How to properly deal with the separation anxiety of the baby entering the garden?Bao Bao Baoya can do this →

By the beginning of the school season, in the face of the new life of the kindergarten ushered in, parents can be described as half -mixed. The joy is that you can finally have more time to belong to your own; what is sad is that every day you have to go through a "life and death" before entering the park. In order to understand this problem, we invited He Xiaoyan, the principal of the kindergarten of the third village of the seaside, to help parents and children pass the "separation anxiety" stage of the newborn park.

"On the first day of school, we staged the scene of" difficult to sprint "at the door of the kindergarten. I repeatedly comforted the child on the way to school: 'Baby can't cry, the mother will come to pick you up for the first time! The child was crying even more fiercely. When the teacher in the kindergarten came to the door to pick up the child at the door, I reluctantly pulled his hand and couldn't help crying. I couldn't help crying. Not suitable for the new environment of kindergarten! "

1-Separation and anxiety of the opening season, have you survived smoothly?

In the opening season, the children entered the kindergarten to start a new journey. Although parents are looking forward to the growth of the baby, I hope that children can make more friends in kindergarten and learn more. However, in the face of the heartbreaking crying when the children entered the garden, parents were still at a loss.

After all, this is the separation of children's separation. You know, before the age of three, the child lives in the family environment, and establishes a relatively single and solid parent -child relationship with his parents. If it is suddenly broken by the social relationship of the outside world, it will inevitably bring a psychological impact on the child. Once the child is the child After leaving the family to enter the kindergarten to start a collective life, the family's emotional sustenance has been largely missing.

2-Separation and anxiety of the opening season, have you survived smoothly?

The care and love that children get in the family environment are all relatives from their own blood relationship, and the kindergarten educators are strange teachers. For this reason, parents are psychologically unsatisfactory because they do not understand the kindergarten and teachers, which is easy to be anxious. An anxiety is not terrible. The main thing is that we have to find a problem and solve the problem.

First of all, what to remind parents is that parents' emotions will directly affect their children's emotions. In the stage of entering the park, some parents should not guide the opposite side. For example, the more they say "don't cry" to the children, maybe the child will cry more.

3-The separation anxiety of the opening season, did you spend it smoothly?

When sending children into the garden, I suggested that parents do not sneak away. When the child turns around and suddenly finds that when the parents are gone, the fear will be stronger and the crying will be louder. My suggestion is: you can have a fast and firm farewell ceremony. Some parents hugged and hugged a few times, and said goodbye many times, but they finally stayed at the school gate secretly to wait and see their children.

In fact, this is to convey a bad signal to the child: Mom and Dad are not assured. So a simple love hug, a wave of hand, or a kiss is enough. After doing all this, parents should turn their head firmly. Because when you say goodbye to your child confidently and talk to the teacher easily and happily, the signal you get is: here is safe, I can trust the teachers here.

4-Separation and anxiety of the opening season, have you survived smoothly?

If you want to alleviate the separation of children's separation, parents should come to the kindergarten to pick up the children from school on time when they get out of school. On the way home, try to talk and talk to the children with a gentle tone to give the children more warmth. This weekly persistence, I believe that the child's anxiety can be relieved. Coupled with the happiness of children's rich activities in the kindergarten, I believe they will soon adapt to the new life of kindergartens.

Kindergarten is the first step and the most important step from the family to the society. As parents, we must reduce anxiety and believe in children, teachers and kindergartens. Children's adaptability is far beyond our imagination, and I wish every baby in love with kindergarten.

Source: Shanghai Baoshan official WeChat

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