8 years with 4 babies, nearly a thousand short videos sharing childcare experience netizens envy: "Such a grandma comes a dozen"

Zhejiang News Client Sharing Alliance Jinhua Center Station Yao Yanxia reporter Lu Xin Shenli

"Grandma Red Bean" is called Chen Hongying, a native of Yongkang. In 2014, he followed his children to settle in Jinhua City. "My son and daughter live in the same community. Everyone can take care of each other." The two granddaughter and two grandsons were born, and she helped bring the baby to enjoy the joy of God. Before retiring, "Grandma Red Bean" is a media worker who likes to read, write, and shoot. After helping the children bring their baby, continue their own expertise to record the child's growth. "Now bit by bit, all of them are beautiful memories in the future." Chen Hongying filmed children to learn, walk, learn to talk, and shoot a child's smile ... Gradually, she found that she could do more. "In many fragments in daily life, the" Parenting Sutra "is actually hidden." "Grandma Red Bean" has always been interested in the childcare field. Now I deal with 4 children. There are new problems and new stories every day. These have become the source of the material she shot. "There is no trivial matter for parenting, and it is important to taste." She and daughter and daughter -in -law form a "iron triangle". In the process of accompanying the child's growth, I have a little more observation and thinking, and presented her ideas and education methods through videos. Essence Once, "Grandma Red Bean" asked her granddaughter to help cut potatoes, and her granddaughter asked her to pay. She flashed, and felt that she could talk about the topic of "Children to help do housework." So immediately write scripts, shooting, editing, and posting to your own video number. She said that in a family, Dad is a male master, the mother is the hostess, the child is the little owner, and the housework is the common responsibility of everyone. In order to make this home better, everyone should have a little effort. Children do housework. Even if parents want to reward, they should not easily reward material rewards. In this way, children can better appreciate the happiness of labor.

After watching the video, a Bao mother felt deeply touched: "Every time the child washed the dishes, I would reward two yuan. Think about it. This approach is really inappropriate. In the future, I will also guide the child like" Grandma Red Bean ". "Grandma Red Bean" also noticed that some parents criticized their children that they were often wrong to others, which would make children feel bad. So she and her granddaughter filmed a video to remind parents to pay attention to the way of speaking and show mercy. For example, "Are you intentionally wanting to be angry with me" and "you do this make me very angry"; The agreement is changed to "how are we agreed." These lines have listened to the granddaughter, and they are now used. If the adults speak inappropriately, the granddaughter will correctly correct it as in the video: "You should say ..." Every time you shoot a video, "Grandma Red Bean" will determine a theme, such as organizing toys, civilized guests, thinking independently, thinking independently Wait. She and the children interpreted the educational scenes, so that they could understand how to do it in a relaxed atmosphere. She said that after participating in the video, the children changed a lot, they knew more, they could more express, and became more and more confident. Simply preaching did not have such a good effect.

Many fans praised and left a message under the video: "'Red Bean Grandma' is better than my mother as a mother." "Such grandma please give me a dozen." "I want to be such grandma too." Asked "Grandma Red Bean": "Do you bring your baby every day, and have you the fun of your own life?" She said, "Of course, this is the life I want." Since taking the baby, she has never stopped studying. I took certificates such as psychological counselor, family education instructor, and taught my own video editing. "I want to be a growth grandma and make progress with the children."

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