In the summer vacation, parents help their children to develop these 15 good habits, and children benefit for life!
Author:Linxia Rong Media Center Time:2022.08.05
Summer vacation is a golden period for cultivating children's good habits! What habits need to be cultivated quickly during the summer vacation? Today, this article is recommended to be transferred to parents to help children develop a good habit of benefiting for life during the holidays!
01 The habit of doing my own thing
Independent children have no problem wherever they go.
Such children will exude a unique personality charm in the future. Whether in ideology or in action, with your own judgment, you can do your own things in your life, and do not depend on others.
Continue to cultivate children's own habits. In this way, when the parents should let go one day, they will not be too worried, and the child will not be full of fear.
02 The habit of finishing today today
Many adults have "procrastination", and things must be done in a hurry until the end of the matter. That is the lack of the habit of "today's events and today".
We need to cultivate children's consciousness of "things today and today". This can have plenty of time to deal with possible emergencies, so as to develop a calm mentality.
For example, let the children go to play after the exercise class, and try not to drag until the next day.
03 The habit of participating in housework
Don't always feel that your child is small, you can't do anything.
Letting children do some housework in the same way is to cultivate the child's sense of family responsibility and let him understand that he is a member of the family, and he is obliged to help his family share something.
Children's habit of doing housework, it is also good for children to establish new families in an adult.
04 The habit of reading
Be sure to let children read a lot, reading is really important!
No need to limit the child to read the classic masterpieces, first start with the child's interest. As long as the child develops the reading habit, you can calm down to read a book.
At the same time, parents' words are also important, and we can often study with our children.
An expo group book, knowledgeable children have endless potential.
05 Regular living habits
Life is one of the factors of physical health.
The morning and fainting is upside down, and the meal time is not fixed. If you want to play, play overnight. These are also lack of self -control.
Help children develop regular habits, such as getting up every day, a few points to eat breakfast, some do homework, some points to read, and to sleep.
Children who grew up in regular living will make plans spontaneously, and they are more endurance.
06 Listen to others' habits
Parents must first listen to their children patiently. Listening to the child is the greatest respect for the child.
When parents listen to their children, they must also tell their children to listen patiently and understand others. Let children learn to respect the opinions of others and let children know how to help others.
Children who know how to listen to others and help others. When they grow up, they will have high popularity in interpersonal communication and have more connections.
07 The habit of self -introspection
Everyone needs to be introspected. Through the self -introspection, it will continue to improve and improve the shortcomings of their own existence.
Tell your children that it doesn't matter if you make mistakes, but don't repeat the mistakes.
The key to requiring children to be wrong is to cultivate children's self -introspection and often reflect on their words and deeds.
08 Dare to doubt the habit
There is no road to success in the world. The dynamic life always has a lot of randomness. Various factors are often unpredictable and elusive.
Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must have the courage to try. In an uncertain environment, adventure is the rare resource.
Encourage children to try, and also encourage children to doubt, ask teachers, classmates, and parents with knowledge, and cultivate children's brave and confident, dare to take responsibility, and think independently.
Questions are the performance of active learning. Most of the children who can ask questions are children with strong learning ability and children with innovative spirit.
09 The habit of controlling emotions
Don't think that your child is young, you should cry when you want to cry. You should laugh when you want to laugh. If you want to lose your temper, you will lose your temper. In fact, it is a matter of life to control your emotions.
Children's emotions must have room for venting, and they must also have the habit of regulating control.
For example, the child encounters a problem, irritable, and tell the child that when you encounter difficulties, irritability, and lose your temper are useless. It is better to do something else that is relaxed first, calm your heart, and then look back to solve the problem.
10 The habit of self -learning preview
Early preview is an important way to cultivate children's self -learning spirit and self -learning ability, and improve the efficiency of listening. Preview textbooks in advance, find data independently, study the main points and points of new knowledge, and discover difficult problems, so that you can focus on the classroom, grasp the initiative of listening to the lesson, and make the listening class targeted.
In the summer vacation, we can bring our children, at home, briefly preview the content of the next semester, and cultivate children's habit of consciously previewing.
11 The habit of doing homework independently
Some parents are afraid that their children are backward and they start "full monitoring." Every day not only watching the child's homework, but also when the child is in difficulties, you will immediately "open, break it", so that the child's academic performance may always be the lead, but the independent learning ability has not been mentioned arrive.
Parents can accompany their children for a while, but they must find a way to get out from it. If you do n’t draw, the child ’s independence will never be generated, then he will become more and more distressed, more and more unconscious, and the effect of“ accompanying ”will become smaller and smaller.
12 Reviewing the habit of summarizing
Review is to digest knowledge, deepen understanding and memory, and achieve one derity. Review is to refine the ideas of solving problems and summarize and organize. Let the children try to review the things on the day every day, make a summary every week, and review it after one chapter. It can not only deepen the impression, but also conducive to forming a system.
13 exercise habits
Parents should encourage their children to exercise more. Only if you exercise, you may get less ill. Study or other things should not be a factor to block children's movement.
Parents can take their children to exercise, walk, and outing. This is not only for children's health, but also for children to broaden their horizons and grasp a good time to communicate with others. This has a huge impact on children's life.
14 habit of saving
Everyone's frugality not only shows personal moral views and living skills, but also is closely related to the entire human survival and development. A person should cultivate the habit of saving from an early age.
The essence of saving every penny is to save resources and experience the noble emotions and wisdom of human beings from it. It is advocated by virtue that it is advocated that the money that should be spent is spent, and it should not be controlled.
15 The habit of doing things as planned
Successful careers are inseparable from the designed and unremitting struggle. We all encourage children to move towards success, but tolerate the children's efforts and thoughts.
If when the child raises a request, we always ask: What about your plan? When children are getting used to planning before action, a great change begins.
If we patiently tell his plan with the child and make the plan feasible, then the child matures quietly. Doing big things starts with small things. For example, before going to bed every day, putting the clothes or use the next day is neat, which is one of the necessary training for children to do things.
Source: China Education News
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