How can the children do not add to their mobile phones in the summer vacation, it is recommended that parents start from themselves

Nowadays, more and more people are not used to as soon as they leave their mobile phones. This kind of mobile phone dependency is not only the case, but also this is the case.

Today, parents talk to the author. During the summer vacation, the child has been "holding tightly" the mobile phone. Therefore, it is not allowed to indulge in the "summer vacation problem" in the minds of parents.

This parent's anxiety is not unreasonable. First of all, the child uses the mobile phone for a long time to use the mobile phone to damage the child's vision; second, if the child's self -discipline is not enough, it is easy to stimulate the transitional obsession of the mobile phone. There are many aspects.

So what is the reason for the child to add to the mobile phone?

In fact, children's addiction to their mobile phones has a lot to do with parents. Children's self -control is not as good as adults during the growth period, they will subconsciously imitate and learn. Some researchers have found that 86-92%of children's languages ​​are related to the family members. Parents 'company and parents' language have shaped their child's brain. The state, quality, content, and depth of these companions hidden the future of the child. The language is still the same and the same. For children and teenagers, if parents are obsessed with mobile phones all day, it is tantamount to setting a very "great" example for your child, you can be obsessed with your mobile phone, the child can not imitate you, and finally become a mobile phone fan. Intersection

A junior high school student wrote in the essay: "Why do I like to play mobile phones? Because mobile phones can play games, WeChat, watching the game, who doesn't love? I see many adults watch the phone all day long. Why can't I can This is probably the so -called human nature. "

Sometimes, the mobile phone is sent to the child's hands. When the child is "noisy", when the person needs to be accompanied, the parent gives him a mobile phone to let him "do something to do". Over time, why not add to the mobile phone!

Therefore, if you want your child not to add to your mobile phone, you must first start with yourself. When you get along with your children, put down your mobile phone, leave some time to walk around with your children, learn together, read together, and meet the world together. Let children recognize the broadness of the world, no longer limited to "fast food entertainment" in mobile phones, and at the same time, it can also make parent -child relationship closer.

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