68 college entrance examination identity exposure, netizens: with this family background, no wonder it is stable ...

Every excellent child has traces behind.

Its roots are parents.

The results of the college entrance examination are released, and the champions in various places have been released one after another.

Some let classmates say 18 "good" words in one breath;

Some children have scored 900 points, so that the family is boiling!

Some scores in the two subjects, with a total score of 700 points, making the teacher run 3 floors in a breath.

There are also old -fashioned old father who burst into tears and wiped tears ...

Parents have said in the group: Children in other people are really envious! Take good luck ...

However, if you carefully observe the stories behind these "fairy" children, you will find:

There is any amazing miracle, but it is a causal and effect.

Some media interviewed 68 college entrance examinations across the country and found that their family education methods have amazing similarities:

Behind them, they stood by the ferry.

The guidance of those parents at key nodes, the environment created for a long time, the influence of four or two pounds ...

Its cause is in the family. Its roots are parents.

Parents' long -term family environment:

Putting thoughts, raising habits

The 700 -point test mentioned earlier, the teacher who climbed the teacher with a storm was called Liang Juntian, from Mianyang, Sichuan.

What's even more amazing is that his mathematics and physics have gained full scores.

Candidates of Xueba are generally divided into two types: talent and skills.

Liang Juntian said that he was a typical technical hegemony, because his study and test had methods and skills.

When asked about learning experience, he said, "It is important to lay a good foundation from an early age. It is important to develop good learning habits."

He will plan the time, whether at school or at home, always study and then play.

He often communicates with the teacher, and if he doesn't, he will ask, breaking the casserole to the end.

More importantly, learning habits are very good, do not complete a day of learning tasks, and do not want to play.

How important is it to develop good learning habits from an early age?

Last year, Wuhan, Hubei Wuhan, dominated Qu Xuan and took 693 points in the college entrance examination.

But in the eyes of her classmates, she was a "dark horse".

Qu Xuan (right) and class teacher Cai Jinrong

why would you say so?

Because in high school, her grades were not high.

But in the third year of high school, she basically ranked among the top exams.

Speaking of her method of counterattack, Qu Xuan's class teacher only said: "Her foundation is particularly solid, and her learning habits are particularly good."

And Qu Xuan's mother said directly: "I rarely worry about when she was in high school."

But if you really understand "rarely worry" and understand the two -handed "let go of", then it is wrong.

Today's worrying is to be able to cultivate and cultivate their parents' patience when they were young.

Qu Xuan's mother said she wanted her daughter to develop a reading habit.

Therefore, when the child goes to a kindergarten, she tells her a story book in a acting role. Later, every time the child performs well, he will ask the book as a reward.

As long as she gives her a book, she can read a day.

Therefore, when she grows up, Qu Xuan likes reading. When reading and studying, she is very focused.

So you see, what is true release?

It is thought, and it is habit.

I have seen a lot of parents' interviews and found that the genius cannot be copied, but there must be a trace of excellence.

The mother of Yang Chenyu, who was 730 points in the college entrance examination, said when talking about training experience:

"Children must be cultivated from an early age. All habits must help him when he has no ability to think independently."

"The process of monitoring children's habits is very painful. You have to supervise him at all times and pay attention to him.

"You have to discipline yourself, not like many people now, just throwing a child there is OK to hold a mobile phone."

Only when you were a child, the road behind was easy to walk.

Wu Yizhen's mother said:

"Real education is actually fighting for parents."

However, the father -in -law in the educational context is not much house and car, but the educational concept of parents, as well as lifestyle, thinking, and way of life.

Parents' guidance at critical moments

In order to raise the good quality of children

Professor Li Meijin has proposed an interesting phenomenon:

Children who are particularly active on the playground are generally excellent learning.

When the media interviewed the college entrance examination, a very interesting phenomenon was discovered.

They are not "dead reading" nerds, but they are usually playing.

This year, Jiang Yankun in Qingdao, Shandong scored 695 points.

Dad said that he did not let him engage in the tactics of the sea since he was a child.

Tang Chuyi in Hubei is even more interested. He will play piano and can perform dramas. The sports meeting can still take a second place in 200 meters.

