"If you don't try it, you will never be able to do it."

"The competition is great, I don’t know if it works."

At the beginning of the year, I heard a friend Ahe who wanted to test.

In addition to my little white that day, there was also Aqi, who had already been ashore.

Faced with Ah's desperate words, she first comforted me:

"Try it, maybe it is okay."

one.

It's just strange that Aqi has been on the shore. As the most experienced person, she didn't say how she should prepare for the exam, but emphasized "you can".

I remembered that my mother asked me to take the time to teach the younger sister's mathematics questions.

When I called my sister to do a few more difficulties, she thought the most difficulty and the same end -of -the -final score was practiced, but she became very dragged. She could drop twice in three minutes, and to pick up a pen to pick up a pen or 0.8 times the speed.

I went to "sue" with my mother.

How can you do it seriously.

Unexpectedly, my mother explained to me that her sister did not seriously originate from her fear and she would do wrong.

Because of the severe part of her mathematics, she has taken one by one several times, and the red circle on the test paper makes her feel that she can't learn.

"You have to encourage her to tell her, she can."

At that time, my mother gave me a set of educational concepts.

I also know that people are an animal that needs to be affirmed.

But what I want to say more is,

Can you do it well?

I, Aqi, and other people encouraged by me.

And more importantly,

"You can" these words,

Not every moment you need it can appear.

two.

In the third grade, I have been worried about the sports results of my middle school entrance examination.

I don't want to be dragged by it, but I am a bad player who "takes a while when I run twice".

Although the running training arranged by the school is completed every day, I still think it is "unable to grasp".

People who return to the 800 -meter running small test all count the countdown, they want to get full points.

It is ashamed of the distance at this stage and the goal. In school, I have not mentioned the "want to take a full score".

No one came to say "You can" to me.

The personal value of society has two levels of personal value. You think you are valuable and others think you are valuable.

The first is the benchmark for yourself and does not rely on the evaluation of others.

The second is to establish the benchmark for the evaluation of others that are related to us, which is an inevitable manifestation of human society.

Most people belong to the second type.

Before others say I can, I am "not".

During the training, he opened his legs on the runway. While imagining his full score, he was doing psychological construction for yourself. In the end, he was not accepted by the full score and how to accept it.

three.

This is not a good state.

It turns out that I am accustomed to reserving strength, and there will be no sudden progress during testing.

At the end of the first semester, my mother watched my test results that I had not been good enough and set me a running training plan.

There is a mountain ridge less than ten minutes before my house. You can choose to reach the top along the slope or the stairs and trails on the mountain.

At about eight o'clock in the morning at that time, my mother would hold my insulation cup and take me to the mountain.

I ran up along the slope, and she was waiting for me near the stairs and trails near the next mountain.

Seeing that I was tired halfway, my mother would come:

"The slope can be persisted, and the flat ground is definitely fine."

I am also good. I was so cold that I did n’t want to wear four clothes and did n’t want to go out.

Later, as the mother said, becoming more and more persistent on the slope, it is not so afraid of the flat 800 meters.

On the one hand, I improve my ability, and on the one hand, I improve my ability.

There are differences in ability and ability.

Ability is an objective index,

But ability is your own subjective feeling.

Simply put, I believe more than before, I can.

Four.

But that year's sports middle school entrance examination, his own status, the weather in the exam was not so ideal.

People are not afraid of hard work.

What people are afraid are uncertainty after hard work.

Not sure if you can do it well.

This fear is really easy to make people hesitant, frustrated, and even self -degrading.

Think about it now, maybe friends who have been ashore in the postgraduate entrance examination also understand how the most difficult thing is how to overcome the inner embarrassment, so I did not say that there were so many exam preparation experience, but reminded the other party:

"Remember you can."

But we do n’t have any time in the next time. In fact, there will be no such people.

Everyone cares about themselves, so they only fight alone.

At this time, it is important to consciously cultivate your own ability.

It is also strange to say, obviously I am the one who knows myself most.

It was discovered that we grew up by the external evaluation system and were not good at evaluating ourselves. We can't say nothing about our own ability borders, but we really shake and not firm.

I hope that the next time I can hesitate, I can have the ability to say to myself:

"you can."

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