The child did not admit to the key high school, the mother torn off the wall, the child did not fail, but lost

Xu Hanxiong, a polar news commentator

A video of China.com on August 6 showed that recently, a boy in Anhui only took 523 points in the middle school entrance examination in Anhui. Torn off the wall award. (According to China.com on August 6)

This news has been on the Internet hot list, and netizens have reviewed 10,000. In the video, the torn prizes are stacked into a stack, which shows that the mother's disappointment. Netizens have discussing this, saying that they cannot discuss success or failure with a result. They have not passed the key points. For ordinary high schools, there are also opportunities for college entrance examinations.

Those prizes seem to be in 2015. The relevant words are in 2015. In 2019, there is a mid -term exam, and the final exam. If the prizes are all true, things are true, it will inevitably sigh. Those prizes recorded their children's growth step by step. It can be said that the prizes are all witnesses of hard work and efforts. There are many prizes and scores. There are first places, and there are seconds and thirds, and 563 points have been made. The entrance examination only took 523 points. It did not reflect the usual results. Parents could not accept it for a while, and it was normal.

Related video screenshots (source: China Net)

The child's mother seemed to be disappointed and collapsed, but still maintained a certain sense. She torn the prize from the wall and did not tear the prize. It may be that the child has not been admitted to the key high school, has no light on his face, and the award is no longer assigned to hang on the wall.

Don't mention the past, how windy and raining your life. For this mother, it may be like this. The more children's prizes in the past, the larger the gap today. Poor parents in the world, looking at the child Jackie Chan, I hope that the child is going all the way. This mood can be understood, but it should also be properly treated. To be honest, these prizes were originally the product under the theory of scores and the result of the ranking. If you only look at the score, the score can only be high, not low, and undoubtedly carry a heavy burden, which also puts a lot of pressure on the children. Some netizens said that they should not take it seriously about such awards. The child does not play a normal level, and it is related to the pressure that is not ruled out.

The function of the award is to encourage with capital, not to make people carry the burden. Some people say that only success, no failure, only excellent, not ordinary. Unable to accept your ordinary, this kind of deformed successful studies are just overwhelming children and the heavy burden of overwhelming adults. Many people just can't pass this hurdle. After a setback, they lay down, and they can't raise their heads. This kind of unbeaten self -expectation is the motivation to work hard, but it is also the stumbling block of life.

As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success. It is rare to truly understand this sentence. What the child does not take good exams is to understand and divert, help the child find the reason, encourage the child to continue to accept and face it bravely, and continue to move forward. There is no failure to work hard. It doesn't matter if you lose this time, and then work hard, the next time you win back. If the child's failure is enlarged, it will only be worse. Netizens said that if the mother is so tossing, it is not a pity that the child has been in a slump since then.

It is reported that the father who worked in a foreign country was also very disappointed after learning that he did not work hard to work. Parents are disappointed for a while, which can also be understood. But if you disappoint, you must also control your emotions. You must not lose the fixed -board star that guides the child correctly, and you cannot sprinkle salt on the child's wound. Fortunately, the child is still sensible, and said that he should work hard for three years and live up to his parents' expectations.

It can be said that in this incident, the child did not fail, but his parents lost. Do not treat the exam correctly, and the relationship between success or failure cannot be correct. I hope that parents and children will return to the right cognition. In the future life, there will be one victory one by one.

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