At the age of 21, I lived the worst autumn in my life, too?

I recently saw the word "losers". This time was in the discussion of the failure of Baoyan.

This incident may be far from many people. It is a competition between excellent students. At the university, he has obtained high performance points, high evaluations, a pass, and qualifications for graduate students.

But I still want to talk about this.

This group of Baoji losers.

There are several common characteristics. First, they are after 00, 21 years old;

Second, it is difficult for you to define its next "loser". Bao Yan's score competition is no less than the competition at the Olympic Games. There are no rare examples, the defeated person, and the selected person, only 0.001 points.

Third, the difference between the 0.001 points brought great pain to them.

The Ranking of the Insurance Research Research Scores announced by a certain 985 university, you can zoom in

Some readers came to leave a message. I asked him, what almost ruined you? He returned: He did not get the qualifications of insurance research in the slightest difference.

The 21 -year -old young man was trapped in the failure of this 0.001 point.

Someone will ask this 0.001 points. Can I really easily destroy their efforts for more than 20 years?

I will answer this question. I am 26 years old. With my shallow life experience, I used the experience I observed, and I used a batch of examples of the frustrated person I saw in my vision.

0.001 points can not destroy life.

You will have other ways, a new turn. If you do n’t believe you, ask any white -haired old man, and ask them the most regrettable things in their lives, no one will take a defeat test.

However, when I read a self -description of the defeat of the Baoyan, seeing the pain, tears, helplessness, and disappointment that they involved due to this 0.001 points, it prompted me to write this article.

At that time, Zhong Meimei, who was at the time of 13, was asked, what was the most lighter pain? He gave the answer:

"The pain does not distinguish the depth."

Pain is no age.

I talked with a few young people who failed to fail in Baoyan for a long time, and they repeatedly asked me a series of "Is it". They gave a hypothesis to life: Which link can make up for this 0.001?

Is the word written neatly? Is it right? Is it earlier? Is it earlier to open the trick, and the goal of Baoyan will be set up in the freshman year. Any additional points are good? Is it more desperate in the competition? Is that the game that did not miss it because of illness?

is not it……? is not it……?

Countless, as long as your eyes are closed, you will invade you. Great burning and regret hitting their hearts, the more they can't sleep, the more they are enlarged.

Numerous, translated, in fact, it was a fear:

Is it the high point of my life, and the end is at the age of 21?

Did I use all my strength but did not get the result of the result of 21 years old. I didn't turn around in the future?

But in the end, we need to work hard and lucky to accurately catch up with the assumptions of this "Is it"?

I checked some information about the qualifications for insurance research, and I was really shocked.

This is the calculation rules for the research results announced on the official website of the School of International Relations of Peking University. I have excerpted some details:

I am lost at the decimal point. Is this item plus 0.001 points or 0.01 points? I am also lost in various remarks. Should I go to fight for "three good students in the city" or "three good student pacesetters"?

Once I was chatting with a senior, she graduated from one of the most well -known universities in China, and returned to her parent school to share. She said, a little surprised, how did the young people ask the most, how did they have a money to make money?

Everyone has a sense of body, and everyone wears myopia glasses. Just look near. The grades are one more point, and the competition has survived for a while.

Because, far away, it's too far.

But I am still very sad.

I only understand why many people's circle of friends have only one straight line. Excluding those who have no interest in the circle of friends, many people feel that they are not qualified.

There is a set of robber logic with "only ...":

Only when you have a graduate student, you can only dye your red hair, you can learn to drive, you can watch the concert of the band, and you can wield your arms and cheer for every touch of life.

Before that, they would not do anything. Their circle of friends has only one straight line.

But it is such a robber that ruled many people's lives.

So this is also today. I dare not easily use farther far away to soothe these young people. They all understand that they suppress themselves.

But I still want to tell a story, I happened by accident. A little girl who has experienced uncomfortable experience spent great efforts to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination, 396 points, very satisfactory results.

But the national line has risen and cannot be recorded. She ranks 118, and only 40 people apply for the school.

Then, the tumor was found. Vicious. Do surgery, recovery, and recuperation. And, quickly find the second way, while internship, while looking for adjustments.

Of course, the process is very anxious, and these are superimposed together, enough to overcome a 21 -year -old young man.

However, I got some inspiration from this story. I excerpted some of her diary at the time, and you can read it carefully:

"After repeated dying struggle and depression and anxiety, although I couldn't mention my spirit, I was constantly retrieved the adjustment information in my hand. Until tonight, I suddenly saw a message, and then I realized it. I don't have to worry about adjusting the second war or the test. Because I can't pass the medical examination. That is to say, I have worked hard for a year without getting an ideal return. I can't pass the medical examination. Don't worry, in other words, I am free. I don't have to roll anymore. I can find a happy job I really like and live a good life! I am happy and stressful in an instant!

Destiny, some non -natural forces, he loves me. I have been working hard to become excellent, thinking that excellence is the best, but he loves me, he just wants me to make me happy. I used to stupidly think that fate is testing me to sang against me. In fact, he just wants me to make me happy.

I feel that I have undergone too much love. I can only live well, live happily, and then give love, love those who love me, love those strangers, love flowers, love cats, love cats and dogs, and love all things in this world. In this limited time, love has never changed. I will give me the love I have received, and I will give it out. This is the best repayment I can think of. "

This story tells me that you see, there will always be a solution to fate.

There is an urgent reason for why I write this question today.

I know that this "0.001 point difference" will appear in many levels in life, the examination civil servants will be 0.01 points, the postgraduate entrance examination will be 0.01 points, and the test will be 0.01 points ...

Yesterday I saw a young man posted a video, saying that "the graduate of the 2022s broke the defense", and squeezed his head to get a job.

There is a person who talks about his experience underneath, "It's too miserable, and graduated from 211 and was divided into gas stations as a refuator."

Someone returned to him, "Some people say to you every day, come on!"

It's a ridicule, I know. But we can not take it as a ridicule.

Just like the girl who couldn't check it above, the girl who could not pass all the exams. During the tumor surgery, she passed through the corridor leading to the operating room. It was very scared and cheered for herself. Fendo's cross -hospital students are brave and strong and will not be defeated by this difficulty. "

At this moment, no matter where you are, what you are facing, is you afraid, whether you are crying alone, I want to ask you to read with me:

We respect and love, we stop crying, we have a sky above our heads, we have to live seriously than anyone else.

Live. Live to the tomorrow you want.

Writing: Dawn Star

Editor: Ding Ding

In the life of a person,

The most glorious day is not the day to become famous.

Instead, there is a challenge to life from lament and despair,

Towards the day of bravery.

——Fangbai

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