"Waste" a child, let him stay at home and stay at home all day long

If you are not afraid, the ground is not afraid, you are afraid of the summer vacation.

Parents often complain that as soon as the summer vacation, the child's heart is wild.

Don't say that there is no tension at school at school, you eat, drink, and play, make your child distracted in minutes, and you can't focus on learning at all.

Good education is not to keep the child in a narrow room, but to let the child go out from the textbooks to see the broadness of the world and experience the life of life.

What is the difference between children who often stay at home and often play with fun outside? In the long run, what is the difference?

In 42 years, American Medical Doctor of Medicine Stewart Brown followed up and interviewed 6,000 people, and found that:

Children who stayed at home all day long when they were young, it was more difficult to adapt to the new environment when they grew up.

And those children who often play outdoors, whether they are social, pressure -resistant, or solve problems when they grow up, are relatively strong.

After reading this article, you will know that "abolishing" a child will let him stay at home and stay at home all day long.

Children who are at home for a long time

Prone to psychological problems

"The son became not in love with school. When he went to play mobile phones all day long, he lost his temper without following him.

Last week, my girlfriend told me her difficulties in education.

Her son is about to face a kindergarten graduation, and soon he will be promoted to elementary school.

In order to prevent the child from losing on the starting line, the family reported to him a child, and arranged for him to return home every day and write homework.

He has a good performance in his studies and is often praised, but the teacher reports that his state is getting worse and worse.

She also obviously noticed that her son became silent during the time and was listless all day.

She thought that her son was just a bit tired, so he didn't take it seriously.

However, I did not expect that the son was suddenly aware of school during this time, and he did not write homework when he returned home from school.

All day was holding a mobile phone to play games, and the family said that he had a big temper.

She was worried, but she didn't know what to do, she could only coax him carefully.

I suggest that she communicates equally with her children. The most important thing is to take the child out to walk out and release the mood in an outdoor environment.

Psychologist Li Meijin said:

"Don't let your child study at home all day long, otherwise his brain is highly excited and the small brain cannot be stimulated. If the brain nerves are not excited, psychological problems are prone to occur."

Children's regulation functions are not as good as adults. They have been studying in a monotonous environment for a long time. Brainpower and vision are not only prone to extremely fatigue, but also easily collapse due to excessive consumption of self -control.

According to the data of the "Research Report on the Development of Youth", the low -aged children who do not love outdoor activities have poor flexibility accounted for 65%, and more than 55%of children's cardiopulmonary function is poor.

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Parents are worried that their children can not keep up with their learning mood, but they can make some changes in the way of learning.

For example, taking children to some museums, art museums, astronomy museums, botanical gardens, aquariums, science and technology museums and other places are a good choice.

My colleague, since the age of 5, takes him to "bubble" in various museums every weekend. From the museum to the science and technology museum, he has almost gone.

After a period of time, she found that children were particularly interested in those historical relics and celebrities.

Every time I listen with interest, I will read a lot of books on the Internet when I return home and find information.

In the past, the child did not understand the physical and chemical principles of the teacher, but the number of times in the museum was more. His understanding of those principles was more deeper, and the idea of ​​doing the question suddenly opened.

Now, the child has been in middle school, and he is more interested in learning. He does not use parents to urge and supervise.

Zhang Junping, a professor at Fudan University, has suggested that taking the child to "soak" more in the science and technology museum, you will be surprised to find that children will take learning as a very interesting thing.

Only children who are interested in learning will take the initiative to learn from knowledge, think, explore, and be full of motivation on the way to learning.

Children go out to exercise

The future is stronger

On the Olympic Mountains in the Greek Sports Sanctuary, there are two words that have been rumored for eternal words:

"Do you want to be healthy? Just go to run. Do you want to be clever? Go to run."

In the impression of too many parents, children who love sports are generally not very good.

They often use enough sports scores to barely test individual schools.

In fact, the Games will promote the secretion of adrenaline, serotonin and dopamine in the human body, make children more concentrated, learn quickly, remember to solid.

Clinical psychologist John Reydi mentioned in the book "Sports Change Brain":

After exercise, people's vocabulary learning speed is 20 % higher than before exercise.

Cao Yueming of Tsinghua University Xingjian College is the direct beneficiary of the movement.

