Some children seem to be naughty. In fact, early Hui, parents use the right method, don’t cultivate genius into mediocre talents

Han Yu, a writer of the Tang Dynasty, wrote in the "Horse" that there were Bole in the world, and then there were thousands of miles. Thousands of miles are often available, and Bole is not often available.

For many years, I found that raising children is similar to raising horses.

After being discovered by Bole, Qianlima became a thousand miles, otherwise it would "humiliate the hands of the slave people, died between the slot, and did not call it thousands of miles."

Most of the genius children or children who say early. When he encounters parents who do not understand education, it is easy to be raised as ordinary children. As a result, genius has been developed by mediocrity and even abandoned.

Therefore, when parents encounter early Hui Hui's children, they must be cautious and use the right method. Otherwise, it is easy to cultivate genius into mediocre talents.

One of my friends is a university teacher, and her lover is also taught at the university. Their only son, Xiao He, feels a little talented.

The academic performance is not to mention. From the first grade to the fifth grade, Xiaohe is among the best in the class.

In addition, Xiaohe has a wide range of hobbies and likes to read. He is not reading novels that read easily and easy to read, but most of the books, such as "Historical Records", "Twenty -Four History", etc. Books that are hard to understand, such as "Is God Rolling Dice" (a book in quantum physics, can I say that I haven't heard it), and "Relators" and so on.

Friends said that most of the books in the family, her son was interesting, she admired it.

In the third grade, Xiaohe was able to do mathematical problems in the fifth grade. In the fourth grade, Oga began to watch junior high school physics and chemistry.

Xiao He could say that he could not speak his parents. He also had the spirit of exploration, and often tangled his parents to ask why he was annoyed by his parents.

Even Xiao He's way of thinking is different from his peers.

On one occasion, he wrote a Chinese volume. Xiao He said that the teacher must let them write "resourcefulness" and "magical machines", but he did not write like this. He wrote "the old treacherous" and "insidious cunning".

Yes, from the perspective of Zhuge Liang's opponent, isn't he just described as Xiao He described it?

We all believe that Xiaohe IQ is quite like genius children. But in my friend's opinion, Xiao He's problems made her headache very much.

The reason is that Xiaohe does not like to write homework, the classroom discipline is average, there is no concept of time, and his ability to take care of himself is not good.

Friends said that since the first grade, Xiao He has not been able to complete the holiday assignment once. As soon as he takes a holiday, he has entered the self -mode of flying. time.

Holiday homework is like this, and the usual homework is almost the same. Usually, as long as there are more homework, Xiao He doesn't like to write, you can drag it, and you can't write it before you can't write it. Often, he can't write much, so he goes to bed directly.

Xiao He was also joking with his classmates because he often couldn't finish his homework.

In terms of life, Xiao He always has no time to have time. He is a late king in the class. He can't change it by the teacher many times. My friend is embarrassed.

In the morning, my friend urged Xiao He. People were not in a hurry and were late. Friends do not urge, Xiao He is even more panicked, and he is late for a long time.

My friend was almost worried.

We all comfort her. Xiaohe is already excellent. Do you want to cultivate perfect children and let other children do?

In fact, she also wants to be tolerant of the child, but the pressure from the teacher makes her very anxious and don't know how to cultivate the child.

Coincidentally, the situation of a girl in the Treasure House is similar to Xiao He.

The girl is called Jiajia. She has a good academic performance and a lot of literacy.

If my daughter is like Jiajia, I must wake up with dreams. But Jiajia's parents and grandparents did not think so.

In their opinion, there are too many problems on Jiajia.

For example, when I love to talk in class, I am too lively. I like to make trouble with my classmates, and often annoyed others or unhappy herself.

For example, Jiajia often feels depressed in class and does not like to answer the teacher's questions. Even if the question can, she does not actively raise her hand.

In the past small tests, the topic was not difficult to Jiajia at all, but she couldn't get a full score, either to read the wrong number, or to count the wrong question, or write the wrong word.

Jiajia's parents had strict requirements on her, scolding a few words and playing a few times.

But even so, Jiajia could not meet their requirements.

I believe that in life, there are many children like Xiaohe and Jiajia. They seem to have a lot of shortcomings. They are both naughty and headache, but in fact they are children of early Hui Hui and have the potential of thousands of miles.

If you have such a child at home, parents must cultivate with their hearts and use the right method, otherwise they will cultivate genius into mediocre talents, which is a pity.

In response to this situation, education expert Teacher Yin Jianli pointed out that three points need to pay attention to:

First of all, do not have the idea of ​​cultivating perfect children.

Secondly, it is necessary to accept children's uniqueness.

Third, in family life, we must quit hardships and horizontal.

Like Xiaohe's mother, although she has been working hard to correct her son's shortcomings, she has been working hard, but she is not cultivating perfect children?

In life, people admit that there are differences in individual children, but once a child's behavior is different, parents will worry and try to change their children.In fact, this is not necessary. What parents have to do is to accept the children's uniqueness, guide the child, and try to help the children as much as possible.The third point is especially given to Jiajia's parents. They set too many rules for their children in their family life. They are too harsh to children and have no freedom. This is very unfavorable to the growth of children.

It is often said that there are too few geniuses, but it is not too few talents, but that geniuses are easily strangled.

When parents meet a early child, even if he is naughty, careless, and noisy, there are such disadvantages, not to correct him, but please give him the right guidance.

Please treat himself as a Bole, discover him, and guide him. Otherwise, the genius becomes a mediocre talent, and parents regret it.

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