Tsinghua talented daughter Wu Yizhen not only read poems, but also wrote good words:

Wu Yizhen Calligraphy

Wu Yizhen Calligraphy

Yang Chenyu is not only the vice president of the badminton club. He has participated in the school's football league, and calligraphy and painting are quite good.

In Shenzhen's Wen Zhuoyue, the college entrance examination composition scored a full score, not only because of solid knowledge, but also because of writing beautiful words.

Meng Linghao in Shandong was admitted to Tsinghua's 711 points. He liked to pull the violin. He started to learn from the fifth grade of elementary school and won the cello 10 certificate.

Three years in high school, you have to practice piano for two hours a day.

Sports, calligraphy, piano, painting ... These hobbies and learning seem to be two things that are not related, but they are essentially the same. Relying on concentration, persistence, self -discipline, and seriousness.

It is the accumulation of persistence and perseverance, and it is the quiet and calm of the cold winter on the court, on the stool, and the desk.

Song Qingling once said: "The children's personality and talents are in the final analysis of the influence of family and parents."

The parents of Xueba knew this, and they guided their children to discover their interests.

In Shandong, Wei Dongyi's father has put a lot of math books in all corners of the house since he was a child. At the age of 7, Wei Dongyi inadvertently opened a copy and was obsessed with forgetting.

That book is called "Hua Luogeng Mathematics".

Later, he won the 49th and 50th International Mathematics Olympic gold medals, and the Qiu Chengtong Mathematics Contest Grand Slam.

People send the nickname "Wei Shen", and the academic world is almost "God".

In Hubei, at the age of 2, Yan Yijin's mother was lying on the table with watercolor pen.

In elementary school, every month, the whole family goes to Wuhan Art Museum to watch an art exhibition.

Later, she liked animation and went shopping.

During the college entrance examination, she won the first place in the art design category of Hubei Province and passed the school test of the Academy of Fine Arts of Tsinghua University.

In Beijing, since the age of 3, Yi Xi Qianxi has been tried by his mother.

Dance, calligraphy, drumming, singing, changing face, blowing gourd ...

From being led by my mother, to slowly discovering her talent, to slowly like it.

Finally, I got the first two firsts of cultural courses and professional results of the Central Academy of Drama.

Is parent alone enough?

not enough.

More importantly, to help children adhere to their interests and talents.

Ying Caier once shared the experience of learning piano with Luhan:

Ying Caier: "Why do you play so well?"

Luhan: "When my mother came out when I was young, she sat next to watching me to practice the piano."

Therefore, Ying Caier asked his son Jasper to study:

"Learning is difficult. There is no other way. You only remember that. Either you pay attention to it, learn as soon as possible, or you will repeat the same pain every day."

Even if the genius is like Langlang, it is also on the night of the night, and the sweat and tears of decades of sweat are intertwined, and everything that is infinitely beautiful.

Cai Kangyong said a paragraph and agreed very much:

At the age of 5, I felt difficult to swim and gave up swimming. At the age of 18, I met someone you like to ask you to swim. You have to say "I can't Ye";

At the age of 18, I feel that English is difficult and give up English. At the age of 28, there is a great job to be English. You have to say "I can't Ye".

In life, there are very few geniuses.

Some children may not be clever, but the reason why they succeed is because under the guidance of their parents, they have found their love and worked hard.

Just like Mo Yan said: the children's excellence is soaked with the sweat of the parents.

Parents are the first teacher of the child, and the child's interest is the seeds of parents sowing.

The subtle way is actually a terrible word.

What you put in is laziness and speculation, and you get a bamboo basket to fight water.

What you put in is time and wholehearted, and you taste hard.

It is not to encourage children to be a school hegemony, nor do they need to cultivate children as academic tyrants.

Each child has his own flash point, but in the course of learning, the persistence, focus, seriousness, and perseverance of cultivation ...

These excellent qualities are worthy of children's life in themselves.

Behind all the amazing miracles is the support of the parents;

Behind all the unknown surprises is the effort to clenched the teeth.

Parents' words and tutoring

Win thousands of words

Writer Baldwin said: "Children will never obediently listen to adults, but they will definitely imitate adults."

Mr. Yang Yan also said when he talked about family education that good education and role models are important.

The good habit of children is actually the self -discipline of parents.

Can a good room layout be raised?

