New Oriental Vice President exposes the inside of the departure: people, don't take yourself too seriously

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Author: Hard See Muye

The heavens are self -righteous, and the earth is self -evident.

A few days ago, the former vice president of New Oriental sent a video solemnly, and was very emotional after watching it.

Because of his unwillingness to work, he wants to leave and start a business.

Originally, he thought Yu Minhong would keep him, but he did not expect that Yu Minhong did not make too much.

At that time, in addition to the solemnity of New Oriental, there was a group of best principals.

After leaving, the first thing they did was to decisively sell the new Oriental stocks held.

Because in their opinion, their departure will definitely cause a serious hit to the company, and New Oriental must go downhill.

However, not only did New Oriental not go downhill, but the stock price soared all the way, and the business became better and better.

Finally, solemnly said:

"At first I felt that New Oriental could not be separated from us, but later I found out that we delayed the development of New Oriental. People in the workplace must be sent out by ourselves. of."

The solemn experience reminds me of Adam Matzna saying a word:

"Never think of yourself too importantly, you can do well without you."

Being a person, you must learn to recognize yourself. Don't take yourself too seriously.

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You are not so important at all

The famous historian Deng Tuo said: "The more people who have no ability, the more they are extraordinary."

Recently, the American drama "Old Friends" was impressed by Phoebe.

Phoebe was the gold collar of the investment community. She always felt that she was the leader in the field of financial investment and an important person in the company.

Later, Phoebe had to stop working and hospitalized because of heart problems.

During her hospitalization, she thought that the company would be in a mess.

Therefore, she secretly slipped back to the company regardless of her condition, but found that the company was working well, and everyone had their own duties.

She thought the company could not do without her, but did not expect that she was fired by the company for a long time because of illness.

No one in this world is unique, no matter who you leave, the sun will rise normally.

A band will not dissolve because of one command, because countless members can replace him.

A show will not disappear because of the departure of a host, because there will be excellent talents to replace them.

A unit will not face closure because of a person's departure, because countless people are ready to replace ...

The poet Lu Ni has a famous saying: still treat himself as a soil, and always treat himself as a pearl, he always has the pain of being buried.

Being a man is too overestimated, and in the end he will only live as a joke.

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Don't take the platform as the cost

The Spanish media "Aspen" has reported a fun thing for the famous star Cristiano Ronaldo.

Cristiano Ronaldo is pretending to be a tramp, showing the ball skills on the square of Madrid's Caya.

The dazzling ball skills attracted a few people to watch, and no one took the initiative to say hello to him.

After the performance, Ronaldo wanted to give the signature football to an onlooker, and was rejected.

This society is so realistic. When you leave the platform, it may be nothing.

So I often say that people must learn to rely on the platform before the age of 30, and learn to forget the platform after the age of 30.

Don't take platform resources as your ability. Only when you leave the platform's halo, the rest is your true skill.

Since the media person@自 自 has told his friend Du Ge's story.

Du Ge was a small cadre of a public institution with real power in his hand.

Many people will take the initiative to please him, and give him a gift to him in Mingli. In three days, he invited him to attend various meals.

Later, Du Ge and his superior leader had a contradiction and submitted an application for resignation in one anger.

After leaving, Du Ge hit the wall everywhere, and could not find a good job.

Those who have been inherited to him have changed their faces and turned a blind eye to his situation.

Du Ge said with emotion that he thought he was so powerful, but after leaving the platform, he could see how many pounds he was.

There is a paragraph that speaks very well:

"If you have wealth, it is your wealth that others admire, not you;

If you have power, what others admire are your power, not you.

When all this has passed the shelf life, you will see the cold stance. "

Don't overestimate yourself, don't mistake yourself as your ability, and take the influence of the platform as strength.

A truly smart person should understand that what he has and the platform is two different things.

The weak takes the platform's performance as capable, and the strong will treat the platform as a cultivation field.

It is the biggest wisdom in the workplace through the resources of the platform and cultivating the ability.

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See yourself lightly, value things

Writer A Xiu said: "A person treats himself very high, very simple; but a person looks very low and low, but it is difficult."

In this world, those who have really achieved it are those who are willing to let go.

At that time, when Microsoft Headquarters threw an olive branch to Tang Jun, he was running three companies at the same time.

When hesitating, his wife said: "We have realized that no matter how it develops in our company, it is impossible to catch up with Microsoft. Where is Microsoft's mystery, do you want to know?"

After listening to Tang Jun, he resolutely sold his company and went to Microsoft to be a software engineer.

From being a boss to being a worker, there is a huge gap, but Tang Jun has not been in mind. For more than two decades, he assisted a world's richest man and two richest people in China. In 2008, he devoted himself to Xinhua Capital with 1 billion yuan to push the "work career" to its peak.

The ancient saying clouds, the sky is self -contained, the earth is not kind, with all things as a reference, but you can observe the shortcomings of your own.

Mr. Fan Jinshi also said, "Don't take yourself too seriously, to take things seriously."

Try to look at yourself as much as possible, try to get things bigger, so that life can be stable and far away.

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Really powerful people are very humble

Before watching the "Round Table", there was such a story in it.

Luo Lang, the administrative chef of the official residence of the US Embassy in the United States, has a fingering culture of the entire American food culture and has a soft spot for China's food.

Once he went to Xinjiang and wanted to learn a local food.

The store did not teach him, he did not he himself, nor did he leave with anger.

He finds time every day, standing at the door of the store, one month is one month.

In the end, the shop was moved by his sincerity and let him learn this craft.

Rousseau once said that the most knowledgeable and knowledgeable person is always humble and cautious.

Music master Beethoven said that he only learned a few notes.

As a master of Chinese masters, Yu Hua said that his language was simple because he knew fewer words.

Guo Degang has a deep accomplishment, but he still claims that he is just a primary school student in the cross talk world ...

Human knowledge is like a circle. The circle is known in the circle, and the outside of the circle is unknown.

The more you know, the larger the circle, and the more you don't know.

On one occasion, a student of Ji Xianlin explained the Sanskrit text on Yongle Bell in Dazhong Temple in Beijing.

It was winter, and the temperature was below zero. Ji Xianlin was already 90 years old.

For more than two hours of academic reports, Ji Xianlin had been sitting on the stage, rushing to the cold, and concentrated on listening.

Some people persuade him: "Even if you are cheering for students, there is no need to freeze for two hours."

Ji Xianlin said: "It is necessary, because he said something new, I don't know yet."

The mature and full wheat is bent down.

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The famous actor Shirley McNeon once proposed a 20-40-60 rule:

At the age of 20, you are always worried about how others think of you;

When you wake up at the age of 40, no matter what others think;

At the age of 60, you discovered that no one cares about you at all.

In the eyes of others, you are not so important at all, so don't overestimate yourself.

Like a praise, be humble, look up at the sky, you will see the vast starry sky.

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