Xiaohong, the really amazing person in the workplace, will not be angry

What is the real people in the workplace? It may be just the opposite of our imagination. They seem to have no temper.

For example, Jiafu's elderly Jiamu, who usually gifted, looks like a kind of kindness, seems to be only peaceful and enjoying the joy of heaven, but this is just a superficial. Occasionally, Jia's mother has a great deterrent, with both the Bodhisattva and the diamond means. Jia's mother's hand -made affairs can make people imagine how she was galloping into the giants when she was young, and gradually became the highest leadership of Jiafu.

In fact, people like this may not have no temper, but to be good at controlling their temper and freely. If you want to develop in the workplace, want to be comfortable yourself, it is often a taboo for your use. But this is difficult for many people to do it, let alone those involved in the workplace. Even many people think that if you have a temper and dare to lose your temper, you can be regarded as the attitude of the winner!

The Yahongyuan Xiahong Xiaohong, who is not in the flow, is humble and has no sense of existence, but also controls his emotions. When working, Xiaohong will always take the best state and go to the direction of his heart. The effort can be better.

In fact, Xiaohong also has some backgrounds. Her parents are the steward of Rongguo Mansion, and they can be regarded as noodles. After the Grand View Garden was completed, Xiaohong was divided into Yongyuan to see the gate in the morning, and his work was really leisurely. However, since Jiafu's golden phoenix moves in, it has become lively here.

But this lively is just them, nothing about Xiaohong. Xiaohong is still just a little girl, looking at the yard, and watching them colorful. Gradually, Xiaohong can no longer be at a bland status quo. She also wants to be the person in front of Baoyu. At least she can show her face and brush the presence.

Xiaohong must also observe the situation in Yihong Courtyard, so that she can seize a rare opportunity. While the other rings are not there, she pour a cup of tea for Jia Baoyu who wants to drink tea. For her, this is an opportunity, but for the other rings, this is unauthorized to cross the post, and it is a great threat to grab their rice bowls.

Xiao Hong was hit by the blue marks and autumn patterns who came back from the water. The two saw this battle at first sight, but they couldn't get angry. They all felt that she was not match, but also afraid of this pretty and sweet girl, really entered the eyes of the young master from the appearance association. As a result, Bisheng and Qiu pattern were handed over, and they began to attack Xiaohong. Both of them said, the autumn pattern was even more red, and the fierce look was to eat people.

Most people encounter this situation. They are not scared. Only Nuo Nuo can't open the mouth, or the fire is furious, and the other party is doing a big deal with the other party. But Xiaohong is very able to control her emotions. She has neither grievances, nor does she ignite her anger. Instead, she explained to them calmly and desperately that she wanted big things to be small and trivial. But these two people did not want her to explain, but simply wanted to humiliate her, vent their dissatisfaction, and let her teach.

Xiao Hong finally caught the opportunity to become a bubble. Due to her uncertain rules, the other rings not only united to exclude her and bully her. It was almost impossible for her to have further actions. They must prevent her strictly guarding her and never have any chance. Moreover, she can't send hope Yu Jiayu's favor. Although she exposed her face in front of Baoyu's face, she also revealed her basic information under the question of Jia Baoyu, but Jia Baoyu never found her later. Essence

Also, this is also full of the house of the house, and no one will turn her. In the future, her situation will only be worse and worse. In this place, it will be completely marginalized. From time to time, she may be ridiculed. Let you choose the branches. It is not as clear as before, leisurely.

Xiao Hong encountered frustration in the workplace, and her mood was naturally bad. When people are in a trough, it is difficult to manage their emotions, and they are often too lazy to manage, and they are the most troublesome. Xiaohong was sad, and her spirit was a little burnout. Xiaoya Huan Jiaxuan thought she was sick and advised her to go to Lin Daiyu to take medicine to eat. It can be seen that Xiaohong's hit is not small.

