Is it the best solution to the fear of love?

NO.01

From "20 years old" to "Half Cooked Lovers" to "90 Wedding Institute", love variety shows can be described as blossoming in China, and it has also set off a large number of audiences and "online CP".

Whenever I see my favorite CP relationship progress, I can't help but scream like a mouse, and I can't help but sigh that I want a sweet love.

Love itself is the most attractive part of human emotions. At the same time, young people always have a huge desire and illusion about love, so when we look at love, it is easy to bring ourselves into it. , Thus arise the urge to talk about a love.

NO.02

One day I brushed those CPs that I have once been having now, and asked my friends A: "Do you still want to fall in love now?"

Xiao A said, "Just talk about it, you will not take it seriously, I don’t want to fall in love."

Most people just say that they want to fall in love like Xiao A, but they never really fall in love. This "mouth cannon love" is the status quo of many young people in contemporary contemporary. They chase sweet dramas and envy the sweet love around them. In their eyes, love seems to just talk in their mouths.

In the Internet, "love in fairy tales is fake", "right people depend on, etc.", "be careful of hurting in love" and other remarks. Subconscious. A positive view of love may also be interpreted as "other people's love". In the end, the love concept of love and guidance has turned these "mouth lovers" into a yearning but dare not love. Essence

#小# has always had a good expectation for love, but she saw too many bad love experiences on the Internet. She found that if she really loved in love, she may not meet the prince. So she thinks that once she starts to fall in love, she may encounter bad things, it is better to be single.

#'S friend has just ended the love for three years. Before that, everyone always thought they could go to the end. The experience of a friend makes Xiao E feel that love is like an adventure. To consume your youth and your energy, you may not have a beautiful ending. Since a person can live well, why should you fall in love with risks.

Instead of featuring the last place in their eyes, it is better not to start. Fear of all kinds of problems encountered in love, then simply not to fall in love. But are they really happy like this?

NO.03

There is no ending without a beginning. If you refuse to start in love because you are afraid of unsatisfactory ending, you may miss a beautiful memory.

Single is not a bad thing. It is also a good way to enjoy a person's life and please yourself. But because of fear, I dare not enter love, and I can't get the best single state. Such a life cannot make myself happy.

Whether choosing to be single or in love is a respectable lifestyle. If you want to be single, enjoy single life as much as you want; if you want to fall in love, you will boldly go. I want to fall in love but I am afraid I dare not try. In the end, I may not enjoy the single nor the sweetness of love.

In this era of materialism, it was normal for us to affected love and fear. It's just that, because you see some bad things, it is not advisable to be afraid of love.

There are all kinds of people and various things in the world. There is no need to have some probability events, and then start to distorting their outlook on love and closed their hearts. In any case, we should adhere to our own ideas, maintain the correct view of love, believe in love, and dare to strive for love. So how is the correct view of love?

We should love ourselves and be true ourselves before falling in love. Being yourself is the most correct way to open love. Carina Lau once said, "You have to chase a better self in your independent life world." Only when we love ourselves and be ourselves can we live every day of a good life. If you deliberately change yourself for love, you will not get true happiness.

At the same time, we must cherish feelings and respect. Being blindly starting a period of love is not only irresponsible to yourself, but also unfair to others. If you are not ready to accept a relationship, don't start at will.

Don't fall in love because of loneliness

Don't fall in love because of moving

Don't fall in love because people around you are in love

I hope that in this impetuous world, we can all meet a sincere love that takes slowly, it can be a little later, but I hope it can stay a little longer.

Source Media Talk

China Youth Daily · China Youth Network Production

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