The child quarreled with his classmates and was punished by the teacher to copy the text until the early morning: What should parents do?

I saw a parent on the Internet:

As soon as the child was in the first grade, he had a small friction in the school and his classmates. Both were punished by the teacher twice, because the two did not care, the teacher was angry, and added twice to 10 times. The teacher first called the parents to the school, and the parents accompanied them to the school until 11 pm, and took the last bus home.

I woke up the next morning and continued to copy, dragged it, and copied it from the day to the evening. It was originally completed at 10 o'clock, and it was copied until 3 am. The middle mother found that the omissions were missed, tearing him off, and let him copy it. The child is emotional, crying and making trouble. He has theory several times with his mother. He also said that he didn't want to go to school anymore. He also said that he could copy it tomorrow. He was too sleepy to sleep.

Mom is very tangled. On the one hand, she is distressed by the child. On the one hand, she feels that the child must develop a good habit. Mom said that she didn't get angry, but she just persuaded her child, but felt that staying up late was too cruel to the child, so she consulted the opinions of netizens.

What I didn't expect was that the messages in the comment area supported the teacher while saying that the teacher had to be right, and the child had to be long. There are problems with habits. Since you have made mistakes yourself, you must bear it. Parents can't control it now. Then wait for the sins.

Others said that the children had no respect for teachers and parents on the first day. It is best to get a meal and let him change this bad problem.

The most terrible part of education is that a group of ignorant people use their own only cognition to teach children. Yes, it is lesson, not education.

For this child, he is actually very pitiful. The classmates were very angry without his consent, and might be a bit improperly speech and movement. It is right to maintain your property rights. The wrong is words and movements. Now that the teacher is wrong, the teacher pointed out, and told the classmate that if you have any questions, you should communicate well and not be able to hit others and scold people. At the same time, you have to tell the classmate that don't move others' things casually. This is basic respect.

The child was not familiar with the first grade, and the friction occurred normally. The teacher just handled it in normal methods. Isn't this very simple? Why punish the text? Is it better to copy the relationship between classmates? You have to call the parents in the past and copy it at the school at 11 o'clock. The parents still bring the second child. Is this too humane?

Parents do not do well at this point. As parents, we must respect the teacher, but if the teacher does not do it right, we must point it out, otherwise, the injured is his own child. Because the teacher is not perfect, we will make mistakes. If we are the "accomplice" of the teacher at this time and stand on the opposite side of the child with the teacher, then the child will not trust the parents while not trusting the teacher.

Remember the 14 -year -old boy jumping off the building? Because of the violation of discipline in the school, the teacher called her mother to school. The mother saw that her son violated discipline and was particularly angry. In front of many classmates, he hit his son and went home. As soon as the mother left, the son jumped the building.

If the mother was able to ask the original committee at that time, she could understand her son's heart, can leave a face for her son, and respect the son's feelings, then this tragedy will not happen. However, if there is no regret, no matter how much regrets occur.

In the face of his son's punishment violent assignment, what should parents do? Teacher Yin Jianli, a family education expert, gave his answer in the book:

The essence of violence is the slavery of teachers and parents to students. Of course, children can adapt to violent homework, but the slavery, hostile, and depression contained in violent operations will fully destroy the integrity and health of children's personality and will.

If you encounter violence, parents must first actively communicate with teachers and schools, and try to communicate positively, instead of making a stiffness with the teacher at once, so it is not good for their children.

On the other hand, we must also find a way to protect the children. The most bad thing is the kind of parents who complain about the teacher's layout of violent homework, and blame the child who does not cooperate with the teacher. It is also the one who lost interest in learning and homework.

In the face of violent homework, what will you do? Welcome to discuss.

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