Star | Father's Tale

The father who graduated from the normal normal in 1950 was first engaged in employee education. In 1957, he was transferred to middle school as a teacher and continued until retirement. I have never heard his class, and I don't know if his language in the classroom is colorful. However, in daily work and life, my father's words are very small. It is not too much to describe in a tacito.

Around 1963, the school arranged his father to serve as a class teacher in the third grade, and his father did not take any lesson in this class. The father who had a few words must be the head teacher of this "empty shell" class, and the mother who quickly said at the fast -moving mother first concluded. However, the result is just the opposite. The comprehensive performance of this class and the best grade in the entrance examination are the best. Later, I discovered a secret. There was a thick book in the bag where my father went to work. The dense pagination of hema recorded the situation of every student in the class, including family conditions, realistic performance, academic performance, personality hobbies, and so on. After my father went home, I always liked to open it quietly. Over time, at the age of twelve, I know the situation of most students in the class. Today, I can also report the names of the students in the class, such as Liu Xingrong, Kang Central, Duan Jiaxiang, Liu Chunru, and so on. When my father was in contact with students, he did not talk much, but he did a lot of meticulous cases behind him. This is probably "Kung Fu is outside".

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My father had strict requirements on us since he was a child, but he still had very little words, and sometimes he didn't speak. I could only read his thoughts from his expression.

In the next semester of the third grade of elementary school, I regained quickly, and there was no advantage in the scorching report form. At the beginning of the comment, "I learned too much, and I often went to the Kangle Ball Stall to tease during the warm class." My father came back after the parent's meeting, and his expression was very serious, but there was no complete words. He just popped out the five words "You think about it" when he handed the results report to me. Many years later, I always like to use "silently better at this time" to describe my father's silent attitude.

My father is very authoritative in our growth. The college entrance examination was resumed in 1977. The two younger brothers and a younger sister were eager to take the test, and I raised chess because of studying "broken files", especially the mathematical foundation was too poor. My father's focus said, "You are the boss, you should also give a role model for your siblings," especially the analysis of "only one -fifth of the language mathematics." The four brothers and sisters were admitted to the school we liked in the same year, so that they seized the opportunities for this generation to give us this generation.

In his later years, his father's hearing dropped sharply. Sometimes he can't hear the speech of others, and there are fewer words. In 2004, I was mobilized. After learning about it, my father talked with me a few words, meaning that the organization was affirmed and trusted in your work. He couldn't be proud and complacent, let alone self -righteous. I was very happy at first, and I was uncomfortable after listening.

I did not understand until he drove the crane a year later. There was a reason for his father's words. When sorting the relics, I accidentally found that he mentioned several times in his diary that I felt so good and looked down on people. The old man didn't communicate with me much, but found a problem from my conversation, and remembered it politely, and even listed a lot of one or two. When I saw the text after he died, I felt shameful. His father has always been severe to his children. I remember Mo Yan said, "If there is no father's severe, I will be a person who looks like, it is really hard to say." I feel the same.

In this world, some people are not heavy, and some people have less words but they are very important. Father is the latter. Only the silent teachings of the elderly and inheriting this family style are the best repayments.

◇ Zhou Shiqing

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