Women's Soldier Captain Xu Lu: She knows the most of the female soldiers

This issue has launched "the excellent grassroots leaders of the new era" (2): "The female soldier's captain Xu Lu: the female soldier's mind she knows the most"

The soldiers Wang Lao still remembers that Xu Lu's fingers gently when she took off her boots and socks, making her warm from the soles of her feet to her heart.

The superior soldier Zhao Zixi did not expect that Xu Lu's frequency in her mother's mouth was getting higher and higher, and more and more like WeChat like, even her dear daughter was a bit "jealous".

Chinese Shilu Meihui, who has just been diverted, re -"design" from the military planning derives from Xu Lu's cup of warm coffee, and her warmth that will pass on power.

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Time circulates, the 78th Army ’s brigade female team officers and soldiers have a common idol in their hearts. She is the captain Xu Lu -an excellent grass -roots leader who honored the second and third -class skills.

To understand the "her world", first integrate into the "circle of friends"

Knowing soldiers are easy to say, it is difficult to do well. The girl's mind is the most difficult to guess, but Xu Lu can quickly find out the temperament, consumption concept, social interaction, physical and mental health, etc., who are talking about heart and home visits to become the one who knows the most.

"In the new era, the soldiers have outstanding personality, and each person's opening method is different. Leading soldiers must change their concepts, keep up with the times, and change from person to person. , Soldiers are in my heart. "

In 2017, Chinese scholar Wang Tingting consciously "disadvantaged the years": the school was defeated, and it was diverted again. When I came to the new troops, the former sunshine girl became dumb.

The new generation of officers and soldiers have strong self -esteem, and many words are inconvenient to talk in person. Xu Lu communicated with Wang Tingting with a message when reviewing political education notes: "Pressure and burden can test and achieve people." "Tingting is not stopped, but is caught up. Come on!" ...

"This kind of communication has the feeling of 'pushing back'!" Wang Tingting's motivation doubled, and the following year, it was successfully lifted. So far, she still retains the educational notes at the time and carefully adds the book set.

Feng Yang, who was born in 2000, is a veritable "Internet cafe". When he first arrived in the team, he was seriously "dissatisfied with the soil and water".

Xu Lu found Feng Yang and was ready to give her a good lesson. But didn't say a few words, but was "back".

"Captain, you are not useful, don't think about me 'pua'." "I am very 'emo' now. Essence

The embarrassment is not over yet. Zhongshi Wang Yu's WeChat circle of friends updated: A few times such a class, I really thank ... Xu Lu thought it was recognition of his work. Who knew, Wang Yu made a big red face: "Captain Branch, you talk about 3 lessons a day, everyone has heard cocoons, who remembers what they say?"

The "old class leader" of the "post -80s" did not understand the "post -00s" soldiers! Xu Lu couldn't sleep at night. Finding the meaning of Internet hot words: "PUA" means spiritual control, "emo" is a sad mood; … A sense of crisis is born: Even the warriors do not understand, it is difficult to resonate with them frequently. Over time, everyone will become a "familiar stranger."

After that, Xu Lu put down the "body" as a elementary school student, learned the knowledge of psychology, management and other knowledge, and paid attention to collecting the "post -00s" "youth and secret words", asking for advice from the backbone of the cadres who led the soldiers, and found the "00 After "the" golden key "after the" later.

"Are you still unhappy for the last 'DISS'?" After dinner, Xu Lu came to Feng Yang, and did not wait for Feng Yang to speak, and took the lead in throwing a network hot word. The two talked while walking, and the "puppet" opened quietly: In fact, Feng Yang did not work hard, but that the professionalism needs to reconcile a lot of data, and she was not good at recovering from an early age, and she simply broke the jar.

After learning about the truth, Xu Lu gathered the backbone of the squad leader and told everyone to "call" in Feng Yang. The two people's usual exchanges are getting deeper and deeper, becoming a friend who talks about nothing. Feng Yang finally found the sense of belonging of the home, actively worked hard, trained achievements for leaps and bounds, and became the backbone of the team.

Sharing with sweets together, and sharing understanding and empathy together is the "bridge" of communication officers and soldiers. Caring and love is the key to winning trust. Xu Lu revealed his own experience: "Just like our" post -to -80s' like to drink soda, "post -" post -"post -" posture "is used to drinking milk tea. The same is true for bringing soldiers. Only when the heart is stated, can we be connected by the heart, and at the critical moment, can I trust each other at a critical moment. "

On the 21st day of the warrior Xiao Liu and less than two months when Xiao Lu was born, his mother was separated from them for various reasons, and had not seen each other for more than 20 years. After being sensible, the two girls had the same knot: seeing the biological mother as soon as possible.

"Entering the team's door, it is a family. We share it together, and we taste it together! Let me help you find our mother." Xu Lu solemnly promised.

But their understanding of her mother is limited to their names, not even a photo, looking for relatives like the sea. When he called Xiao Liu's father to call, Liu's father was helpless. After being separated, he broke the contact. He only remembered the name of Xiao Liu's grandfather and the approximate location of Liu's mother's hometown thousands of miles away.

Thinking of the two female soldiers who love their mother and eager to find their biological mother, Xu Lu kept encouraging herself: "As long as there is a hint of hope, you must pay a hundred times effort."

Release the search information online, mobilize comrades and relatives to inquire about the news, and seek help from the local Ministry of Martial Arts and the Public Security Bureau ... Kung Fu is worthy of care. Finally, Xu Lu found Liu's precious information.

