Tsinghua's "Toptong Scholarship", is it cured your mental internal consumption?

Rather than wrap the anxiety vortex, it is better to pursue the biggest potential of life on the balance line.

At Tsinghua University, there is a "special scholarship" specially established for undergraduate students, and students call it "special prize". How fierce is the competition for special prizes? According to official statistics, there are only 10 special prizes among tens of thousands of people. This special award winner of "10,000 miles" usually can hand over beautiful answers in professional achievements, scientific research results, social workers, practice, and even social influence.

(Tsinghua University's 2021 undergraduate student special scholarship and other scholarships, 15 candidates to respond on the spot. Source: Network)

At this moment, whether you are lying in the dormitory to brush the drama, or you are sitting in the workshop to "touch the fish", after seeing the selection criteria of Tsinghua University, I believe it is "back to a cold back." I thought that people are so good, I can't be a "salted fish". But when I thought of the physical fatigue and mental internal consumption brought by the "inner volume", I just thought that "carp beating" struggling, and immediately "combined into one" with the bed board.

Today, we do not explore the meaning of "lying flat" and "inner rolls", nor do we blame the disadvantages of "touching fish" and "old -fashioned". I just want to think about how to be an ordinary person in the noisy online world, and then be an ordinary person.

Tsinghua University's special award selection is outstanding, and many students who have always insisted on their efforts but failed to emerge have become "the majority of silence." Their efforts are hidden on the back of the light and are not seen or commended. In order to affirm their popularity and far -reaching far away, several Tsinghua students spontaneously founded a "special award for ordinary people" -tipaton scholarships.

(One of the propaganda posters of the Toptong Scholarship. Picture source: Network: Network)

The slogan of the Topaton scholarship is: "Not everyone can win a prize." On the publicity poster, there is also the following copy of the copy: "Not everyone is accurate" "and" not everyone is flattering in the clouds "" and not everyone all overnight. "" Not everyone is happy. " The four "not" arranged in neat arrangement have stepped on your tip of your heart fiercely? When I saw it, I also had a feeling of "hitting the soul".

Of course, "not" is not completely "giving up treatment", which implies a possibility. For example, the back of "Not everyone is dating all night", and there is such a layer of meaning: whether it is on campus or on the workplace, there are always people who have all overnight, or everyone has a time to daze all night. This is the same as what we say to be ordinary people. Being an ordinary person is not to ignore his deficiencies "two hands and one stall", and even directly "swing" to stifle the possibility of "success". Instead, adjust your mentality, let yourself have the courage to "allow everything to occur" and "accept your own shortcomings", and to create the value of your own life based on this.

(Poster Poster Poster of the Topaton Scholarship.

"Zhang Chi has a degree, advancement and retreat" is both a kind of wisdom, but also a attitude of life. Recently, the word "relaxation" is very hot. The so -called "relaxation" is actually a sober self -acceptance ability. Take the Tsinghua Special Award, its ceiling has been placed in front. No matter how 10,000 people "show their magical powers", only ten special prize winners can eventually. Since this road looks quite difficult, there is even a risk of losing enthusiasm, why can't you "take a different approach"? Love scientific research, just stay in the laboratory for two hours a day; if you like social, you can go out to see more about dealing with people ... The relaxation that we should pursue is actually focusing on the goals in a wider perspective, taking diversified Find answers and harvest results.

The tightness and relaxation seem to be a "natural enemy", but the properness can become a "close friend". Excessive relaxation may lead to inability to improve, and excessive tightness is likely to cause internal consumption due to persistence. Rather than wrap the anxiety vortex, it is better to pursue the biggest potential of life on the balance line.

In "The Big Bang", there is such a line: "I have been thinking about how can a person's life be done? The fact is so sad. Not everyone can achieve fame, some of us are destined to be in daily life. Finding the meaning of life in the drip of life. "In the author's opinion, looking for the meaning of life in daily life is not sad, but luck. Looking around, those stall owners who got up in the early morning, those takeaway brothers who had not received work late at night ... Which one is not doing their best for ordinary life. The ordinary life we ​​have now is actually not ordinary in itself.

Life is like a plate of sand. The more vigorous it is, the more you lose. With an open mind and curiosity about the unknown, he can study and relax. Perhaps it is the key to grasping the long -term and winning the initiative.

(Written by Cao Qianqian)

[Edit: Lu Wei Tang Jiajun (Internship)]

[Source: Jingwumen Tao · WeChat public account]

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