"My Well -off Life" grows with children

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Text | "Well -off" · China Well -off reporter Li Huijun

In order to allow children to gain something in kindergarten, Dong Ye has changed her daughter for kindergarten.

The post -80s girl Dong Yan came from a fourth -tier city in the north. From graduating from graduate school to now, Dong Ye has been struggling in the city in Beijing and has been working in the education industry for many years.

The reason why I chose the education industry was because of my experience and perception when I was young. When Dong Yan was in junior high school, the class teacher at that time was very strict with the classmates in the class. , But rarely get the teacher's encouragement and praise. "Good education should not be suppressed, but should be encouraged." This kind of perception prompts Dong Yan to change the old education method and use more corrected education to help children chase their dreams.

From a computer to psychology, it was an important decision made by Dong Yan in his senior year. In the senior year, Dong Yan followed his inner thoughts and chose his favorite major as the direction of graduate learning. During the graduate student, Dong Yan obtained a second -level certificate of psychological counselor. Since the study of Shanxi Normal University is the Department of Normal University, the professional research direction focuses on the education field, which has consolidated the foundation for Dong Ye to deal with the children in the future.

After graduating from graduate school, Dong Yan decided to realize his ideals and ambitions in Beijing.

When you first arrived, Dong Yan found a work for the development of school -based courses for preschool children. At that time, her child was also at the age of Shangya. As Dong Yan studied and developed children's school -based courses with colleagues, he practiced what he thought about in his parenting. Dong Yan believes that parents cannot be missing in early education, otherwise it is difficult to make up for it in the future.

"I am particularly picky about kindergarten. Whether other parents are eating well, I will ask what courses and activities, what ability to help children cultivate, and pay attention to other parents." In order to allow children to be in kindergarten in kindergarten In the gain, Dong Yan once changed the kindergarten for her daughter. As for the reason, she said, "At the beginning of the small class of Montessori, she began to write numbers, coat color, and had little exercise. The interaction between children was less. . In the later stage of the big class, I changed it back and then went to Montess to connect with elementary school. "

For preschool children, Dong Yan believes that the training of ability is more important. "Children are mentally healthy, love learning, and can be brave and persistent in the face of setbacks."

"I pay more attention to companionship." Dong Yan said, "Especially when the child is young, if the mother is more accompanied, it will be much better than others. However, I go back to work after the maternity leave. When, it is timid and lacks a sense of security. Later, I paid special attention to studying and playing with children to cultivate children's interest in learning and help children build healthy body and mind. "

A few years ago, her daughter entered elementary school, and Dong Yan also entered a family education consulting company. As for the significance of work, it can help every family who come to consult, let children grow in a more harmonious and healthy atmosphere, and develop a better self.

"Now, my daughter is in the third grade. When I was in kindergarten, I asked her to experience many types of courses, piano, dance, and art, but did not let her test. I would adjust the difficulty and progress of the curriculum according to the child's time and ability. Let her always love her love for learning. Of course, if the child is unwilling, I won't be reluctant. "For education, Dong Ye chose to respect the child's own wishes.

In the summer of July, Dong Yan was still very busy. Nevertheless, her mentality has always been optimistic, just as her expectations for her daughter, strong psychology, life can be smoother.

("Well -off" · China Well -off Exclusive Draft)

This article was published in "Well -off" in late July 2022

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