Do you think your child's academic performance can be improved?Can he be able to give birth to be better?

I saw a parent on the Internet because he did not recognize the school class and wanted to complain to help netizens.

There are hundreds of answers below this helper, and the same answer has been replied without exception.

Among them, a netizen's words were even more blood, pointing out of the key, "Do you think your complaint, your child's academic performance can be improved? He becomes an excellent student"?

This question is so good! That parent should really reflect on himself.

Seeing and accepting reality is much more useful than complaints

When it comes to class, I have a lot of words to say that there are children who are in the first grade at home. Like this parent, we have also experienced a class.

After the division, the difference is indeed quite large. According to my children's own experience and judgment, it is mainly manifested in the following aspects:

· Teaching progress and difficulty are different

After the division, the learning progress of key classes is very fast, it is more difficult, and the better class will be faster than the parallel class, which is more difficult.

· Different learning materials

The learning materials of key classes are more comprehensive and more targeted than the learning materials of ordinary classes.

· Different teachers

The teachers in the key classes are the backbone of teaching, superior teachers, and the resources are very concentrated. The ordinary class is still worse.

· Different teaching methods

Teachers in key classes focus on cultivating their children's self -learning and self -learning ability, and more often in ordinary classes, they have to rely on teachers and class cadres to manage, which is difficult to form a self -study atmosphere.

· Different degrees of attention

Needless to say, I believe that all parents know that it is very different anyway.

However, the difference is great. As a parent, what can you do? Is the complaint used? The complaint, your child's academic performance is just fine, can he be divided into key classes?

Obviously not!

Still, instead of complaining to complain, it is better to use this mind in children's learning, which is more useful than complaints.

A mother around me, her daughter is six years in elementary school, her academic performance is high in the class. Each test is all A. This time, Xiao Shengchu's grades are the same A, but she fell in the ordinary class. Essence

The mother couldn't understand, and her daughter was also hit. However, the results have been unchanged.

In the end, the mother chose to accept the reality and accept the child in the ordinary class, because she believes that gold can glow wherever she goes.

Of course, she did not forget to learn and summarize this lesson and experience.

Fairness is always relative

The parents who asked for help said that when the child was assigned to the ordinary class, the school did not pay attention to it, so it was unfair to the child.

In fact, this world, how absolute fairness, fairness is always relative.

For parents in ordinary classes, the school is fair as a colleagues to put superiority together. However, for those parents who are tip students and their top students, putting them together is unfair.

Because the tip students learn faster and more, they are unwilling to follow the students who have not learned the ability to learn, and they are unwilling.

The teaching progress of the teachers in the key class, and the students' ability to accept is similar, so that they can keep up with the teacher's footsteps.

The teachers in ordinary classes need to take care of all students in the class. If the students don't love learning so much, the learning progress is that the teacher wants to be fast.

This is just one aspect, and there are many other aspects. There is no simultaneous synchronization between the tips and the poor students.

In fact, if you think about it deeper, there is nothing wrong with the school that is so bad, just like a widely circulated sentence on a certain sound.

"Subtracting children who are lazy, the college entrance examination is reduced to stupid children, and finally through two diversion, the country has successfully selected a smart and diligent child."

In the final analysis, whether the child can be valued by others is not whether it is divided into class, but because they are more advanced and effort.

Is it more useful to accept that you can't change your own unchanged and change your own change?

Strong yourself is the only way to solve the problem

For a long time, the phrase "strong self is the only way to solve the problem" was the motto of my life.

This time I will give them to those parents who ask out, instead of wanting to change the outside environment, it is better to change myself first.

My child is divided into a better class in ordinary classes. As far as me is concerned, this result is quite satisfactory, although the child is not satisfied.

But if the child is dissatisfied, he needs to work hard to fight for himself. Only in this way can the result may be changed.

Conclusion

Finally, I personally think that division is not a bad thing.

Educating his children is the king.

As the so -called arrival, where the child is, he encourages where he takes root and sprouts, and strives to grow up. As long as he does not give up, everything is possible.

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