What are the advantages of your body and make others miss you?

"Heng Dao Shi Ji"

Author | Lin Liqing

Grade -Cool Brain Creative

Artist | Old carving worm

Edit | Taozi

In fact, we don't need to be others, just to be ourselves.

01 Ordinary people also have a flashing side

Everyone, even if ordinary as you and me, must have his unique flash point.

The movie "Heng Dao Shi Jie" tells the story of such an ordinary person.

"Heng Dao Shi Ji"

The protagonist Heng Daojie is often a person who has no sense of existence.

He didn't talk much, he was simple, optimistic, and stupid. It is difficult to see him conflict with others, or there is something unique to the public. More often, he is the background board that has been hidden in the crowd.

He is an ordinary and occasional small town young man who lives an ordinary and bland little life.

It is difficult for you to describe what kind of person he is. He is not the kind of person with distinctive personality, but friends love him very much.

"Just knowing him, I feel earlier." This is my friend's sincere love for him.

"Heng Dao Shi Ji"

Why do people who know him with such an ordinary person think it is a beautiful clip in memory?

Because, even if Heng Daosu is not a powerful figure, his enthusiasm for life, his gentle love to his friends, and his own joy when he experienced frustration, all deeply affected the people around him.

The first friend Kuraki I met because of the accident with his girlfriend, and when he had a child, he dropped out of school. When helpless, Shi Zhisuo accompanied him silently to encourage him to help them move. them.

Kato announced uneasily to the world, for fear that he would lose this friend under the unobstructed social atmosphere, but he was not surprised and no exclusion. It seems that homosexuality is just a very common thing, which has moved Kato.

He also keeps the same respect for girls he likes. Qian Chun is a girl who is called to the girl, but Yoko Daosuke has not treated him with this, but just treated as a normal girl.

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Xiangzi, who fell in love with him, chose to break up because of studying abroad, but she still remembered the happy time with Shi Zhisuke. Until many years later, when she remembered that she was full of warmth, she was still full of warmth.

After graduating, finding a job just encountered the economic downturn. If he couldn't find a job, he could only rely on zero working days. He did not become frustrated because of this. The fun.

Shi Zhisuke is like a small light spot. Although it is not as dazzling as the sun, it still illuminates the people around you.

He didn't have any shocks, but the goodwill, optimism, and toughness he showed on him were the flash point in his ordinary life.

02 How to understand your own advantages?

To a certain extent, we are all in Hengdao, ordinary, and we are not the focus of the circle of friends.

Because of this, we often ignore our unique value.

After watching "Heng Dao Shi Ji", many people say that they want to be a warm person like Shisuke, so that others can rise the corners of their mouths when they think of others.

"Heng Dao Shi Ji"

In fact, we do not need to be Shijie, we just need to be ourselves.

Maybe you are not warm enough, but you may be humorous. Humor and enthusiasm for life are an important part of vitality. A person with a sense of humor can not only get everyone's likes, but also help you better deal with life and work in life and work. The problems encountered have a more interesting life.

The brain areas related to humor are forehead cortex, pattern and temporal lobe. Whether you are listening to the talk show, watching funny videos, or listening to cross talk, these three brain areas will be activated. The more special one is the temporal lobe. When listening to the jokes of the text, some of the high -level semantic associated areas of the temporal lobe are higher. The pattern is part of the classic reward system, which can respond to any pleasant stimulus and activate, including humor and other forms of art.

"despicable Me"

It is also possible that you are a humble person in the eyes of others. Huminating is very beneficial to interpersonal relationships, social status and mental health. It involves cognition, self -regulation and social ingredients. It is self -evaluating, self -regulation and social cognition. This process is related to the brain areas of the prefrontal cortex and the temporal return.

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Or, you have an optimistic attitude. When others secretly complain, you can erase all unpleasantness; maybe you are curious and have a strong curiosity, which makes you always full of enthusiasm and enthusiasm for life and The heart of the exploration; it is also possible that you are careful and cautious, and everyone is at ease to entrust you to you.

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In short, there are many possibilities for people's advantages. We may be accustomed to the unique advantages in the eyes of others, so we wait for us to dig and identify.

Recommend "Advantaging Quality" to you, it will help you comprehensively and objectively understand your own advantages, improve self -confidence and satisfaction, and harvest better interpersonal performance.

It can give you:

1. Objectively analyze what your advantages are,

What are the reflections in life

2. Understand the shortcomings in your personality

3. Analysis from the perspective of neuroscience

The corresponding brain nerve mechanism behind the three major lengths of affinity, vitality and willpower

4. Understand how to carry forward the advantages and improve disadvantages,

So as to improve interpersonal relationships

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1. Those who want to know their personality advantages

2. Those who want to improve their personality weakness

3. People who want to improve interpersonal relationships

4. Those who want to show themselves better in the group

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