"Double reduction" is to encourage "release"? Regarding these anxiety about parents, listen to what the teacher says

Not long ago, the scholars of Renmin University of China analyzed the effects of the "double reduction" policy through the search volume of keywords on the search engine, the purchase volume of the e -commerce platform related products, and the professional consulting website. It was found that the year of the implementation of the "double reduction" policy, the symptoms of young people's depression decreased by 78.6%, and the effect of "double reduction" had begun to appear. But at the same time, parents' anxiety symptoms increased by 12.8%.

During the interview, the reporter learned that the root cause of the anxiety of parents was to worry that children would not be able to obtain high -quality educational resources. In response to the anxiety of parents, the reporter invited a number of teachers to answer questions for parents and gave solutions.

Anxiety one: What should I do if I have freedom and self -discipline?

● Parent's message desk:

After the summer vacation, Xiao Gang (pseudonym) in the southern mountainous area is about to go to the sixth grade of elementary school. During the 50 -day holiday, Xiao Gang formulated a detailed study and fitness plan for himself. What are the days of preparation for the holidays, which are reviewed, and then when you read the homework, when will you exercise, when will you exercise? Proper relaxation is clearly listed. Although the plan is good, "the effect of execution is not unsatisfactory," Ms. Zhu, Ms. Zhu, told reporters.

"It stands to reason that it is six grades right away. Children should have developed the habit of conscious learning, but half of the holidays have passed. Except for swimming can persist, neither can be performed as planned." Ms. Zhu said.

In fact, Ms. Zhu has always paid great attention to cultivating children's self -discipline, especially since the implementation of the "double reduction" policy. The mobile phone can't be attentive to study, and she and her child's father are busy with work, and can't take a lot of time to supervise the child. "Children will go to the sixth grade again, and then the junior high school. How can we improve the self -discipline of children's learning and develop good learning habits?" Ms. Zhu is very anxious.

● The teacher has something to say:

"From his rhythm to self -discipline, inspiring students' internal driving force is the primary task of teachers and parents after 'double reduction'." Wang Shouxin, director of the Curriculum and Teaching Research Center of Jinan Fourteen Middle School, told reporters in the interview.

Wang Shouxin has his own "trick" for how parents care about how to work together to stimulate students' learning. "Using this holiday to help children change from the inside out, it is the primary problem of parents. Learning internal driving force affects the upper limit of the child's life. "

So how to stimulate students' internal driving force, Wang Shouxin said, "Stimulating the child's subjective power, starting from the planning time." In Wang Shouxin's view, the planning time is the same as the finishing items. Feeling cultivation. Parents can guide their children to make a general plan for a day and set goals. "Let him determine what to do, how to do, what extent, and summarize. Only in this way can help the child build a sense of order in time." Wang Shouxin said.

Coincidentally, Zhang Tian, ​​a class teacher in the third grade class of Shengli Street Primary School in Jinan City, also said in an interview that helping children formulate a plan form and use a reward mechanism. Comprehensive development of wisdom and beauty. "

Parents must also surprise their children and let him feel that "goodness is always unexpected." "Parents should properly guide and reward their children's plan forms. Do not set this reward in advance. Under the in -depth observation, it should be rewarded immediately when there is progress. Essence

In the end, Wang Shouxin and Zhang Tian pointed out: "Parents should lead by example and form an example of the atmosphere at home." Every child has the willingness to learn new things. Parents should lead by example to create a good family atmosphere for their children. Learning, life, reading, exercise, etc., give children room for growth.

Facing the confusion of Ms. Zhu, Cao Hongmei, vice president of Zhonggong Street Central Elementary School in the south of Jinan City, believes that the child's work is dragging, which is largely that the child is not firm in his knowledge. Therefore, parents should communicate with the school teachers in a timely manner to let teachers understand the actual situation of their children.

As one of the overall advanced pushing people in the projectization learning of Longao School in Lixia District in Jinan City, Sun Jing believes that the method of project learning has a strong inspiration for cultivating children's self -discipline ability. In life, if parents can refer to the method of projectization, let their children actively find problems, inquiry, and solve problems, they will definitely allow children to learn more about knowledge from the big book of life and accumulate more growth energy. Essence

Anxiety 2: What should I do if I am worried about others "grab running"?

● Parent's message desk:

Ms. Sun in the fourth grade in Lixia District said that her daughter belongs to a relatively self -discipline child and has developed a good habit of "finishing homework before eating" early. After the "double reduction", the child's state is good, but she will still feel anxious. "There are too many good children around, and many parents' investment and attention to the education of children makes me feel too little. I am afraid that I am too Buddhist, and let my children miss a lot of opportunities to grow." Ms. Sun said.

