Bring a baby in the summer, what are the "unique secrets" of grandparents

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● Time: June 21st

● Location: Creation Club, Wuhan Road Community Service Center, Wuhan Road Community, Jianxi District

● Moderator: Wang Chunyan, deputy director of the Wuhan Road Community Neighborhood Committee of Jianxi District

● Opening remarks: The summer is approaching, and some elders are starting to prepare to "work" to look at the grandchildren. It not only uses the advantages of the elders to nurture the third generation, play a role in reducing the burden on children, but also overcome the disadvantages of the intergenerational babies, and help children get better education and growth. What are the "unique secrets" of grandparents? Today we invite several residents to talk together, and everyone has been inspired.

Guest appearance

Pan Meiqin: Residents of Wuhan Road Community, Jianxi District, 70 years old

"Unique Tip": Education should "vote for it", the child is happy, and I am immersed in it

Reading poetry together, playing with plant vs. Zombies ... Every summer, my grandson and I not only look for happiness in the game, but also "poems and far away." This year's grandson is in the second year, we are like friends, and his academic performance is excellent.

I used to be a teacher, my mother -in -law was a doctor. As soon as the grandson was born, the two of us discussed: I am responsible for education and she is responsible for health. But things changed in the summer of the year.

The grandson was 4 years old. He lived in my house for a while. I found that the child was not "ruled". Take the easiest problem to eat the most of the sorbers, he can eat a few days without any restraint. After a few days of observation, I couldn't sit still, and I was going to start the "renovation plan".

I made a daily record table, which sets standards such as sleeping on time, helping others, and eating independently. If he performs well, he can stick red flowers, otherwise black flowers. After a week of running -in, the grandson began a "regular life".

I also use a reward mechanism to motivate children to learn enthusiasm. After reciting a Tang poem every day, the grandson ran over and said to me with joy every time he recited, "How about my back?" At this time, I will not only encourage them in language, but also reward him with a star sticker. He gained a sense of accomplishment and became more active afterwards.

Education is sometimes "voted for it", children are happy, and I am immersed in happiness.

Zhao Hongchen: Residents of Wuhan Road, Wuhan Road, Yanxi District, 68 years old

"Unique Tip": Take the child to broaden the horizon and cultivate the heart of benevolence from an early age

After taking the task of bringing children, we have a heavy responsibility on our shoulders. Especially in the summer vacation, I sometimes take my child to swim. The first task is to ensure safety. To make children familiar with the common sense of wading, be vigilant, and beware of accidents.

In the education of granddaughter to the foreign granddaughter, my educational philosophy is "teaching and focusing on raising". In the summer vacation, I will take my children to visit the library, museum, and science and technology museums to broaden their children's vision; take the children to the countryside, go to the field to experience Rural life, recognize all kinds of crops; you can also bring condolences to visit the empty nest and live alone in the jurisdiction with their children to send them warmth and love; to participate in some obligations labor, cultivate children's benevolence since childhood heart of.

Some elderly friends think that bringing grandchildren is not our business, and parents should do it by themselves. But I don't think so, this is what I should do, and I also enjoyed such a joy.

Hearing the granddaughter yelling kindly: "Grandpa, grandpa!" The two of us were sweeter than eating honey. Looking at the granddaughter's longer and taller, more and more sensible, we are very pleased. The old man with a baby is the need for society and family, and it also reflects a strong affection.

Zhang Zhongjie: Residents of Wuhan Road, Wuhan Road, Jianxi District, 69 years old

"Unique Tip": close to nature, contact the society more, and allow children to improve the comprehensive quality

The way of our granddaughter to bring a foreign granddaughter is "free -range", but I pay more attention to children's moral education, and learning to be the most important topic in life.

The children in the city are rarely close to nature, so I will take the child to approach nature every summer and let her feel the wonderfulness of nature.

Summer is a season of peaches mature. In the summer, we will enter orchards to pick, learn about agricultural common sense, and experience the fun of labor. Everyday, I will bring granddaughter to participate in recitation, dance and other activities. During the event, my granddaughter learned knowledge and broaden their horizons; I met new friends, learned to get along with others, and looked at my granddaughter a little progress. We were very pleased.

Now some parents laughed when they saw the child a hundred points. Once there was an error, he lost his temper. To allow children to make mistakes and guide children to actively reflect on the problem, not just blindly.

I hope to improve the comprehensive quality of granddaughter, let her adapt to society and have a happy life.

Jiang Yaping: Residents of Wuhan Road Community, Jianxi District, 69 years old

"Unique Tip": The grandchildren and grandchildren learn together, accompany the children to grow, and enrich themselves

There are two grandsons in my family, and I am accompanied by the boss. But in the process of getting along with him, I deeply felt that this little man also had a place worth learning. In the process of getting along with them, I also learned a lot of new knowledge.

My grandson particularly likes to listen to "Uncle Kai's Story". There, I learned about Mars, aerospace planes, nuclear submarines and other related knowledge. In the summer, I will help my grandson to make a study plan, and I am also a participant in the plan. My grandson and I chose the book for the other party. After reading each day, I repeated the stories I read with each other.

The process of growing up with my children is also the process of enriching and improving myself. Children are mostly interested in new things such as networks, computers and smartphones, and they are particularly easy to accept. But these are my shortcomings. I often ask my grandson to ask questions and learn new knowledge and new skills. While helping me solve the problem, he will also give children a sense of accomplishment, which can improve exchanges and deepen feelings. But I want to emphasize that "fostering" in the summer must have a degree, and parents cannot let go completely, and they must take more attention to the responsibility of educating their children.

Expert Reviews

● Wang Xi, a three -level psychological counselor of the Jianxi District:

Although the elderly have the disadvantages such as doting, they have more outstanding advantages compared to their children's parents, such as more time and patience in raising children. As long as we can discover well and find the right method, children will be better.

Of course, this is not to say that parents can be a shopkeeper. Parents are still the main caregivers of their children, and they must be responsible. During the conversation, there is a prominent problem -some elderly people play the role of "living steward" when their grandchildren go to school, and they also need a relaxation process during the holidays. As a child, you can travel a parent -child trip to let the hard -working father feel the family and relax the body and mind. (Luo Bao Rong Media reporter Jia Zhen Correspondent Zhang Jing)

Source: Luoyang.com

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