Weaving the "latitude and weft line" of home schools to activate students' growth "dual engines"

I believe that every parent has told their children: Go to school to study hard. But can you think of, many parents have to go to school to study. At present, many schools in Nanjing are actively promoting parental schools to cultivate a number of learning, smart, and expert parents, and home -school collaboration to help children grow up healthy.

Primary school stage:

Realize benign communication of parent -child

The parent school of Langya Road Primary School in Nanjing City is called "Class 7". "In terms of location, Langya Road Primary School is located at No. 7 Langya Road, which means 'we are here, there is us' here. From the function, the school uses the classroom No. 1 to 6 to refer to each grade, the" No. 7 classroom No. 7 classroom, 'Classrooms that are specially opened for the passage of school education and family education. It is a space for school strength, parental power, and social forces to collaborate on education. From the meaning of meaning, the concept of "ingenuity seven" in our country,' Seven The purpose of the classroom is to help each parent appreciate children through multiple angles, lead the children and achieve children through multiple channels, and make themselves 'ingenious parents'. "Zhang Dongmei, vice president of Langya Road Primary School, told reporters that the" No. 7 classroom " Taking "everyone has a microphone" as the slogan, creating a chance for each parent.

In terms of "Class 7" teachers, it is divided into three categories: teachers, guest teachers, experts and scholars in school. Among them, the teachers in the school are divided into two types: "big master" and "little master". "Big master" is formed by senior teachers within the school. Family education concept, effectively fulfill the responsibility of the family education subject; "Little Master" shares his own learning and life experience by students, and sharing content is not limited to book knowledge, including what you see during the tour, and your own new view Wait what the book feels.

The visiting teachers invite parents to show their opinions to tell some innovative practices in the process of educating their children. Parents can also discuss this approach. Experts and scholars invite more well -known family education experts at home and abroad to pass on cutting -edge ideas and educating concepts to form a collision of ideas.

This also guides parents to use rationality instead of roughness and realize benign communication between parent -child. Some parents shared such a story: "One day, my daughter had a conflict with my good friends, and I didn't care at first. However, because I didn't give her those pink chopsticks that day, she fried In the past, I would definitely blurt out and say "Don't cry, don't make trouble unreasonable", but I just learned some methods and methods from the parent class that day. At one time, gradually calming down, and finally unbuttoned the emotional small puppet. "

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Junior high school stage:

Let parent -child contradictory "cool down fire"

Junior high school students are in adolescence. This is the stage when everyone transitions from children to adults, and it is also a critical period for student development. During this period, children and their parents always "disagreement" and even quarrels often occur. How to maintain a harmonious parent -child relationship and guide children through this "rebellion period"? In September 2017, the Nanda Affiliated High School Tree School opened the "Tree and Good Parents School" to tailor -made parent courses for different years.

In the first grade, focus on adapting topics, help children cultivate learning interest, formulate learning goals, guide learning methods, and develop excellent quality such as frugality, honesty, and gratitude. The second grade focuses on the guidance of sexual psychology and heterosexual exchanges in adolescence, allowing children to treat network information correctly, enhance team synergy, and cultivate self -control and optimistic attitude. In the junior and third grades, pay attention to the guidance of further studies, highlight the preparation and strategy guidance of the entrance examination, to overcome the methods and skills of the anxiety of the exam, and cultivate children's strong willpower and anti -seduce.

In the process of allowing parents to participate in their children's growth, the tree people school set up a school -level, grade, and class three -level home committee. The carefully designed period of the conventional parent meeting at the end of the mid -term period, classification of special parent meetings, individual parents' interviews, etc., collided in the interaction of home schools, collided in the interaction Wisdom, reaching consensus, and strengthening collaboration; "Hundred Classrooms" are opened. Since 2007, every class has parents entering the classroom to conduct special vocational courses and encyclopedia knowledge lectures. There are more than 2,200 festivals. Parents have been established. Volunteer groups, schools and places at the beginning of school, new semester, etc., organize parental volunteer groups to participate in activities to assist management services; create parent -child practice, combine the characteristics of grade, design moral education practice and family interaction, allow children and parents to participate in practical activities together Such as parent -child research punch cards, parental speeches, reading of parent -child, parent -child sports expert selection, etc. to promote parent -child harmony.

In the Xinyue Pavilion of the Shuren School, there is also a "Knowledge Parent's Studio" hosted by President Sun Xiaohong, a doctor of education psychology, mainly for some families with special needs. In the years, it is mainly focused on parent -child conflicts, second -child imbalances, strong adolescent rebellion, remarriage of divorced families, and their parents' own psychological problems. At present, the family that follows up is all right.

The solid and distinctive home -school work of the Tree People School has been recognized by students, parents and society. In the past three years, the school has become a characteristic school in Jiangsu Provincial Primary and Middle School Students to improve the engineering school, Jiangsu primary and secondary school mental health education characteristic school, etc. In the "One School, One Case" issued by the Ministry of Education in 2020, in the typical case of the "Guidelines for Moral Education in Primary and Middle Schools", the school has become the only school in Nanjing with the "Comprehensive Development Course of Student Morality Based on the" Home School "system. High school stage:

Pinghe's mentality "add points" for the children's college entrance examination

"The college entrance examination is a major turning point in life, which leads to the general anxiety of parents of high school students, and the anxiety mentality of parents will also migrate to the child, which can easily cause the child's psychological problems. Counseling classes have caused children to be busy with gyro every day, and the ultimate effect is not good. "Said Zhao Qiaolin, vice president of Jinling Middle School.

Considering the characteristics of high school courses, Jinling Middle School launched a system and comprehensive parent school courses, which are divided into two major systems: compulsory courses and elective courses. Among them, the compulsory courses are divided into three stages: the first -year -old parent courses, the theme is "goal and adaptation", which mainly tells how to help children adapt to high school learning life and how to help children plan life. Adaptation and breakthroughs, mainly about how to inject new learning motivation for children, how to help children face the qualification examination together, etc.; Parents courses for graduates in the senior high school, the goal of "adjustment and hard work", mainly about the problems and problems and problems of children before the college entrance examination and Countermeasures, volunteers of college entrance examinations, and choices of colleges and universities.

Elective courses include self -improvement courses, activity courses, and parent -child interactive courses: self -improvement courses include reading family education books, often participating in some lecture training, etc.; Activity courses mainly participate Psychological group auxiliary, family debate competition, etc.; Parent -child interactive courses mainly include high school three years of parents who wrote at least three letters to their children, at least one movie with their children at least three years in high school.

"As the college entrance examination approaches, some parents will care too much about their children, causing their children to be more psychological and poor. As parents, they should treat the college entrance examination with a peaceful mind, and communicate with their children with a peaceful attitude. In order to combine, you can add points' for the children's college entrance examination. "Zhao Qiaolin said.

"Family education has an important role in the cultivation of the moral quality, physical fitness, living skills, cultural accomplishment, and behavior habits of minors. Education in children's virtue, aesthetics, and labor. Only by the union of home schools, family education and school education have cooperation and division of labor, can help children grow up healthy. "

(Reporter Yin Dandan)

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