Instructor Su's 101 Diary

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Top 10 troops, the first move of love soldiers. President Xi emphasized that leading soldiers is to bring their hearts. Only by changing your heart can your heart be stated, and your heart is self -contained.

Faced with the lack of care and self -confidence and being trapped in the "muddy mud" from an early age, the instructor Su Jun and his comrades of the Armed Police Shenzhen Detachment Second Squadron and his comrades -in -arms were treated with each other. "The mind mud" helped him calibrate his life.

From August 30th to December 8th, 2021, Su Jun recorded the story of Xiao Deng's all the way with 101 days. What are the diary? What are the growth, experience and perceptions of the instructor Su Jun? For more content, please pay attention to today's "The PLA Daily" "Battle Camp Observation" article "101 Instructor's Diary of the Soviet "-

Published on June 14th Edition "PLA Daily"

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Xiao Deng laughed

■ Teng Fumin Liberation Army Daily special reporter Liao Binhua

Once again came to the second squadron to visit, Li Liang, the head of the Shenzhen Detachment of the Guangdong Corps of the Armed Police, met Xiao Deng on the face of Li Liang.

"Captain Li!" Xiao Deng greeted him with a smile. Li Liang froze for a moment, the little Deng in front of him, and the "old sickness" Xiao Deng, who was not staying at the time of the hospital, was somewhat somewhat confident.

"How is it recently?" Li Liang asked subconsciously. "Recently, I won the tug of war." Xiao Deng's face was full of happiness.

"Xiao Deng laughed. This is not easy!" Looking at Xiao Deng Yuan's back, Li Liang decided to call Su Jun. Because he knew that Su Jun's difficulties in the past few months.

Su Jun is the instructor of the Second Squadron of the Armed Police Shenzhen Detachment. There is a thick live pages notebook on his desk with 101 diary inside. The protagonist of all the stories in the diary is Xiao Deng, a recruit that made Li Liang feel excited.

From August 30th to December 8th, 2021, in the face of Xiao Deng, who was trapped in the "mud", Su Jun and his comrades -in -arms treated each other, and he reached a helping hand to Xiao Deng. "Mud" helped him calibrate his life.

Today, as Xiao Deng "grows up with the sun", this diary has been "stopped" for more than half a year. However, before going to bed every day, Su Jun still rolled habitually.

The diary not only wrote the story of Xiao Deng's along the way, but also the growth, experience and perception of the instructor Su Jun.

Instructor Su's 101 Diary

■ Huang Dinglong Zhu Chengang PLA Daily Special Reporter Liao Binhua

★ The officer and soldiers of the second squadron of the Shenzhen Detachment of the Armed Police Guangdong Corps.

1

"He is our comrade -in -arms, but just starting slowly, we have to take him slowly to catch up."

——In Su Jun's diary

"Come back in the hospital, Xiao Deng's mental state has improved, but there is still no troops. Last Thursday, he asked for a personal bank card to go out to apply for a personal bank card.

This is the content of the first diary. Time, on August 30, 2021, it had been more than a month since Su Jun first saw Xiao Deng.

"Why write this diary?" Su Jun looked at Xiao Deng, who was sweating in the training ground, and said to the reporter from scratch.

July 8 last year is the day when the recruits are off the team. Su Jun, the second squadron instructor, went back to the soldiers who were assigned to the squadron. After the new training, the recruits were full of vitality, and the slogan was full of expectations.

At this time, Su Jun noticed Xiao Deng. His image and expression were obviously disproportionate with the atmosphere at the time -thin body, his eyes was godless, and he even reluctant to open his mouth when he shouted slogans.

The recruits cadres reminded Su Jun that this soldier needs to focus on help. When the team passed by Su Jun, Xiao Deng lowered his head and avoided Su Jun's eyes.

Internal and confused are Su Jun's first impression of Xiao Deng. According to experience, Su Jun realized that it was not easy to bring Xiao Deng.

From the recruits and the cadres, Su Jun learned that Xiao Deng did not love to communicate with others, and did not adapt to the rhythm of recruits training. Later, he was sick and hospitalized.

"In the recruit company, he had almost no laugh." Su Jun was surprised to hear this sentence. After some inquiry, the truth surfaced -Xiao Deng's parents were divorced. Due to lack of care, Xiao Deng had been addicted to online games before. From the second year of college, his mother tried to persuade, and he signed up for the application.

It seems that it is necessary to spend a lot of time in order to bring this soldier, and Su Jun secretly thought about it.

In the early morning of the next day, Tang Huang, the squad leader of Xiao Deng, came to report. Xiao Deng did not sleep at 4 am.

