The child ’s secondary entrance examination score is announced, so I understand where the parents lose

In July, for those who are candidates at home, every day, it is like burning under the scorching sun.

The results were revealed, a few happy and more sad, high scores are unsatisfactory, full of confidence; low scores and sighs, full of sorrow. No matter how rational people are, they cannot be indifferent. When the emotions cover up their senses, the "family war" is immediately touched.

In fact, the true wise parents, after the children's secondary entrance examination scores were announced, they did not blame their children, regret, but to reflect on themselves, find out the crux, and correct them, encourage the children to be brave, and continue to write the legend.

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Tutoring finally said that parents are the templates of their children. If they want their children to be good, they will make themselves good enough.

It is often said that children are a copy of their parents. What kind of parents are there, what kind of children are there.

A family who does not like to study, it is difficult to bred a child with a book rolling;

A pair of parents who love to play mobile phones are difficult to make their children actively embrace learning;

A house without fireworks is difficult to make children love life.

Too many parents are always habitually imposed on their children's desires that they have never realized, and look forward to their dreams for themselves.

Therefore, the requirements for the child are the ideal look: perfect, no shortage.

And the requirements for yourself are doing your best, even if you don't do it.

What I can't do myself is forcing the child to do it. This requirement itself is full of paradox, and it also violates the nature of people. Of course, it will not be accepted by the child.

Therefore, instead of "chicken baby", it is better to "chicken itself".

As the news reported in the news, some accompanying mothers, regardless of the zero foundation and age, in order to set an example for the children, all the sufferings in learning, all "win", and even use excellent grades to the threshold of the university of Shiyi, or I have been admitted to graduate students one step than my son and daughter.

The son does not teach, the father's life; the teaching is not strict, the teacher's lazy.

On the way to children's study, find "parent" positioning, let the child be to be yourself, and remind themselves at all times, not offside and good, while giving themselves unconditional love while giving themselves good peak.

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Being a person is more important than learning, and sound personality is more important than simply getting high scores.

A teacher friend told a little thing that touched him: the class leader was selected at the beginning of the school. It is the best candidate about the squad leader in the mind of the teacher.

Of course, scores are important, which is an advanced "stepping stall". But the more important thing is the character. A person who can be a man can "eat and mix it."

With the correct values, how can students who have developed comprehensive development of morality and physical development make people not love?

The more he reaches the senior grade, the more you discover that the interaction between students does not depend on the worship of scores and Natsume, but to develop the respect of the character.

Optimistic, positive, fair, and kind. When our children are using these as ruler and benchmarks more and more, they show that they are beginning to become rational and mature.

Similarly, parents are constantly growing in this process, and they are more pursuing whether they do their best in the learning process, and no longer stare at the final score; pay more attention to the development of learning habits and the development of living habits, and no longer no longer. Just stare at learning.

The child's love for life, the pursuit of ideals, and the yearning for the future can be fundamentally leveraged to leverage his internal learning ability to go forward.

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Even if the "detours" have been counted, so that children can grow in setbacks to avoid the growth of seedlings.

Different high school entrance examination results will become the first watershed in life. People who are high in the high school are high probability that the college entrance examination is high. It also expands.

If you fall again and again, you can stand up again and again, and find hope in the adversity. Then, no matter which school you are studying and what profession you are engaged in, you can fly against the wind and find your own sky.

But the key to the problem is, can children eat this suffering? Is parents willing to let their children try hard to come out?

In this process, parents' encouragement, support, and guidance often plays a vital role.

Perhaps, the mother's sentence "Sleep early, come again tomorrow." The father's sentence: "Dad believes you!" It can become a life -saving straw when the child wants to give up when the grade is bad.

May wish to tell the child that he has a lot of choices. The first option is not good, and there are the second and third options. Perhaps those roads have more effort, but everything is possible.

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End words:

This summer, I hope you treat the child in that middle school entrance examination well. Of course, you must not praise and encourage it. That is the affirmation and recognition of their past. If you do n’t take good exams, do n’t humiliate your children, or pass on the negative emotions of discouraged and broken jars.

As a parent, you must "be as stable as Taishan", and he can guide him without chaos, and he will create a miracle in the future.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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