"Cross -Strait Family": Respect is the key to the long -term harmony of the family

"Marriage really requires a lot of courage. Geographical distance, difference in family concept ... But as you understand each other, you find that the family concepts on both sides actually have a lot of similarities. In fact, it can be overcome. "

It is understood that there are currently more than 400,000 marriages registered on the mainland. In the special seminars of the 2022 Cross -Strait Youth Summit in Beijing a few days ago, most of them shared their own happy feelings for "cross -strait families".

"Respect" is the key to the harmonious marriage and family

This year is the 20th year of Ding Wenyun, who came to Beijing in Taipei. After graduating from Soochow University in Taiwan, in order to circle his father's "Concord Dream", Ding Wenyun gave up his opportunity to further studies in the United States and came to Beijing Union Medical College. He is now a doctor.

Ding Wenyun still remembers that she and Wang Qiang, who are in the same association, met on May 31, 2005. In the process of studying and work, they appreciated, familiar with each other, and knew each other.

Wang Qiang bluntly stated that in the process of growing up with Ding Wenli, there is a big difference in living environment, living habits or ideas. "It is no exaggeration to say that my growth environment when I was a child may be different from her. That is to say, many of my life experiences are similar to her father's experience."

Along the way, the two of them lamented, whether the combination of two people or the fusion of two families, the most critical of which should be the word "respect". Respecting the other person's thoughts, respecting the other party's family, and abandoning the idea and practice of "it is not human" is the key to families on both sides for a long time.

"Red and Black" love Italian

Compared with this pair of doctors and partners, the happiness experience of the "singer group" of the male treble Black Haitao and the female tweeter Hong Lingyu has a little twists and turns and legends.

Born in Yan'an, Shaanxi, Black Haitao met with Hong Lingyan, who was born in Taichung, Taiwan in 1989 in Rome, Italy. At that time, Black Haitao, who was studying in Vienna, went to Italy to participate in the competition. The visa was not smooth. Only with Pavarotti's invitation telegram, he successfully obtained his visa.

Later, when Hei Haitao recorded the show on Italian TV station, Hong Lingzheng was pulled by the show group to translate him, and the two were familiar with each other. "Just in the past few months, I have no sense of rejection at the beginning of this‘ territory, humorous ’male treble, and I feel that this person's professionalism is still pretty good." Hong Lingyu said.

In 1994, Hong Lingzheng returned to Taiwan to teach. In the era when cross -strait exchanges were not so smooth, she thought that the relationship between the two might have to be drawn. However, the opportunity for Hei Haitao to perform in Taiwan allows the two to meet in Taiwan and register to get married in Taiwan.

"We know five years of marriage and live in two places after marriage. In 1999 and 2001, he settled in Beijing with me."

Hong Lingzhang told everyone that their daughter is Hei Jiahong, one named Heiyouhong, and the other named Heiyi, named Both of them combined with the surnames of the two, and also learned and loved music.

Because of the expectations of a better life to stay on the mainland

When Lin Jinzheng graduated from undergraduate, he just caught up with the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games. Attracted by the singing of "Welcome to Beijing", Lin Jinzheng applied for graduate students at Peking University and met Zhang Shu in the same class.

When he introduced herself on the first day of enrollment, Zhang Shu was impressed by Lin Jinzheng. Slowly, the two discovered many common hobbies and met many common friends.

"This is a very interesting thing. Although we are in Jinan, one in Taipei, there is no intersection before graduate students. But after knowing it, we found that the singers and the songs that I like to listen to when we were young are the same. wonderful."

Lin Jinzheng recalled that at the time both liked the song "Because of Love", and later became their fixed love song.

Lin Jinzheng said that he came to the mainland because of a song and a city, and let him choose to stay with the expectations of a better life in the future, as well as the mission and dream of this generation of young people. The two children are named Mengmeng, and the other is Yuanyuan, both of which are from grandpa.

Because Lin Jinzheng and Zhang Shu work in Beijing's banks, dreams and Yuanyuan are also studying in the mainland. Lin Jinzheng feels that the basic education of the mainland is relatively solid. Teachers pay attention to the cultivation of children's learning habits. In recent years, schools have also paid great attention to traditional cultural education and physical exercise. Zhang Shu also hopes that children can learn more about Taiwan's customs and customs. After the epidemic is stable, the child is sent to Taiwan in the summer vacation, lived with grandparents for a while, and then participated in the summer camp to know the children of Taiwan.

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