When I arrived at the dining room, the other recruits gobbled, but Xiao Deng took two sips of meals and put down his chopsticks.

The scene in front of him made Su Jun's heart look like a stone. When I was in a lunch break, Su Jun thought about how to talk to Xiao Deng.

The troops gathered out, Xiao Deng hung at the end of the team, without any spirit.

Su Jun stopped him. Before talking a few words, Xiao Deng suddenly popped out: "I want to go to the hospital." Su Jun was caught off guard. After being a instructor for 4 years, he still asked for the first day when he met the recruits who asked to go to the hospital the next day.

The hospital's psychological investigation of Xiao Deng showed that he had a high index. If you do not intervene in time, it is likely to cause serious consequences. It is recommended to go back to the health team for treatment.

During the return journey, Su Jun seemed calm, but his heart twisted. Drive halfway, just meals. Su Jun asked Xiao Deng: "What do you want to eat?" "I want to eat noodles." Xiao Deng blurted out. Entering a Sichuan noodle restaurant, Xiao Deng spoke very little, but eat a lot. For more than a month, Xiao Deng did not improve, which made everyone feel that "paying is not proportional to return." At this time, Xiao Deng gave birth to the "moth" -the during the treatment of the health team, he often played a game with a netizen.

"Why can a stranger communicate with Xiao Deng, but we can't walk into his heart?" Su Junbai was puzzled. At this time, he suddenly thought of the large bowl of noodles eating Xiao Deng in the Sichuan Noodle Restaurant.

"Being able to eat a large bowl of noodles indicates that he did not give up his life." Su Jun's heart was suddenly cheerful. "It was a problem with his own concept. When you see the so -called" key person ", you are nervous. Harmony? "

At the end of the treatment, Su Jun picked up Xiao Deng back. At the same time, he was going to write a diary to record the changes of Xiao Deng in order to better help him.

The day before Xiao Deng returned, Su Jun gathered everyone and said, "We should not look at Xiao Deng with a strange look. He is our comrade -in -arms, but just start slowly. We must take him slowly."

2

"There is a sense of collective honor, we let him have a goal, so he will be more motivated."

——In Su Jun's diary

One day in August last year, Xiao Deng returned to the team after the examination was completed in the hospital. As soon as he entered the door, he was surrounded by the enthusiasm of his comrades. Everyone helps him with a bag, paving bed, and resettlement, and asked him about recovery. The cooking class also cooked a bowl of noodles for him ...

Earlier, the squadron had developed four breakthroughs in the transformation of Xiao Deng -emotional acceptance, care of life, encouragement in work, and notice. Welcome "ritual sense" means the beginning of work.

In the health team, the patients called Xiao Deng as "five differences." "Five Nothing" is not washing your face, not brushing your teeth, not washing your feet, not bathing, and not washing clothes;

Now that he returned, his comrades -in -arms were thinking about "picking up hats" for him.

I heard that Xiao Deng Ai listened to the song, Tang Huang prepared a small waterproof speaker, specifically preparing to broadcast the song while taking a bath. In half a month, every night after the end of the name, Tang Huang's voice could be heard in the corridor: "Xiao Deng, go to take a shower together."

Tang Huang washing his clothes would also call Xiao Deng Tong, and taught him how to wash his clothes quickly and clean. The comrades all said that the monitor was brought to a brother.

The change gradually "cooked" over time.

"After the name tonight, Xiao Deng took the initiative to say to Tang Huang: The monitor, go to take a bath? This is a big turning point." This matter was seriously written into the diary by Su Jun.

At 16:15 on August 31, Su Jun couldn't forget this moment -Xiao Deng pushed the door of the team and said he wanted to talk.

Su Jun poured water to Xiao Deng tea, but his heart was a little unable to calm down: "This stone is finally a little hot."

Xiao Deng opened his heart, saying that he was guilty in the face of everyone's care and care, and was worried that because of poor physical fitness, he could not keep up with his comrades -in -arms, and wanted to apply for logistics posts ...

These are all in the diary by Su Jun. At the same time, he and Xiao Deng's agreement was also recorded: "When engaged in logistics work, it is necessary to be a warrior with strong ideas and military quality. When do you feel that you can and your comrades recognize you and arrange it for you immediately."

"There is a sense of collective honor, and we will let him have a goal so that he will be more motivated." Su Jun said.

Since then, Xiao Deng started to talk to his comrades -in -arms, and he cleaned the sanitation in the class as soon as he had time.

The good times are not long. Just after the second week of September, Xiao Deng became silent again.

where is the problem? Opening the diary, the situation at the time was clear at a glance: "Xiao Deng's emotions have been low in these days, his mother's illness is serious, and there is no money at home to perform surgery ... You must find a way to solve this problem."