The days have to continue. Although Xiaohong feels uncomfortable, she does not slack work because of this. What should be done is to do it. The card that should be played must be played, but people can't catch it. She separates work and life, and everyone has emotions, but she will not bring it to work. As long as she is in the workplace, she will not want to do whatever she wants. She knows that she has no such capital, and knows that she is in the workplace, whether it is qi or qi with others, or she is confused, and it is even more useful.

The girls in Yihongyuan were a little petty, all of them were like deputy ladies, and their temper was bigger than one. Because of her temper, Qingwen dared not to open the door of Lin Daiyu outside the door, and complained about it, and the words of the leadership. Whether she knows who the other party is, this is too much. In this way, I can't control my temper, and it must be myself.

What if Mrs. Wang is outside the door? Didn't Qingwen die ugly? Moreover, like Qingwen, I do not know how many people have offended. Even if she is reasonable, it becomes unreasonable. Just as Mrs. Wang occasionally came to Grand View Garden, she could hit her and scold her little girl. Da Yahuan taught Xiaoyuhuan to be one of the work content, but you can imagine Qingwen's pointed -to -footed and unscrupulous scene. Where can Mrs. Wang see it? Can't control his temper, get used to making his temperament, so that Qingwen can't be calm, and he has suffered a lot. Xiaohong became a joke of Yi Hongyuan, but she was under pressure, did not explain or argued until the opportunity came again.

In fact, this opportunity is not for her alone. Sister Feng beckoned on the hillside, and she could not see it alone. But only Xiaohong quickly ran to Sister Feng and obeyed the order. It can be seen that Xiaohong's confidence and initiative. Although she was always a little obscure during this time, and she had no action, she knew how to keep the light and keep it. Xiaohong took the task of Sister Feng, met Ping'er, and came back to Sister Feng again. Later, in Daoxiang Village, I met the group of Yongyuan. When they saw Xiaohong turned around, they were dissatisfied.

At this time, all of them came here, such as Qingwen, Qi Yan, Bisheng, Qiuwen, Musical Yue, Sales Books, Painting, Ying'er. Xiaohong's suddenly appeared, a bit abrupt. Qingwen asked Xiao Hong immediately, and Bi Yan followed up and asked, can the job be done?

Xiaohong explained that everything should be done, and she shouldn't ask her if she shouldn't do it. Qi Qi said disgusted to let her go. Xiaohong told them that she walked around because of helping Sister Feng. This time, Qingwen satirized Xiaohong without thinking, and it was unpleasant to scold her to climb the branches.

Xiao Hong, who was ridiculed by everyone, was uncomfortable in her heart, but she just explained it, and there was no other thing. She was angry with Sister Feng, but she was afraid that her mood had not been calmed down, but quickly switched to a good working state. The words of a car will make Li Yan in the side hear the mist in the clouds. satisfy.

Xiao Hong Ma finished the task of Sister Feng slippery, and got a good praise. Such a skilled business ability, such a clever and generous girl, Sister Feng liked it. Dig over. Xiaohong is not easy to treat in front of Sister Feng, not only treating it, but also freely. The last moment she was still sad because of the exclusion of others, but the next second, she welcomed her work.

People without emotions are not really emotional, but good at controlling their emotions, not easily affected by others, and to be their own masters.

Xiaohong's working status is also the most popular and respected in the workplace. When anyone is unhappy, anyone may be wronged, and no one will face the moment of collapse. But there will always be someone, no matter what he encounters, at work, he only has a job in his eyes, does not bring emotions into it, and will not affect his work because of emotions. Such people are real psychological power.

If you do n’t want to use your breath and lose your temper, his hole cards are like that. Xiaohong did not put his anger with those who crowded her, and did not rot because of the incompetence of work, but spent his mind and energy in more important places. Sure enough, she found a better way out for herself, successfully climbed the "high branches", and let those who bully her face, but the good luck never knocked on the door for no reason!

Author: Awan, this article is the original works of the Red Mansion.

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