As a parent of Xiao Shengchu, Ms. Chen reported to her children a lot of counseling classes. Fearing that the knowledge on the school is too simple, coupled with hoping to improve the artistic literacy of her children, she still reports to her children five or six tutoring classes after "double reduction". "Everyone is minus. I will add an additional order to the child, and can I better win on the starting line?" Ms. Chen said. But what makes Ms. Chen distressed is that because of the distance between the counseling class, she and her children feel particularly exhausted.

● The teacher has something to say:

As a mother of a primary school student, Zhang Juan, a teacher of the experimental primary school of Lixia District, Jinan City, also had anxiety at the beginning of the "double reduction", but with the advancement of the policy, her emotions became gentle.

She carefully studied "double reduction" and related policies, and noticed an important policy- "deepening the reform of high school enrollment". Among them, the comprehensive quality was mentioned in a prominent position, and it was necessary to rely on the characteristics of different subjects to improve the test method and performance presentation. "In other words, the current training method will be greatly reduced to the future advanced studies. It may be possible to use the time when sacrificing the child to improve the quality of the child to improve the quality. The track, what is the meaning of you still running on the old track? "

"Why the phenomenon of 'chicken baby' appears, in fact, it is the psychological comparison of parents. We must firmly believe that each individual has its own flowering period. As a parent, just wait for the flowers to bloom." Zhang Tian said, as a parent, as a parent, The first thing to do is to accept themselves, take their own children, and establish the correct parenting goals.

"Letting children become an excellent ordinary person is not to give up the child to become excellent, but to fully understand and accept the child, whether the advantages or disadvantages." Zhang Tian said. At the same time, we must accompany the child's growth, tap the flash point of the child, and teach according to their aptitude. When children are young, they can help children know themselves and find children's interest.

"In 2022, the Ministry of Education issued a compulsory education curriculum plan. In the plan, the word" core literacy "appeared repeatedly." It is understood that in the summer of the 14th, the teacher training in the summer is also constantly adjusting. In terms of help, help students learn more efficiently in class. "As a parent, keep up with the school's pace, and at the same time expand multiple off -campus resources to contribute to the breadth of children's life." Wang Shouxin said.

Geng Shuang, vice president of Ruijing Elementary School in Tianqiao District, Jinan City, gave his suggestions. Parents can start from the following three aspects to relieve anxiety: First, fully understand school education, fully trust schools and teachers, master the latest direction of education reform, keep tight Follow the scores, to the cultivation of core literacy, and cultivate people who have developed comprehensive development of morality and body; second, parents should learn more education rules, understand the rules of children, and truly participate in children's growth; third, interest It is the best teacher. Choosing the in -depth training of children's best and most interested, objectively and rationally treat the strengths and weaknesses of their children. While the development of morality, intellectual, physical and labor, the advantages cultivate, and they should not follow the trend.

Anxiety III: "Double reduction" is to encourage "release"?

● Parent's message desk:

After the "dual reduction", the pressure of Ms. Fang Fang's counseling operation was a lot easier. Because the child has done most of the homework at school, she no longer questions the child's study. After the test at the end of the period, she regretted it. The child had a homework and only took "good", which was far lower than the average level of the class.

"Although the grades are not all, the mastery of daily basic knowledge is the basis of future learning. I really regret it." Ms. Fang said regretfully.

● The teacher has something to say:

"After thinking 'double reduction', the child's" release ", the parents 'release', then it is wrong." Geng Shuang said that in recent years, the country has introduced the reform of education evaluation and ideological politics, sports aesthetic education, labor education, etc. The series of documents point out what the future talents look like. A parent who is responsible for the child can no longer think that the child is rewarding more classes and more accompanying classes is to do their best. Instead, to really participate in the career of the comprehensive development of morality, intellectual, physical and labor, this is the need for children and parents The "big test" goes out. "For example, the introduction of 'double reduction' and a series of other educational reform policies are not allowed to shoot archery, but to change a farther target to test the players."

In Zhang Juan's view, happy children are "accompanied". Parents' love, carefulness, patience, and careful companionship are essential nutrients and spiritual comfort in children's lives. In the past, most parents accompanied their children to coaching classes and writing homework. Now that after the "double reduction", children can be freely controlled, and the way parents accompany their children are not the same as in the past. Parents can accompany their children to exercise, work, watch movies, and visit bookstores; accompany their children into nature, appreciate the high clouds, flowing water, flowing water ...

Zhang Juan said that after the "double reduction", the school reduced written homework, but it did not mean that there was no family homework. Teachers usually arrange some "oral homework", such as: reading texts, memorizing ancient poems; and some "practical homework", such as: housework, handicraft, public welfare, and social survey. These homework is elastic, difficult to quantify, and it is difficult to check one by one, relying on students' self -discipline and consciousness.

(Jinan Daily reporter Fan Kaiyun Zhang Lei Zhou Ying Shi Chunyong)

Edit: Zhang Yu

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