Comments 丨 Teacher's Day showed a bunch of flowers, why would it cause a stir?

Flowers are speechless, but people will give it meaning.

A festive gift has just caused widespread controversy. A female teacher in Dancheng, Henan Province exposed the flowers they received in social media, and wrote that the benefit of being a teacher is to be fond of them everywhere. Thank you for the teacher's day gift from Wang Moumou.

In all fairness, a bouquet of flowers, a box of moon cakes and a box of drinks, such festive gifts are not valuable. Afterwards, Dancheng County Education and Sports Bureau issued a statement: After verification, the parents of the flowers of flowers were presented to the teacher's Day gift from the teacher Wang of Caiying Primary School in Ningping Town, and the items were the Mid -Autumn Festival condolences issued by the school. He also said that he had criticized the teachers involved in the incident and instructed him to refund the amount of flowers such as flowers from the students of the students.

Teacher's Day to send a bouquet of flowers to the teacher, it should be said to be an expression of mind in the scope of common sense. So why is this teacher so disturbing? Does the Teaching Bureau order it to return the cost of the flowers?

Flowers are speechless, but people will give it meaning. Parents may just want to express my respect to the teacher, but the teacher's big manner was extremely easy to cause misunderstandings. Think about it, what will other parents think? Parents who do not give gifts will inevitably worry: Does the teacher suggest that we should send something? If you don't give gifts, will the child be treated differently by the teacher? Parents who gave gifts may guess: Since the teacher likes gifts so much, should we send more next time?

What's more, in the essay, it is clearly stipulated in the gift delivery parents, and the vocabulary that is easily associated with "favors" and "benefits" is used, which makes a bunch of simple flowers no longer simple. Then, a small gift triggered a stir, which is naturally the result.

The relationship between home and school was originally a sensitive topic. Because the teacher has certain rewards, recommendation and other powers, there is actually an unequal interest relationship with the parents. Although we believe that the vast majority of teachers are fair and professional, but in reality, what kind of person he encounters this teacher is 100 % affirmation. Therefore, the trust between home and school must be slowly accumulated in long -term daily exchanges.

Moreover, this trust is difficult to build, but it is easy to destroy. In this news, some netizens questioned: These are what is exposed. What about it? Although this question is likely to be inconsistent with the truth, it shows that the behavior of "sun -sun" can easily cause extensive misunderstandings and even destroy people's trust.

Both parties with sensitive interests need to pay special attention to the boundaries of words and deeds when they are interacted. Do not let some seemingly unintentional, but toh, to cause misunderstandings and cause disputes. For example, when my child is located on the eve of Teacher's Day, I will notify the parents not to give gifts, and the teachers do not even accept flowers. This completely dispels parents' concerns and avoids the existence of any gray zone. After such a long time, the trust between home and school can naturally be established.

Any righteousness requires external words and deeds to express. Although there is nothing of a bunch of flowers, the behavior of "exposure" is greatly considered. If you are not "eccentric" to each student, don't preach how you are "favored". Each teacher should have received ethics education before the job. It should be understood that what the teacher is most worth "show off" is the achievements that their students have achieved, not any material reward. After understanding this, it is not difficult to deal with the relationship between teachers and students and home schools, and it is not difficult to deal with the relationship between teachers and students.

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