Recommended reading ｜ The eight sentences in "Jane Love" must be read once in a lifetime

Edit Published ｜ He Zihao

Author | Ning Que

Your cleverness is not to talk about yourself, but to listen to others and talk about yourself.

Socrates once said: Heavenly gives people with two ears, but there is only one bite.

In life, most people are more willing to express their views, but few people know how to silence and be patient in a timely manner.

Many times, the more you say, the more you can't listen to each other, and even hurt people without knowing it. The more you hear, the easier it is to get the favor of others.

Those who really know how to be a listener.

They will put down their bodies, listen patiently, do not underestimate others, and do not look at themselves. This is a kind of cultivation and wisdom.

Knowing how to listen, you can not only set up a bridge for communication between the two sides, but also gain the respect and trust of the other party.

"Non -violent Communication" said: Listening is to put attention to the other person, it is a specific manifestation of love.

The highest -level communication method is to understand how to listen. It is more powerful and more temperature than the endlessness. It is to respect the other party and give yourself dignity.

Life is too short, I have no time to hate someone for so long.

Life is unsatisfactory and eighty -nine, some people are indifferent, and some people complain.

Those who are often resentful, always thinking about resentment, restraining themselves in hatred, gradually lost their self, and become emotional slaves.

The resentment of others will be paid by yourself. Once resentment becomes a habit, life loses the possibility of turning over.

For decades in a hurry, instead of complaining about the heavens, it is better to learn to clear the past, love and hate.

With a heavy past, it will only drag the footsteps forward and let go of resentment to laugh at life.

If you scratch a gust or drop of rain, stop me from doing these easy things. What can such laziness still prepare for the future of my own planning? Zeng Guofan said: "The mediocre people of the world in the world are defeated by a lazy word."

Lazy is the biggest stumbling block to success.

Throughout the ages, although successful people have taken the same way, they all have a common feature, that is, hard work. Whether it is Kuang Heng, who is cut off the wall or the ancestor of the chicken dancing, it will work hard. It is also because of hard work that they can get more and more smoothly because of diligence.

As the saying goes, there is no difficulty in the world.

The success or failure of a person is not determined by your talent, but the degree of your efforts.

Opportunities are always left to those who are prepared, and life will never wait to work hard.

Only when you work hard can you have more choices in the future.

The real friendship is not a melon, and it will pitch up overnight and wither within one day.

People will meet many people in their lives, but most people will only pass by in the long river of life, and those who can stay for us are the most worthy friends. Lu Yao knew horsepower, and he saw people's hearts for a long time. Real friends can stand the test of time and the change of the situation.

They will not turn around when you are down, nor will they be charming when you are glory. True friendship is the treasure of life.

If you are fortunate to have it, please take care of it, treat it with sincerity, wait for it with patience, and give it back with gratitude.

Love is a game. It must always be kept with the other party, so as to do it with each other in order to depend on each other in the past.

The book often says: the best marriage is evenly matched.

Take it seriously. Marriage is a choice and a practice.

From love to marriage, for a long time, dependence is never a single person, but the mutual support and accomplishment of two people.

If one side strode forward and the other side motionless, the ending of the marriage will eventually part ways.

Really advanced marriage not only requires each other to tolerate and accept each other, but also the common growth of two people.

Only when the husband and wife maintain the same frequency and the pace is consistent, will the road of marriage go longer and longer, and go smoothly.

If you can't avoid it, you have to endure it. The things that are destined to endure in life are weakness and stupidity.

The world is impermanent, and suffering is the norm of life.

On the road of life, no one will always be smooth sailing, and suffering will always be with you.

There are always some ugly grievances that need to swallow it by themselves, and there are always some difficulties that need to be survived by yourself.

Everyone has suffering in life and cannot escape.

Yang Yan's life can be described as bumpy. After the battle of the war in the first half of his life, he tasted his life and death in the second half of his life.

But she always maintained the calmness and calmness of her heart, facing all kinds of hardships of life.

Suffering can overwhelm a person's body, but it can't break a tough heart.

Although the road was confused and suffering, don't be discouraged, let alone give up.

Chang Huai's heart, through the trough, will eventually climb to the peak of success.

People have to act, and they have to create actions even if they can't find it.

Wang Yangming said: Knowing is the beginning of the line, the action is the success of knowing.

No matter how much ideas in your mind, it is not as good as the step you take.

There is no shortage of people with perfect plans in this world, and what is missing is those who dare to act.

Throughout the great man in history, which one is not the real actor?

Li Shizhen turned the mountains and rolled the mountains to taste the grass, and wrote the "Compendium of Materia Medica".

Yuan Longping abandoned the experiment of food and food, and developed hybrid rice to benefit human beings. Time will never be treated by people who dare to act. If you have any ideas, do your best.

A thousand miles begins with a single step.

Only by daring to act and continuously can we seize the chance of success.

To love yourself, don't give your whole body and mind, soul and strength, give generously as a gift, and waste in places where there is no need and despise.

As you grow older, the easier it is to be bound by others and trivial matters.

Some people are accustomed to grieving themselves, pleasing others, and exhausted life;

Some people choose to let it go naturally, fill the heart, and live a delicate and comfortable life.

Time is easy to pass, and the years are ruthless. After experiencing too many grievances and injuries, you can understand:

People are alive, instead of pleasing others, it is better to learn to love themselves.

Faced with the grievances in life, those who can be relieved will be relieved, and those who can be bleak are light.

There is only one life, don't let yourself live too much, you ca n’t get the enthusiasm of response, you must stop, and less self -affection.

People who are pleasing to others, those who are pleasing to themselves.

For the rest of your life, please live for yourself. When you no longer live in the expectations of others, you will meet the best life.

Published: He Zihao

Author | Ning Que, Source: Listening Book (ID: dushu3690)

Anchor | Reward Xinqing, video number: reward Xinqing reading, public account: Listening to Qing Sheng.

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