Every three students have a bullying, and places that cannot be illuminated need to pay attention to

On June 22, the account named "Shao Yibu" Weibo released a Weibo about campus bullying. The actor named Shao Yibu is a child star, starring in "Beidou Fengyun", "Live Live Time", and "Galaxy Tutoring Class" starring Deng Chao and Bai Yu. Shao Yibu's mother You Yongmei released this "campus violence".

Tong Xing Shao Yibu is a 9th grade student in a middle school in Shanghai. Shao Yibu has a gentle personality in his usual personality, very friendly treating friends, and his academic performance is very good. It can be said that Shao Yibu is a very good child. In other words, it is a "child of someone else." But such an excellent child has long been bullied by campus, and was forced to jump off the building without humiliation.

Shao Yibu's hospitalization treatment after being injured

Campus bullying is still a social hidden disease

"All of you are murderers." This is the plot in "You of You" that touched countless people. The perpetrators do not know how to repent. Compared with the plot, the reality is also cruel.

"In the future, you will say, why don't I remember throwing red ink on her, I just play with it. You will say that you have not feed her to eat garbage, have splashed her cold water, and did not pick her clothes. After that, Shushu Tan did not have a little psychological burden. "This is what the bullying female middle school student in the campus bullying drama" Sadness and Flowing into the River "said before jumping into the sea.

Campus bullying has always been a hot topic for social concern. Many people have been treated similar to "campus bullying" when they are young. People can't forget this damage, so they have made bitter fruits in their lives. During this time, the girl star Shao Yibu chose to commit suicide by the school bullying. Mother You Yongmei posted a long article on social platforms, hoping to discuss her daughter justice, let bullyers and shelters be punished for their due punishment, and also called for more people to pay attention to the phenomenon of campus bullying.

Features of campus bullying

According to reports released by UNESCO in 2017 and 2019, the phenomenon of campus bullying in various countries around the world is common. About 246 million students are bullied each year, with an average of one of each three students. Among them, middle school students have the highest frequencies, and groups such as men and their bodies have defects, left -behind children and other groups are susceptible to bullying. This will affect the psychology and body of the victim, and the damage will continue until adulthood.

Campus bullying shows 3 significant features:

I. The opening and graduation season is a high incidence period, and the incidence in the second half of the year is higher than the first half of the year.

2. The National Campus Bullying Survey Report shows that campus bullying presents the distribution form of "central region & western region & eastern region & northeast region". 3. Contrary to traditional cognition, the proportion of harm of girls with good grades and good family backgrounds is higher.

In fact, campus bullying not only includes physical violence, but also online bullying, relationship bullying and speech bullying, limb bullying, including beatings, kicks, palm, grabbing, bite, collision, pulling, robbing property, etc. are the most common. It is also the easiest to discover.

Expert advice

What should we do in the face of campus bullying?

What should we do if the child is bullied by the campus? Professor of China University of Political Science and Law, the director of juvenile crimes and the juvenile judicial research center Pi Yijun said that he would "zero tolerance". "The so -called zero tolerance is not a little bit, and it should be dealt with very strictly." He said that at school, even if a bullied little thing occurs, students who bully others need to reflect in front of the class and let parents get the victims to the victims. The scolded students apologized in public to eliminate a large -scale impact.

Pi Yijun said that the child who bullying others may also have the experience of being bullied. They are very weak inside and obtain false "friendship" in a utilitarian way. If parents find that their children are bullied by others, then they must be clearly expressed that this is wrong. Tell the child to understand the feelings of others and reflect on their education.

Pi Yijun suggested that if parents find that their children are bullied, they should face difficulties with their children, listen carefully, and let their children understand that he is understood and seen. Some bullied children are likely to lack corresponding social skills and protect their ability. Therefore, in family education, it is necessary to allow children to learn from others. For children who are bullied and hurt, Pi Yijun believes that they need to deal with their wounds in time. Don't look too seriously about certain "evaluations" of others, and don't overress them. If you encounter problems that are difficult to solve, you can tell teachers, parents, or ask for help from the outside world.

"There is a problem with a teenager. This is the responsibility of the society. It is also that the society has not put the campus bullying to the agenda." Pi Yijun called for the school to jointly formulate a campus convention on preventing campus bullying. Each school can be based on the school. The actual situation is done to form a campus atmosphere to resist campus bullying.

According to Article 39 of the newly revised "Protection Law of the Minor": the school shall establish a student bullying prevention and control work system to carry out education and training of students and students to prevent students' bullying.It should be pointed out that campus bullying and campus violence are different.According to the "Prevention and treatment of bullying and violent guidance of primary and secondary school students and violent guidance" written by the Department of Basic Education of the Ministry of Education, campus violence focuses on damage to the life and property of teachers and students.Observed. "Comprehensive arrangement on: People's Daily, Upstream News, Red Star News, Volkswagen Network

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