That afternoon, Su Jun pushed the door of the small Deng dormitory. Xiao Deng's shoulder sitting in front of the study table, Su Jun said: "You take the squadron as a home. There are so many good brothers.

If you dig out your heart, you have the power of reaching people's hearts. Xiao Deng was red.

That night, Su Jun thought hard and finally had an idea. After repeated communication, Xiao Deng, who had been divorced, extended a helping hand, saying that if his ex -wife had surgery, he was willing to bear all costs.

The stones that were pressed on the heart were moved away, and Xiao Deng began to communicate with his comrades again, and often wondered how to do more for the class.

3

"Parents send their children to the troops to make them glow and fever. This is also the responsibility of bringing soldiers."

——In Su Jun's diary

"Tell Xiao Deng's mother today, she especially hopes that the troops can help him change his bad habits, especially the problem of adding to online games ..."

This is what Su Jun wrote on September 2, 2021. After the call, Su Jun was in contemplation. Xiao Deng is weak and has a lot to do with long -term smoking and obsessed online games. But forcibly intervention may be counterproductive.

"For many years of bad habits, how can you say that you can change it?" Despite the difficulties, Su Jun still determined, "Parents send their children to the troops in order to let them glow and heat, which is also the responsibility of bringing soldiers. "

Quit smoking is the first level.

On that day, the captain Yanzheng and Tang Huang came to Su Jun's office to study the incident of helping Xiao Deng to quit smoking. "First of all, Xiao Deng can not be rejected." Su Jun set the direction: first help Xiao Deng recognize the dangers of smoking, and then gradually reduce the number of smoking times. It coincides with the new style of the "Four Precepts and Four" military camps. Su Jun explained the harm of bad habits such as smoking through case warnings and other combination of smoking, more books, and more fitness.

During the group discussion, Tang Huang said with a smile to Xiao Deng: "Do you want to quit smoking? We can come together." Xiao Deng hesitated: "Let me try it."

Xiao Deng gave the cigarette to Tang Huang. In the first week, the daily amount was one. The most popular is the first few days. When Xiao Deng couldn't help it, he wanted to "touch" one from the class leader's drawer.

As a result, when he touched the cigarette, he was coming back to work when he touched the cigarette, and he suddenly made a cramped. Surprisingly, Tang Huang did not get angry, but took out a branch and handed him: "I can't help but find one more for me, but I can't get it myself." Xiao Deng stunned, and he did not pick it up. Cigarettes. He took a deep breath and said, "I can control myself, won't be next time."

Since then, the smoke in Tang Huang's drawers has never been less.

After passing the smoking quit, the level of quitting the online game is in front of it again. Xiao Deng's "game addiction" was very large, and he once told his comrades that it was not annoying to soak in the Internet cafe for a month.

The squadron has no conditions to play large online games. In order to play games, Xiao Deng hid a mobile phone. After learning about this, Tang Huang reported to Su Jun in accordance with regulations. After understanding the situation, Su Jun did not immediately "deal with" Xiao Deng.

Su Jun can analyze the reasons for Xiao Deng's obsessed with online games -lacking care and self -confidence from an early age, and there is no stage in reality. This is an important cause.

"Solve the problem from the root." One Saturday morning, the squadron held a "theoretical golden sentence sharing meeting". In the face of Xiao Deng, who was sitting in the corner and never spoken, a thought flashed in Su Jun's mind. He said: "We welcome Xiao Deng to talk about two words, everyone said, okay?" "Okay!" The audience sounded warm applause. Xiao Deng Meng, but the applause continued, and all his eyes were eagerly settled to him.

After thinking about it for a long time, he only said a word. Su Jun took the lead in applauding, and his comrades also reported warm applause. At that moment, Xiao Deng suddenly had light.

Su Jun hit the iron while it was hot, encouraging Xiao Deng to challenge himself, quit the game, and pick up the book. Xiao Deng is actually very clever, and the progress is obvious. In the "Theoretical Golden Sentence Dragon" competition organized by the squadron, he said a dozen golden sentences in one breath, making everyone look at it.

The desk calendar turned 15 pages, and his comrades found that even if he posted a mobile phone, Xiao Deng would not play the game anymore. He has participated in collective activities more times.

One day, Xiao Deng pushed Su Jun's door again. That night, Su Jun was very excited when he wrote his diary: "Today, Xiao Deng finally said this sentence that I have been looking forward to: I don't want to be a burden to let everyone carry it. I want to work with my comrades. "

Lack of training for a long time, Xiao Deng could not keep up with progress. For the first time he tried to armed off -road for 5 kilometers, he felt that his chest was short of breath, and his legs were like pouring lead ... "Xiao Deng, come on!" On this way, the encouragement of comrades' encouragement was not broken. Xiao Deng finally rushed across the finish line.