Cao Yueming, born in 1993, was weak and sick since he was a child. Compared with excellent results, his parents hoped that he was healthy.

Therefore, while Cao Yueming went to elementary school, his father often ran and punched with him to encourage him to exercise.

Under the guidance of his parents, Cao Yueming gradually fell in love with sports and often participated in various sports competitions. He has obtained the five -star Sunshine Sports Certificate in Haidian District, Beijing for several years.

After his junior high school, he was more interested in sports. After studying, he was exercise, and he quit the game.

At the school sports meeting, he also repeatedly won the gold medal in various sports such as middle and long -distance running, badminton, rope skipping, and swimming. Picture source: panorama vision

Sports keeps him energetic at all times, and also help him learn more and consciously.

From small to large, his grades have always been very good. The entrance examination has been admitted to the Tsinghua Affiliated Middle School headquarters with a score of 567.

In three years of high school, the extra -curricular books and practice questions he have read are as high as the hills.

The head teacher boasts that his biggest feature is that the toughness is strong:

He has not learned many times, but no matter what kind of difficulties he encounters, he can insist on overcome and find the cause, and does not solve the oath.

It is this toughness that makes his mentality better than ordinary children.

In the college entrance examination in 2021, Cao Yueming was successfully admitted to Tsinghua University with its excellent results.

During college, he still loved sports. He won 3,000 meters championship at the Tsinghua Newborn Games, and broke the record of the 14 -year sports meeting, and successfully joined the Tsinghua long -distance running team.

From Cao Yueming, we can see that those who have achieved children have never been the knowledge of books, but also a healthy physique.

On weekdays, most children are busy. Taking advantage of the summer vacation, parents may wish to take out an hour every day to go to the small square downstairs and nearby parks.

In a small field, in just one hour, the climax and trough of children experienced in the exercise, smooth and setbacks, are actually concentrated life.

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Life is everywhere

Education everywhere

Children's educator Mengtai Touei once said:

"Nothing from intelligence is not from the senses."

According to the principles of brain neurons, every new experience will make the brain neurons stronger.

In other words, rich outdoor life can provide children with benign and rich sensory stimuli, which is very useful for growth.

Many years ago, there was a hot search for the father and son.

The 11 -year -old Liang Liang is a elementary school student.

His father, Hong Shujing, believed that "the human horizon is his world", and made a bold decision in a summer vacation: let his son travel with himself.

The wallet was handed over to his son. The road plan, eating, and living all the way to the son were decided, and he was responsible for riding a domestic rebel 250 motorcycle with him to complete his trip.

The father and son set off from Fujian, all the way north, passing Jiangxi, Anhui, Jiangsu, Shandong, and Hebei, and finally arrived in Beijing.

After that, follow the national highway, provincial highway, and county roads to Fujian all the way to Fujian.

Along the way, his father was working hard to teach the brightness, straightened his waist in a difficult life, and saw beauty and poetry in a bland day, calm and self -sustaining in the sudden situation.

This journey lasted for 44 days, and the great rivers and mountains of the motherland opened their horizons, and also exercised his strong autonomous ability.

Every night, Liang Liang has to follow the travel destination of the next day according to the map plan. At the same time, he must insist on writing homework, organizing his luggage, and recording video diary.

The trip made Liang Liang growing up, and the trip also made him a desire to grow.

At the age of 11, he has developed the habit of planning and self -learning every day during his trip.

The famous educator Tao Xingzhi said:

"To liberate children's minds, hands, feet, space, time, so that they can fully get free life and get true education from a free life."

Life is full of scenery, and life is everywhere.

In the summer vacation, you should not just stay at home to study, but should be immersed in every detail of life.

If you have the conditions at home, take your children as long as possible to travel long distances while the summer vacation.

Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said:

"If the universe is used as a school, we don't have to seek knowledge in the classroom, we can find knowledge everywhere, and there are considerable materials everywhere."

The summer vacation is the best time to pull the children from dense academics, broaden their horizons, improve self -awareness, and exercise their comprehensive ability.

Clicking on "watching", I hope that every child can move from books to outdoor and farther world with the guidance and companionship of his parents.

Author: Luo Xiaoxi. Source: originated from Fan Deng Reading Parenting (ID: ReadingClub_yeh), growing up with children for life.

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