like most parents in China, she can't pull her face to admit that there are some places in some places. Just like the case in the play in the play, the people present are clear that they are present. The servant took it away and wanted to support his master, and Xiao Yuanyi was unwilling to admit that he had misunderstood his daughter. Even if he knew the truth, he was eccentricized to the cousin. Even the servant did not have to get a heavy penalty. This is like a hard -working parent and is unwilling to admit that he is wrong. Because to ensure your right to speak and majesty, he never thought about what psychological impact it would bring to the child.

Potential, hard mouth, derogatory education, grow up according to your own ideas. These flags of "good for you" are everywhere in China, often suffocating. In fact, this self -righteous love will push the child further and further.

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