The implementation of the family education promotion law, how should parents bear the main responsibility of family education?

China Youth Network, Beijing, September 9 (Reporter Li Huaxi) From January 1 this year, the "Family Education Promotion Law" was officially implemented. Article 14 of the "Family Education Promotion Law" clearly states that parents or other guardians should establish a family responsibility awareness of the first classroom and parent, and assume the main responsibility of implementing family education for minors. , Methods and Behavior Education to develop good thoughts, behaviors and habits.

So why should parents or other guardians bear the main responsibility of family education? What family education should be assumed? How to assume the main responsibility of family education? China Youth Network reporters interviewed Sun Yunxiao, a researcher and chief expert of the Chinese Youth Research Center and the chief expert of family education.

Parents or other guardians bear the child's life responsibility and social responsibility

Sun Yunxiao said that after the "Family Education Promotion Law" was promulgated and implemented, some parents questioned: sending children into kindergartens and schools, education is mainly responsible for education, we do not understand what education, how can we bear the responsibility of educating children to educate children Woolen cloth?

He believes that today's world has entered an information age. Educating children only rely on schools to be difficult to complete. It is necessary to play the role of family education and social education to form a social coordination education system for family schools.

"The school has the responsibility of guiding family education, but the schoolization and knowledge of family education are a misunderstanding and must return to the right way of family life education." Sun Yunxiao said that a significant highlight of the "Family Education Promotion Law" is that getting rid of family education is school The status of educational attachment makes family education truly a charming life education.

Why should parents or other guardians bear the main responsibility of family education? Sun Yunxiao believes that it is necessary to understand from the two most basic and direct aspects. One is the responsibility of life, and the other is social responsibility.

The responsibility of life is that the love of parents has bred a new life. The new life needs the care and care of the parents the most. Parents' personal nurturing is most conducive to the growth of their children. Social responsibility means that children will grow up and go to society, and family education, especially family style, is the deepest and long -lasting impact. "Whether children can learn to be a person, parents are the first responsible person."

Sun Yunxiao believes that the combination of life responsibilities with social responsibility can also find that the relationship between raising and education is closely linked. The premise of nurturing is not educated. The parent -child attachment relationship has a huge impact on family education. Therefore, the main responsibility of parents' assumed family education is the sacred duty of responsibility.

In addition to parents, the law also stipulates that other guardians should also bear the main responsibility of family education. Sun Yunxiao said that some guardians are not children's biological parents, and they also need to bear the main responsibility of family education like their parents. When the "Family Education Promotion Law" stipulates the responsibility of the family education subject, he always writes the "parents or other guardians" together. And the main family education responsibility.

The main responsibility of parents or other guardians is both major and specific

So, what family education should parents or other guardians take on? Sun Yunxiao said that Article 2 of the General Principles of the "Family Education Promotion Law" stipulates: "Family education referred to in this law refers to the moral quality, physical quality, and life skills of parents or other guardians to promote the comprehensive healthy growth of minors to promote minors. , Cultivation, guidance and influence in cultural accomplishment, behavioral habits, etc. "Family education is mainly life education. In the practice of life practice, you teach children to learn to be human. These five aspects are the core content and complete requirements of family life education.

In addition, Article 3 of the "Family Education Promotion Law" stipulates: "Family education takes the people's fundamental tasks, cultivates and practiced the core values ​​of socialism, and promotes the advanced traditional culture, revolutionary culture, and socialist culture of the Chinese nation. Adults grow up healthy. "He believes that these laws stipulate the nature and content of family education concisely, and these are the main responsibilities of parents or other guardians. Essence

Sun Yunxiao said that the main responsibility of parents or other guardians is both significant and specific, "the cultivation, guidance and influence of moral quality, physical quality, living skills, cultural accomplishment, behavior habits, etc." all need to be implemented.

How should parents or other guardians bear the main responsibility of family education?

Although the "Family Education Promotion Law" requires parents or other guardians to bear the main responsibility of family education, parents often tell Sun Yunxiao that they want to bear the main responsibility of family education to educate their children, but I don’t understand today’s today’s. What children are thinking, when they encounter some troubles or challenges, they often feel that they do n’t understand education, do n’t know how to do it, and some parents lack confidence because they have low education and less income.

"Life practice tells us whether parents can educate their children not relying on high education, high income, and high social status, but depend on educational literacy, that is, educational concepts, educational methods, and education capabilities. The key conditions of the main responsibility. "He believes that after having the correct educational concept, methods and abilities are the key to parents.

Sun Yunxiao explained that the "Family Education Promotion Law" establishes two important principles of family education. One is to start from the actual development of the child's physical and mental development, and the other is to respect the rights of children or minors, that is, the right to survive, development, and the right to develop The right of protection and participation is the principle and prerequisite for educating children, and the most fundamental way to educate children. "If in short, it can be summarized as a method of child education, that is, to maximize the interests of children, what to do is beneficial to children's development." He believes that parents have a direction of the responsibility of family education subjects. The choice is what is responsible and how. So, in which aspects should I start to fulfill the main responsibility of family education?

Sun Yunxiao said that some experts summarized the requirements, content and methods of "Family Education Promotion Law" as "569", that is, 5 requirements proposed by Article 5, 6 contents determined by Article 16, 17, 17, 17, 17, and 17 determined by Article 16. The nine methods advocated, all of which include the subject responsibility that parents or other guardians should bear. If it is more concise, it can correspond to the provisions of Article 2 of the General Principles: "Parents or other guardians can promote the comprehensive healthy growth of minors, and Cultivate, guide and influence. "

"Since these five aspects are the main content and core requirements of family education, parents or other guardians can go to the goal to fulfill their subject responsibility." Sun Yunxiao said that in addition to the above 5 aspects, he also wants to treat his parents and other The guardians make five suggestions.

The first is to play the role model of parents to cultivate children's good moral quality; the second is to be highly responsible for children's health, strong children's physical fitness; third, adhere to life education, improve children's life skills; fourth, actively create conditions, enrich children Cultural cultivation; Five is to cultivate children to develop good habits with a persistent spirit.

Sun Yunxiao hopes that the majority of parents will consciously assume the main responsibility of family education with the support of the country and the whole society, and strive to do it in accordance with the requirements of the "Family Education Promotion Law", to accompany them, make examples for their children, discover children’s children’s children’s children's The potential advantage, respect the child's rights, support the child to follow the way suitable for them, continue to learn and grow, and become a strong parent.

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