Behind the Xueba, there are no excellent and sharp parents, and parents should see even if they are busy

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Parents should see even if they are busy

A few days ago, I talked with a teacher who was a teacher in a key middle school.

When it comes to the entry rate of a certain key middle school and the effect of prestigious schools

This teacher with rich teaching experience emphasizes to say

"Actually, the school's high school education rate is not only in the school's management, but also the high level of teachers

At the same time, it is inseparable from parents' efforts and cultivation. If parents do not cooperate, no matter how good the teacher and the school, the child's grade is difficult to go up. "

Indeed, Mr. Chen Baosheng, Minister of Education, once said

"If parents are not in place for their children, then school teachers will be attentive, it is basically no way to help."

Teacher Li Zhenxi, a special teacher, also said

"Compared to school education, family education is often the root of children's growth learning."

Generally speaking, behind a school hegemony, there is often a pair of excellent and sharp parents standing

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Parents are the best role model for children's growth

A friend of mine, at a young age, commented on "senior teacher"

Both in school or in life are very good and respected

After having a child, this friend also has all kinds of due diligence, from childhood to large, has never neglected the children’s study and growth, and ignored

Even for the children's college entrance examination, in the third year of high school, I rented a house near the child's school

Accompany the child to study and take care of the child's life

Therefore, this friend's son, from childhood to large, is very excellent and independent, smart and lively

Personality is also confident and cheerful, very popular

People say that this is the real "a father must have a son"

Indeed, for children, parents' every move, personality temperament

It is undoubtedly the best role model on their growth road. Only parents provide positive influence on their children

Nourish your children with your own excellence and companionship

Then the child will subtly be infected by the spiritual culture of the parents and elders, and the context of life

As a result, it grew up and more independent, cheerful and confident in unknowingly

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The influence of parents and families on the child determines the background of the child's life

As a child's enlightenment teacher, parents and families have a profound impact on their children

It can be said that from the day and night with their parents, and their words and deeds

Only the child has the view of the world, life, and value

Developed behaviors of different performance, morals, only learned how to communicate with people

It can also be said that the influence of family environment and parent education in childhood largely determines the background of their lives

It also provides children with spiritual food, water, air, etc.

Regarding this, psychological research also pointed out

The memory and influence of childhood will largely precipitate the child's cerebral cortex

It has a strong impact on children's future character development, and once it is formed, it is difficult to transform again in the later stage

Therefore, as parents, we must pay attention to influence and educate children from a young age

Establish more positive examples for children, keep working hard to improve, and pursue excellence

Make your child under your leadership, and it becomes more and more excellent

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It is the biggest responsibility of how to be a parent to teach children

Education and education, both "teaching" and education

Among them, teaching is to teach knowledge and let children learn culture. Generally speaking, this is the teacher's responsibility

And education refers to education, which is to let children learn how to be a person and teach children to be a life.

This is mainly compared to teachers, mainly parents' responsibilities

Because parents often get along with their children, they have a great impact on their personality and morality and mental psychology

Generally speaking, a child's personal quality and education products are good?

The main thing depends on the family environment and how the parental quality products are

Many times, a pair of souls are interesting, kind and upright parents

Their children often grow up with sincerity, kindness, right, and straightforward

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Parents' high -quality companionship is the best education for children

For children, in the process of growth, what they need most is actually the company’s company

If a parent can accompany the child with high quality

Then the child will become very confident, have a sense of security, and get gentle and affirmation from the mother

Learn the rules and responsibilities from your father

Such a child will not only become more confident and courage after growing up

And the relationship between parent -child is closer than ordinary families.

In life, we often listen to some parents say:

"I want to accompany the child too, but I'm really too busy"

"I can accompany the child, but who is going to make money? Can a child grow up?"

Especially some male parents, almost used to going home as a shopkeeper

However, in fact, even if you are busy, you can still take time to accompany your child as long as you are busy.

I remember seeing a news before, saying that Guo Jingjing's husband is busy running every day

But even so, he will still take the time to go home to see the child, and he will not fall every day

Seriously, our ordinary people are very busy, but many thoughts must not be busy at the same time?

Besides, the money may be earned in the future, but the child's growth is only once

Just as a very popular sentence on the Internet says

"There are no tickets that have been made, only children who grow up instantly"

If you don’t hurry up education and accompany your children today, then when you want to accompany, when you want to educate

Children are likely to be unconvinced!

Harvard Psychology Professor Gilbut said;

"After 10 years, you may not feel regretful because you do less projects, but you will regret it because you don’t accompany your child for an hour."

Many children, when they were young, parents were busy making money

No time to care about them, accompany them, and discipline them

As a result, they grew more and more inferior, more and more rebellious, and even some children would go on a way. Make parents regret.

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Excellent parents can cultivate excellent children

Teacher Wang Ping, a well -known scholar in the heart, once proposed a parenting formula. He believes

The results of education mainly depend on three aspects, that is,

Parents 'intentions, methods, parents' ideas and ways of thinking

This means that parents are paying love and companionship

In the process of educating children, we must also use the right way to continuously update and improve their ideas and ways of thinking

If your parents blindly have their own self -proclaimed, they are stubborn

It is easy to be naughty by the times, and the formation of an irreplaceable gap between the children

This makes children not get good education and guidance

Therefore, as parents, we must remember that only parents have improved by themselves.

Then the child will be willing to learn from his parents, so that he can continue to surpass himself under the motivation of his parents.

Create a brilliant life that belongs to them

Remember, parents are the roots of their children, only the roots are deep, the roots are strong, the root system is developed

In order to lay the foundation for the growth of children, so as to make fruitful results

Parents come on!

mutual encouragement.

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