A foreign professor and a construction consulting company investigated more than 200 Xueba families and discovered two secrets to arrange the room.

First, don't keep your children in the children's room.

If you pay attention to observing the education change in recent years, you will find:

There are fewer and fewer questions about death, and descriptive issues gradually increase.

The place where the child was in his homework moved from the children's room to the living room and dining table, and communicated with him more, and encouraged him to express his views.

Discovering the flash point on children will not only improve expression and thinking ability, they will also be more confident and willing to take the initiative to learn.

Second, let the children get books at home at any time.

Any place at home can be used to put the book:

You must put it in the bookcase without sticking to the book.

This is the case for Wu Yizhen's father. The living room, study, bedroom, children's room, bathroom, books can be seen everywhere, from historical philosophy, social science culture, to fable picture books ...

The family read a book together and discussed together.

养 The simplest self -discipline development method

If you feel that your child's self -discipline ability needs to be improved, you can try the method in the "Micro -habit" and refine the child's learning task.

for example:

Turn daily homework, exercise, and turn into half an hour a day, and skip rope for 20 minutes.

As long as the two key actions are completed, this is the success of self -discipline.

For another example, the original requirements for children are "learning English", and now they are changed to a 10 -minute reading text, and 20 words are memorized. Fine things that are difficult and break down into a small goal that children can work hard.

He would not be able to resist, and he was more willing to put it into action.

瘾 Training children "addiction learning"

What? Can learning as addicted to playing games?

Can!

There is a word in psychology called "the law of the end of the peak".

It means that people's feelings of a period of experience are determined by peaks and ending.

We can take the peak of children's usual learning: "Ah, this mathematical problem is too difficult!" At the end: "It's annoying, don't want to learn!"

All becomes as cool as playing games, so that children will continue to receive positive feedback, so that children's learning experience will be happy!

Let's talk about the peak first.

Let children experience small achievements, and timely feedback and encouragement.

"Baby, you are much higher now than before"

"Wow, your words have been written than yesterday."

"Baby, I believe you."

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Look at the end.

Some children have completed their homework, but the parents said, "There is another exercise book, come, let's take advantage of the pursuit."

This will remove the positive experience that the child has accumulated.

Therefore, don't chase while winning, but hang your appetite a little.

When the child is excited to tell you, "I'm done!"

You can say, "It's great, let's rest, do you want to go to the park to play, can I accompany you."

Instead, the child will feel the endless feeling.

Finally, I will share with you the experience of 68 college entrance examinations in the country's college entrance examination:

The most important one is:

Parents are reading books in front of their children, whether it is true or false.

Dong Jiyang, Anhui Richard Science Battle, said:

"Occasionally I hate school, I don't want to read a book, my parents noticed, and didn't say anything, I turned off the TV, sat down to read the book, and saw them reading a book, I was embarrassed to read it."

The power of preaching body education is better than thousands of words, and his ears are died.

If you see other children's children, the word is well practiced, and speaks.

Behind it is that parents have persisted in reading from an early age, bringing their children into nature, seeing the sea, seeing the stars, and seeing the fields, improving his imagination and expression ability.

If you see other people's children, like sports.

Behind it may be accompanied by parents, climbing the mountains on the weekend, riding a car once, and busy putting paper kite while the wind.

Parents who love to read books can raise children who can bear lonely.

Parents who love sports can raise children who are not afraid of sweating.

The famous educator Suhomlinsky said:

At a moment, when you see your child, you can see yourself.

You educate your children, that is, educate yourself, and test your personality.

We are right as our parents, and the child is naturally right.

No way of education is simple.

Like a netizen said:

Parents may not look at Jackie Chan, but everyone wants their children to become a mature and independent adult one day to live their favorite life.

But real freedom is very expensive.

It is nothing more than hard work now, and it will be much more happy in the future.

There is a visionary parent to ignite a fire for the child.

This fire is a high -efficiency companion, a self -discipline, and a persistent effort.

Why the kite flew high because someone staggers on the ground.

How can there be a miracle of overnight fame, but it is the parents' struggle.

How can there be a genius who is born in the sky, but after the night after day, he will compensate for it.

Click "Zan Ye", "forward" out!

Children, come on, countless stars are waiting for you in the future!

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