Xu Lu (first from left) took a photo with the family members of the officers and soldiers during the home visit

The other side is also a wave of twists and turns. Xiao Lu's father was worried that he would affect his family relationship after finding it and did not want to cooperate. Xu Lu was not discouraged. He repeatedly talked about Xiao Lu's thoughts on his biological mother, and eventually said that he would help Lu's father.

On October 14, 2019, the team's learning room sounded the melody of "Only Moms in the World". Under the guidance of Xu Lu, a pair of white middle -aged women walked in in a hurry. Xiao Liu rushed up to embrace his mother tightly, crying, and the flesh and blood that accumulated for more than 20 years broke out in the blessings of officers and soldiers like volcanoes.

Soon, Xiao Lu's mother also came to the troops and saw her daughter who hadn't seen it for more than 20 years.

Xu Lu's military battalion version of "Waiting for Me", which helped the female soldiers look for her dream, made thousands of netizens cry. While many officers and soldiers praised their attention, what was the motivation for her "curiosity" to support her? Xu Lu replied: "Take out the sincerity, dedicate the true feelings, and truly treat the soldiers as a family, and take the warrior as a matter of their own family."

When I walked into the team, I could really feel that Xu Lu's love for the soldiers was now raising his hands, until he was fine. She often finds soldiers to talk about her heart and solve contradictions. Organize dumplings, buns and other activities on holidays to make comrades away from their hometown feel the warmth of the home. The ground training ground is humid, and she specially applies for dryers and electric heating winds to buy a necessity for soldiers ...

Over the years, Xu Lu has taken a good effort to build a team, and his body has become increasingly thin. The unit leader asked her opinion to change the post to adjust, but she resigned every time, "The team is my home, I love my home."

Each "ugly duckling" can become "white swan"

Xu Lu is a unique soldier. In the eyes of many people, the "bear children" and "only two generations", in Xu Lu's opinion, are rare treasures. "Look at them with appreciation, make the stage of building growth and progress for them, and make the" Ugly Duckling "become 'White Swan'."

Scholar Sun Qingyu was a famous fake boy, with short hair like boys, singing and dancing, never seeing her, dumbbell stand -by -bar push -up is a good play.

"At that time, everyone was afraid of me, and I was like the" ugly duckling "who had fallen in order. I was attentive and prepared to retire in advance." Xu Lu was not in a hurry to do ideological work, but decided to use Sun Qingyu's sports specialty first, Arrange her in charge of the grenades of the team to invest in far -reaching training.

Sun Qingyu's "counterattack road" was not smooth. At first, some of the backbones were dissatisfied. Xu Lu took the lead in the training to "Liwei". Every time she pulled Sun Qingyu for helping himself, his arms were swollen and didn't care.

Once, after the lights were turned off, Sun Qingyu couldn't rest assured Xu Lu and ran to the door of her dormitory. Through the door gap, the captain gritted his teeth and wiped the red flower oil, and his nose was sour. He turned and led two boxes of plaster to put it in front of her door.

"I will live up to the expectations of the captain!" With the trust and encouragement of Xu Lu, Sun Qingyu led the team to the far -reaching results of nearly double the grenades. During the field training this year, while she was studying the header, she also studied satellite majors and served as the monitor.

Xu Lu is an open -minded soldier. She often says that there must be less criticism and more encouragement for soldiers who make mistakes; less accusations, more help, so that they can grow quickly in a loose environment.

Zhongshi Hao Shuai is an experienced monitor backbone. In recent days, "old experience" encountered new problems.

The female soldiers in the class were "bubbling" one after another, and Hao Shuai planned to organize the weekend. I didn't think about it, the next day, the two female soldiers cried and asked her to submit a veteran application.

"When we first joined the army, we were criticized. Now we cry, what should I do if we say a few words, what should I do after I went to the battlefield?" Hao Shuai found Xu Lu "Tucao."

Xu Lu laughed: "Do you remember when you first came to the female soldier team? It was as thin as hemp, and the physical performance was high and low. Is it? "

Thinking back to "” 回 ", Hao Shuai realized that it was not the soldiers who became coquettish, but their own mentality. As the captain said, leading soldiers cannot always talk about "thinking of that year", and to count more "future accounts" to help soldiers forge ahead in setbacks and grow in difficulties. Xu Lu is a soldier with a very high standard of work. She believes that not only should we lead to work well, but more importantly, to make the quality of the soldiers better, and finally bring out the heart of the heart, cohesion, and the powerful combat effectiveness.

In recent years, Xu Lu has set up a "good voice" singing team and "soldier" dance class for officers and soldiers. In the broadcast task, the team became a benchmark unit for travel talents. During this year's training, she took the initiative to increase the three professional training of allegations, radio, and satellites to lead everyone to expand military skills.

"You can't think of it, they can really think of doing it!" In these years, Xu Lu led the female soldiers to complete more than ten exercise communication guarantee tasks to achieve "zero errors" of call guarantee. The female soldiers of the brigade are all good! "

A few days ago, the female soldiers reported again: In a professional competition, they defeated the male soldiers twice.

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The good news continued, and the story of Xu Lu and the female soldiers in the new era continued.

Troops

● Bringing soldiers must bring your mind. Facing the officers and men of the new era, we must look at their personality characteristics with trust, appreciation, and development vision, close their thoughts and souls, and promote their growth and progress.

● Love soldiers must get the law. Love soldiers are the foundation of soldiers. Knowing soldiers are the way to love soldiers. It is necessary to know the deep and coldness of the warrior, the cut, and the urgent solution.

● Education is expensive. As a grass -roots level, the appeal and cohesion come from the personality charm of "let me come" and the first style of "follow me". We must strive to transform this invisible power into silent prestige and puppet power.

陆 Source 丨 People's Army

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