Stay away from those smart and unkind people

I have heard a word: In the early stage, I look at the appearance.

Indeed, the final foothold of each relationship must not escape the character.

Only when the character can withstand the test can the relationship stand up to scrutiny.

People with good character are kind and know how to push themselves and others; people with poor character are always exquisite and benefit themselves and harm the interests of others.

People are afraid of making friends, and they are afraid of the wrong person.

Faced with those smart but unkind people, they must be decisive.

Lu Xun once said: "Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, not a heart knock on another heart."

But there are always people in reality: you treat him as a confidant, but he treats you as a joke; you take him as a friend, but he uses you as a fool.

While enjoying your dedication, he was thinking about how to exploit you.

In the TV series "Twenty Twenty", Xiaobing is such a person who is selfish.

Duan Jiabao, a wealthy woman, met Xiaobing, who came to chase the stars during the chasing stars.

As a sincere Duan Jiabao, he devoted Xiaobing as a friend, so he was very generous to him.

Not only did she give a set of expensive idol humanoid pendants as a meeting ceremony, she also gave her gifts often, and asked her to dinner.

Instead of the beneficiaries, not only did not give back one or two, but felt that the family treasures were stupid, so they changed the cheapness of Zaibao.

In this way, Xiaobing often invites Jiabao to sing and eat, and every time I find a reason for Jiabao to pay.

Even she invited Duan Jiabao to buy a concert ticket, and she never mentioned the money to transfer money.

Duan Jiabao cares about this friendship, so he never cares about himself.

As a result, Xiaobing intensified and regarded Jiabao as the injustice of buying.

It is not enough to take advantage of themselves. He also brought a bunch of friends to KTV to spend, trying to pay Jiabao for their consumption.

In the end, Jiabao, who learned the truth, was completely chilling and chose to go through all the best with Xiaobing.

There are many such people around us.

You treat her as a friend, but she uses a fool to use it, and of course, let you be busy for her, and often let you suffer.

When shopping in the AA system, you always transfer the transfer to you, let you lose;

Take a picture together and send a circle of friends, to cultivate yourself beautifully, but you have not fixed it for you;

Every time I take a taxi together, I always sit in the back seat and do not talk about the fare.

Such people, selfishness, and getting along with them will only be consumed.

The ancients said, "There is an unexpected situation in the sky, and people have unexpected hearts."

The people's hearts are unpredictable that those friends who treat you as a fool should be more strict than bad people.

With such a person, you do n’t know when you will be used to be an injustice.

Only away from staying is the protection of yourself!

Writer Ai Qing once said: "The combination of selfishness and greed will hatch many poisonous snakes that damage others."

In fact, the more savvy and selfish people, the more they love people and self -interest.

Some time ago, in order to be able to graduate smoothly, two senior colleges and universities in Xi'an went to a fish for a graduation design in order to be able to graduate.

At the beginning, the two discussed the transaction price with the pen, one was 1050 yuan and the other was 3200 yuan.

During the period, in the case of the design of the writing and writing, the two had repeatedly put forward a modification opinion on the design.

After the graduation design was finalized, the two even rejected their minds and fought Bai Ji's idea.

So with the help of platform vulnerabilities, malicious reports were conducted to threaten the other party's refund.

In the end, it will be 1200 yuan and 500 yuan, and for their own unrestrained moves, the two even arrogantly think that "there is nothing to be safe."

Afterwards, the writer exposed everything on the post bar.

The incident was fermented quickly, and the true identity of the two was picked out.

Then the two panicked and ran to ask for writing deletion.

Instead of apologizing, I said shamelessly: "It is economic loss for you, but there is really no way for us to graduate."

How selfishness is this, whether before the incident or after the incident, only considers his own gains and losses, and never cares about the feelings of others.

Writer Wu Jun once described this savvy person:

They know how to avoid harm, and they will not let go of any small profits.

This statement is not vivid.

Smart people, only profit is a picture, often because of a little profit authority.

Not only that, in their eyes, others can suffer a lot, but they cannot conquer half a point, and even build their own interests on the sacrifice of others.

Getting along with such people, you can never ask for half a good point, and you can't guess how to calculate you under the smile, so you can avoid it, you can go far away!

Zeng Guofan wrote in "Bing Jian": "Dignified and heavy is expensive."

In the end, the character is character.

It is the best fortune of a person and the largest Fukuda.

In 2009, Cao Dewang resolutely closed the sand mine factory that had invested 800 million at the time.

This decision means that the 800 million funds and all the previous efforts will be torch, which will seriously affect the company's revenue and interests.

In this regard, the relevant person in charge expressed that it was very puzzled, because the procedures of the project were legal.

Even the waste, the government has allowed to deal with it by landfilling, and the sand mines can be completely no. Faced with his subordinates, Cao Dewang replied:

Although there is no problem in this way in a short time, the fluorine in the sediment will not fade due to the long stacking time. The amount of sediments of about 100 tons per day is quite large, and we pile up for a long time. You just earn benefits for a while. In the long run, you always feel uneasy. What else can be more valuable than peace of mind? Must be turned off.

As a businessman, he never has a picture, but puts his conscience and kindness in front of benefits.

It is precisely because of his kindness that many employees have made him deadly, so that he has stabilized in the process of entrepreneurship, and has become more and more prosperous in his career.

As the saying goes: "Small achievements depend on doing things, big achievements depend on people."

Yes, if a person only wants to think of himself, it will inevitably be difficult to obtain the recognition of others; for your own development, he will not leave the way for others, and will eventually only block his back road.

People, cleverness is ability, and kindness is the pattern.

Only by knowing how to be a person, knowing how to think about others can we gain a good popularity, get the road of life wider, and get deeper blessings.

Being kindly of being a person seems to be suffering, but in fact, he is accumulating blessings and going uphill.

Zeng Guofan said: "The success or failure of a lifetime is related to the sage of friends,"

Deeply reasonable.

No one is an islands, no one can live at itself.

In our lives, we are destined to have contact and communication with those who are in the same color.

Choosing to associate with what kind of people are actually choosing what to choose.

With the person who calculates the savvy, even if you deliver all the heart of a heart, you will only be used by the chill;

Only to associate with those who are kind, they can not be disappointed, and they are comfortable and comfortable.

Really smart people know how to stay away from those who consume themselves and not consume others.

In the second half of your life, I hope you do a good way and make a good Tao. Live yourself, don't bully others, and enjoy the blessing of one life!

Author | Two Forgotten Machines, writing in my hand, just to reconcile with myself!

Picture | Visual China

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