Good marriage is not a part -time, but for the rest of my life

Text/Xiaoyaoxing

There is a hot review on Netease Cloud:

"Marriage is like a boat on the river. When the wind is quiet, Pinghu smoke and clouds, poetry and painting, and the efforts of both parties are inconspicuous; when the wind is urgent, the ship is on the forefront.

True love is not a good time when the time is quiet, but the shout of the same wind and rain; true love is not the sincerity of the empty mouth commitment, but the determination of bravery.

Seeing people's hearts, it is true.

What is husband and wife? It is the burden of life, and the two of them should take both shoulders.

The essence of marriage is to bear together, not the only umbrella.

Feelings are really unreasonable, it is hard to see people's hearts

In a variety show, guest Lu Ying tells the story of a divorce of kidney disease during her new marriage, which makes people sigh.

After half a year of marriage, Lu Ying found nephritis when he checked her body and needed puncture surgery.

Her husband did not come to appease Lu Ying as soon as possible, but asked her a question: "Sir, child, or heal the disease first?"

Because cure will affect the child, in the face of her husband's question, Lu Ying replied that he cured the disease first.

Her husband did not express his opinion, accompanied Lu Ying for kidney puncture surgery. After discharge, she sent her back to her mother's house for recuperation.

The next day, he proposed a divorce to Lu Ying's father. His father -in -law hoped that he would consider it carefully. Since then, he has never seen his wife again.

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When Lu Ying was able to move, he took the initiative to call her husband, but his first sentence was: "Let's divorce."

Husband said, "The purpose of marriage is to make life better and better, and your disease will affect the quality of life and future life."

Nephritis is not very good for children. It is not necessary for children. It has not been healed. Her husband does not think about protecting his wife, but to take his wife as a burden and eager to get rid of it.

In the face of her husband's behavior, Lu Ying was completely dead and decisively divorced. He just blamed that he had not polished his eyes and saw the person clearly.

Feelings are really unreasonable, and it is difficult to see people's hearts.

When you are graceful and glorious, you often see false feelings; when you fall into dust and muddy, you have the opportunity to see the hearts of the world.

There is no need to be sad, no need to complain about people who are really wrong, and losing themselves are the best gains.

Those who really love you are unbearable to watch you suffer in pain and struggle in helplessness, because you feel the instinct to love someone.

The novel "Spring Banquet" said:

"Even if a fireflies like the moon, it will want to give it all the light. It has nothing to do with how powerful the person you like. This is the idea of ​​beating."

If you really love someone, you will be able to do well in TA and have nothing to do with ability.

For hypocritical people, they always pay too much about, and those who really love always feel that they are not enough.

If you can't change your true feelings and stop the loss in time, it is the most wise choice.

Can I really love you for you

Murakami Haruki said:

"The person who loves you the most is not to see your light coming to you, but when you see you struggling in the soil, regardless of your wolf, gently stretch out your hands to you."

Those who can carry things for you are the one who really loves you.

Colleagues Zhou Hong has a high degree and strong ability. It is the core backbone of the company and has a generous income, but her husband's education is average, heights are average, income is also average, and her physical illness. Except for sweet mouth, she can't see anything extraordinary.

Many people do not understand why Zhou Hong chose to marry him, let alone why Zhou Hong was filled with happy and divine color every day, earned money to support his family, cooking and bringing a baby in one hand, and guarding a husband who was useless.

One day, a good colleague couldn't help but stop Zhou Hong asked:

"Your husband is average, and you do n’t even give gifts to the festival. What do you do to treat him with your heart?"

Zhou Hong's mouth rose, talking about his own story.

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Zhou Hong is outstanding, and there are many suitors. There are three men more attentive, including the current husband.

As Zhou Hong was ready to make a choice, she suddenly had uremia and needed kidney transplantation.

After hearing the other two, the two disappeared without a trace. Her husband not only took out all his savings, but also took the initiative to make a matching type, giving her a healthy kidney.

Zhou Hong said with emotion: "He gave me a new life, is there a more expensive gift than this?"

In life, the relationship between men and women is often more respected than admiration.

The so -called husband and wife love, why is grace in front of love?

Because of the responsibility, understanding, and compassion, these efforts and support of each other are the most important, making intimacy more balanced and far -reaching.

"Ten Thousand Love Letters" is deeply said:

Love, if you are not missing, you can find it if you are tired.

Find one who can suffer together instead of enjoying it together;

Find someone who can bear it together, not to escape together;

Find one that can be responsible for you, not to be responsible for love.

Love is blind, life is realistic.

Those who are falsely affectionate are willing to enjoy your beauty, and the talents who really love you are willing to take the bad one together.

The essence of marriage is to bear together, not a solo umbrella

Those who care about you will take care of your emotions, and those who love you will work together with you and share sadness.

The true feelings of the world always start with each other and finally bear each other.

Remember the online corrupt worker husband and wife?

A year ago, a video of a migrant husband and wife on the railway moved countless netizens.

In the video, the couple were replacing the railway track, her husband continued to dig the stone on the railway, and his wife pulled the iron cricket vigorously in front. Her husband dragged a heavy pillow, bowing his horse in front of him, and his wife pushed forward desperately behind him.

Her husband was shouted, his expression was focused and calm; his wife was full of dust, calm and peaceful, no quarrels, no resentment, and only cooperating with tacit operations.

Although the work is very tired and the life is bitter, the couple are together, support each other, and the affectionate feelings make people cry.

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The appearance of their work is not elegant, but they are really cool to work together to work hard.

Some netizens commented: "This is the real husband and wife, the husband and wife are interested, and their profits are broken."

Professor Zeng Shiqiang once said:

"If the husband and wife have not been poor together, they will not know what true feelings are. In the poor days, the two people support each other and bear together.

Like is the beginning of marriage, not the essence of marriage, the nature of marriage, more like a cooperation between two people, glory and disgrace and sharing.

The feelings of adults go to each other and work together, instead of moving themselves, unlimited consumption.

Love is to work together, not dragging you away, love is to bear, not to support an umbrella.

Good lover can reduce half of the suffering of the world, bad lover, and half of the sufferings on earth are brought by TA.

Like between love, across a bridge, called bearing.

Only by being able to bear each other can we spend the rest of their lives together.

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There is a good saying on the Internet:

"Like it is the sound of dogs and horses, and the love is greedy, and love is all the cups of cups of thousands of sails, warm wine to cook tea, can be satin, can be rough and lighter rice, can be sour and bitter, taste the people in the old mountains and rivers."

The best marriage relationship is:

Jin Yi Hua's clothing, showing that people can be happy in front of people, and they are accompanied by the long -term accompanying; there is no one who asked for the gangsters, and there is no one to ask the gate.

Affectionate, there is no time to glory and humiliation, but not fighting for the night, only the moon and the moon.

May you meet a good person, one house, two people, three meals and four seasons, unnecessary sadness and joy, bearing each other, supporting the umbrella, and safe.

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