"God Beast" is about to return to the cage!Please collect this anxiety resolution guide

Seeing that school is about to start, "God Beast" is about to return to the cage,

But many parents were anxious.

After a long vacation, can children take care of it quickly?

Can children in the new school adapt to the new environment?

... Parents at different stages have different concerns.

Today, listen to Hefei Fourth People's Hospital

Chief Physician of Child and Adolescent Psychology,

Hefei "Children's Young Psychology"

Zhong Hui, the leader of the famous medical studio,

Just the topic that parents are most concerned about during the school season

Perform popular science and questions.

How to help children "accept"?

Parents can return their children to the normal schedule and living environment one week in advance, so that their children will gradually return to the rhythm of school.

Secondly, guide children to ensure a certain study time every day and help children return to their learning status in advance.

If you are accompanied by reading, parents must arrange related matters in advance and return to school synchronously with their children.

If the child is not completed, parents should not be too anxious, so as not to pass the anxiety to the child. Parents should maintain a consistent attitude with the teacher in principle. The homework of various subjects must be completed on time, and then uses the determination to eliminate all difficulties to accompany the child to complete it. Finally, accompany the child to reflect and summarize, and formulate a learning plan for the new semester.

Words are greater than body education. In normal times, parents must try their own order, planning, and speaking, and give their children a positive and positive influence, which will help children develop good learning habits.

What should I do if I love to cry when I enter the garden?

Whether children can be separated from their parents depend on whether the child can feel the place where the parents can send him a safe and trustworthy environment.

Children cry are not bad. Crying is the normal emotional expression of children. Parents should guide their children to learn the reason why crying in language. When the child learns to express his emotions in language, he will not cry.

How can children quickly adapt to kindergarten? Director Zhong Hui suggested that parents may wish to try this method: take their children to walk from home to kindergarten in advance, and be familiar with the scenery and things on the road, such as any trees, flower beds, shops, etc. Let him have a psychological process of "desensitization", so that he will not be too resistant to kindergarten. In the process of walking and chatting, parents and children may also gain a lot of unexpected fun.

In addition, parents don't have to worry too much about their children's crying. Because most children of this age are not so complicated, their curiosity will overcome the pain of separation. Crying for a while, you will change your attention due to curiosity around. Most children can adapt to the kindergarten environment in about a month.

Young promotion is young, Xiao Shengchu,

The new environmental pressure is heavy, what should I do?

Parents should face the status quo calmly and believe that their children have their own ability to face difficulties and solve difficulties. The crisis of growth always exists objectively. Children have his inner potential. Parents should not want to make the child less frustrated by the way.

It is not bad for children to be under pressure. Mild anxiety can better stimulate children's fighting spirit. If there is no response at all, it is not a good thing.

Parents can accompany their children to do their homework in advance. Take the initiative to find the siblings and sisters to learn the scriptures, and be familiar with the learning situation in the new stage in advance.

The important thing is that parents should not worry about what will happen, but to calmly look at and analyze what the impact of this matter.

If the child can adapt to the new environment normally and learn from everyone and complete each task, parents don't have to worry too much. As for how he worked hard and how to catch up, leaving the child to solve it himself.

If the child cannot adapt to a new environment and cannot study normally, what parents have to do is actively accompany their children through this difficulty. It does n’t matter if you have difficulty in making your child, it does n’t matter if you do n’t study well. Moms and dads are always your strong backing. We find a way to solve it together. Parents need to help their children analyze together and find points for specific problems. This analysis ability, we have adults, but children may not have it.

How to improve children's learning internal driving force,

Let him fall in love with learning?

Let children fall in love with learning, focusing on letting children experience the happiness of learning. This happiness comes from the sense of accomplishment, from the knowledge and acquisition of love and gain, from being affirmed.

Parents should pay more attention to the deviation behind their children and affirm their children from the inside. Children are at school most of the time. Parents can only hear the feedback from the teacher. When they see the children's various assessment results, they see that they do not write homework according to the requirements of the parents. If parents think, what is the child doing in the place where you can't see it? In fact, children's learning is also very hard. Among them, how much effort the children have paid and how difficult it is over, we can't see it.

Parents boast that their children should be attentive and boast. No matter what you say, "You are awesome" and "You are so powerful", it will make children feel that this exaggeration is a cope. The child's writing has improved, and the parents who observe the child may say this, "I wrote it yesterday, how can I write well today."

Parents should not boast their children according to their inner needs. For example, if you want your child to go to a tuition class, as long as the child goes to class, the parents will praise. The child is very smart, and the parents' careful thought will only be counterproductive.

Parents should not easily praise their children "smart". Smart is an IQ, and different children do have a difference in height. If the child realizes that he is not clever, it will be a devastating blow to him, because you may not be able to get it in his life.

How to improve children's concentration? Parents need to understand that most children do not have no concentration, but do not like to use concentration in learning this matter. Therefore, to improve the child's concentration, parents first need to identify the real situation.

If the child really lacks concentration, it can be improved by cultivating children's hobbies. Such as playing badminton, table tennis, etc. But it must be what children like, because the concentration is long, the brain will be fatigue, and only if you do what you like can you really persist.

If children lack concentration of learning, they need to stimulate the fun of children's learning, as mentioned earlier, letting children fall in love with learning.

Parents can also think in depth whether they are only when they are studying with their children. The children's homework finish writing, and it doesn't matter. Because there is too little time with you, the child wants to make more movements and let you pay more attention to him. If so, parents have to accompany their children in addition to learning.

Text | All Media Reporter Han Ting

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Edit | All media editor Wu Hong

Produced | "French Eye" Rong Media Studio, "Shanshan is not late" Rong Media Studio

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