"Xiao Deng said, that 5 kilometers were shouted by his comrades. In fact, he took it down by himself." That day, Su Jun wrote in his diary.

4

"As long as our eyes are full of trust and love, no matter how big the iceberg can be melted,"

——In Su Jun's diary

Li Liang did not expect that what he called himself was also written into his diary by Su Jun.

"Xiao Deng participated in the squadron today and performed well. In addition, Li Liang, captain of the health team, called and said Xiao Deng laughed."

More than three months ago, in order to cooperate with the treatment, Li Liang had accompanied Xiao Deng to watch comedy movies and attended the barbecue party in the health team, but never saw Xiao Deng laugh at once.

Today, Xiao Deng's smile is no longer news in the second squadron.

During the National Day, the squadron organized a lot of sports activities. Xiao Deng signed up for several items. Most of these collective activities are wrestling competitions. The small face is flushed and turbulent, making his body strength, and he smiled very happy after winning.

One day, Xiao Deng ran to Su Jun: "Instructor, can I duty alone? I can, really."

"Okay." The veterans were duty with Xiao Deng before. Su Jun believed that it was time to make him "solo".

After the National Day, Xiao Deng Ru wished to go to the post of duty. At the time of the whistle, it was at the peak of the morning at work. The road outside the door was full of water, and the roadside pedestrians rubbed their shoulders. Many people paid attention to the post. Xiao Deng's back was quite straight.

Since then, Su Jun has felt that his diary is increasingly "nothing to write" - "Xiao Deng's enthusiasm is very high" and "sing well" ... joy is overflowing in Su Jun's heart.

Su Jun knew that Xiao Deng was like a silent seed, and he had passed the dark and long dormant period. He was successfully awakened, and finally broke out and grew out of Xiangyang.

On the day when he decided to "stop" diary, Su Jun wrote such a sentence on the title page of the diary: "As long as our eyes are full of trust and love, the big iceberg can be melted."

★ Su Jun, the instructor of the second squadron of the Armed Police Shenzhen Detachment, likes to write down the soldiers at any time.

Sharp point

No heartless heart

■ Zhang Qingwen

101 days and nights, 101 diaries, instructor Su Jun and comrades wake up a recruit in the "soul mud" with true feelings. This lively practice tells us: there is only no affection, no heart. Top 10 troops, the first move of love soldiers. President Xi emphasized that leading soldiers is to bring their hearts. Only by changing your heart can your heart be stated, and your heart is self -contained. Zhu De has a famous saying: "Standing and covering the quilt for soldiers, these humble things include the success of the Chinese revolution." During the Long March, Zhou Enlai had healed the horse regardless of the serious illness and insisted on giving the horse to a injured warrior. Cross the river with cold water together. The soldiers said moved: "After I hurt, I must kill the enemy bravely!" In the history of the people's army's development and growth, it is precisely this kind of sincerity that the officers and soldiers live and die.

Really want to care for the warrior's sincere care. Leading soldiers does not need to be fancy, what is needed is to be honest and love. Today, in the face of the 00s of the "thumb family" and "network survivor", the reason why someone is feeling that it is difficult to bring, in the final analysis, it is not enough to use it. Love is the best key to open the heart. Looking at the eyes of trust, appreciation, and development, and love warriors, naturally "sincerely change the true heart, the loess becomes gold."

Really reflected in meticulous places. Nie Rongzhen once said: "The work of being a man is the most detailed work, and it is also a very difficult job. It is necessary to do it carefully and live." For a long time, it is a causal relationship. After making the work of "bringing soldiers and heart", you can see the micro -knowledge, and make a better lock to enhance the targetedness and effectiveness of the work. In the past, we concluded a series of methods such as "training to look at the energy, eat and watch the amount, sleep and sleep, and let's write to the expression." We must observe carefully, and more detailed research and summary, so as to truly achieve the soldiers and soldiers.

Sincerely is often reflected as persistence. There is poetic cloud, "What is the speed of success? Quickly push the heart and put the belly." This reflects the importance of treating people with sincerity, but on the other hand, the work of bringing troops is a hardship. Work will inevitably be embarrassed or shaken when leading soldiers feel difficult. Su Jun's help to the transformation of Xiao Deng also "has no doubt about the mountains and water", but as long as he persists, the soldiers will naturally be enthusiastically enthusiastic.

★ The title page of Su Jun's diary.

Source 丨 PLA Newspaper, Learning Legion (ID: xuexijuntuan)

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