The implementation of the family education promotion law, how do parents consciously learn the knowledge of family education?

China Youth Network, Beijing, July 22 (Reporter Li Huaxi) From January 1 this year, the "Family Education Promotion Law" was officially implemented. Article 18 of the Law Article 18 states that the parents of the minor or other guardians should establish the correct family education concept, consciously learn the knowledge of family education, and enter the infant care service institutions, kindergartens, primary and secondary schools, etc. Perform targeted learning, master scientific family education methods, and improve the ability of family education.

Why do parents learn family education knowledge? What knowledge to learn? What misunderstandings do parents have when learning family education knowledge, which detours are easy to take, and what difficult challenges they face? After the implementation of the "Family Education Promotion Law", how should parents consciously learn the knowledge of family education? A reporter from China Youth Network interviewed Zhao Gang, dean of the Institute of Family Education of the Northeast Normal University and vice chairman of the Family Education Professional Committee of the Chinese Education Society.

Parents learning scientific family education knowledge related to the quality of life of future generations

Zhao Gang believes that the family is a place where a person is born, grows, and grows old. The first responsible person and rateder who raised life comes from the family's blood -related people. There is a basic authentic instinct in the family. They all look forward to the children's prospects and futures in the future. Behind it is directly related to the parental breeding level.

He said that the quality of life is the same as the parental breeding level. Nourishing is physiological growth, and cultivation contains functional and mental quality. The quality of family education is different, and the quality of the future life of children is also different. "As a breeder, learning excellent and scientific family education knowledge is related to the quality of life of future generations. This theory is not a problem from a scientific perspective."

Zhao Gang said that after his parents have children, they instinctively look forward to the prosperity of the descendants and their children. Therefore, they must learn scientific knowledge and family education knowledge. "But at present, the construction of family education disciplines in my country is not perfect. Most parents have not studied scientific parenting knowledge."

"Learning family education is not optional, but very important things." Zhao Gang said, what is the most important value in the family? Not houses, cars, and tickets, the most important thing is the child's excellence. "Your child is not good, gives the family depreciate, and even damage the family. It is precisely this serious or even severe problem."

He believes that no parents do not want their children to be excellent. If they want their children to be excellent, parents must learn scientific nurturing methods. Parents need to learn to ensure that children cultivated by couples can be excellent in the future.

School education and social education are the extension and continuing of family education

The "Family Education Promotion Law" clearly states that parents or other guardians should establish a family responsibility awareness of the first classroom and parent as the first teacher, and assume the main responsibility of implementing family education for minors. Zhao Gang said that since his parents are the first influencer, not the second school teacher, then the level of parental breeding depends on whether the later education method is optimized.

As the saying goes, "I look at the old age, I look at the old age," Zhao Gang believes that it is actually family breeding, parental quality and family culture. In the growth of children's life, the impact of family education on the quality of life is very critical. However, many parents have misunderstandings in the division of labor in family education, school education and social education.

"School education and social education are the extension and continuity of family education. But the biggest misunderstanding of parents now is that family education is supplement and continuation of school education and social education."

Zhao Gang said that in the order of human growth, school education is the continuation of family education. In the growth of people, family functions far exceed school functions. In family education, we must focus on the early childhood training, family style and family education, physical and mental health, etc., cultivate children to adapt to society, learn to live habits, cultivate living ability, and protect their safety.

"Many parents think that educating children is a matter of school, and parents lack awareness of education participation." He believes that in home -school cooperation, families should make up for the lack of school education, and schools need to rely on family to improve the quality of education.

Family education is not simply copied. Parents should improve consciousness and thinking

In real life, many parents blindly learn from family teaching knowledge and move some successful experiences and cases to their children, which makes Zhao Gang feel a bit wrong.

He believes that family education cannot be easily copied, because everyone is different, and everyone's physiological and psychological characteristics are different. For the breeder, the best breeding is the first attitude, forming a relationship, and the second is understanding. This is an important principle.

Zhao Gang said that parents should improve their own consciousness and thinking, and learn about childcare knowledge cannot directly copy the experience and skills of experts, but use them to use them with a choice according to the characteristics of their children. Family education is a process of thinking. If it can be copied, children can be cultivated into the best figures in the world.

"No matter how good the good people are, it is the characteristics of his era, and it is determined by factors such as his family characteristics and physiological characteristics." Zhao Gang believes that some things can be copied, such as the formation of some parent -child relationships can be copied.

Faced with the anxiety of parents in the parenting process, Zhao Gang thought not to give his children too high expectations. He said that the higher the parents' expectations for their children, the greater the possibility of children's expectations.

Zhao Gang believes that parents are now in a relatively impetuous era. Parenting often faces anxiety and impetuousness. How to solve these problems requires parents to broaden their horizons and cultivate themselves through their childcare knowledge. How do parents consciously learn the knowledge of family education?

Zhao Gang believes that although various disciplines such as education, psychology, and sociology are valuable to family education, the most important thing is to learn the laws of children's growth, learn physiological psychology and development psychology, master the growth of children's growth in each period of time The laws and characteristics of physical and mental and mental, mental and mental, this is the basic framework and the basic course for the first compulsory. "For other related content, such as the experience of parenting, parents can take electives and sublimate themselves according to their children's characteristics and needs."

What channels should I learn about childcare knowledge? Regarding this issue, Zhao Gang suggested that social media, publishing books, audiovisual videos, etc. are all ways to obtain parenting knowledge, but you must also carefully analyze and identify. Do not have too many books for parenting. And observation.

In addition, Zhao Gang believes that parents should not fall into the trap of "foreign methods". Foreign parenting experience and methods are not all suitable for Chinese parents and children. Parents can also learn about parenting knowledge by buying online payment products.

How to ensure authority and scientificity when learning parenting knowledge and buying parenting products is a problem that many parents are worried about. Zhao Gang suggested that parents must first find personal and institutions with credibility to learn and purchase products; secondly, which knowledge is scientific, parents can make basic judgments based on their own knowledge level.

In addition, letting parents consciously learn the knowledge of family education. Zhao Gang believes that in addition to the need for the country and the media to vigorously advocate it, the parents are conscious.

He believes that from a national perspective, the basis of advocating a learning society is the construction of learning families. The state should motivate parents to learn parenting knowledge, build learning families, and form an atmosphere of conscious learning.

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