Dream of Red Mansion: Lin Daiyu is a patient with depression?She never!

Depression is no longer a strange illness in modern times. People with depression usually have the characteristics of low mood, slow thinking, tears, and irritability. Many people say that Daiyu's symptoms are similar to depression. Although Daiyu has many dreams, it is difficult to fall asleep, wake up early, appetite, tears, emotional sensitivity, etc. Some characteristics seem to be very similar to depression, but in fact, and in fact no.

First of all, tears are the least controlled with depression. Patients with depression are often pessimistic without knowing themselves. They usually cry, and they are crying. Many times the patients do not know why they cry, so the love and crying behavior of depression patients is actually not completely controlled by subjective control.

But Daiyu is different. We can read Daiyu's "Burning Flower" and "Autumn Window Storm": that is, Daiyu knows why she cries, she knows how she is entangled in those love, but she This is also willing to boil the mind into a late autumn and turn those despair to look forward to it. She knew that she was coming to tears, and she was willing to shed the liter of tears to confess to confront them.

Secondly, most of the depression patients just want to escape when facing things. For example, when Zhou Rui's house was sent to the palace flower, if it was a patient with depression, it may not be ridiculed in person: "Others do not pick the rest and will not give it to me." In an instant, they will exaggerate the shattering of things infinitely, thinking that everything is difficult to deal with, and they are so small and weak, refuse to do any remedy, and then hide in the darkness.

But Daiyu's performance in this time is very "hard": Faced with the negligence of her subordinates, she did not deal with her emotions with sensitive negative places. Three points, not to mention people like her.

If she does not make a statement, Zhou Rui's family will inevitably feel that the new master will not know the world and do not know the courtesy. It is as cowardly and afraid of things like Yingchun. It can be seen that when Daiyu faced the inequality of others, he still had the consciousness of defending his dignity. It was not as unwilling to take any actions as depressed patients.

At the same time, patients with depression exclude to communicate with others. However, Daiyu and Baodi complained about each other in forty -five times. Daiyu trusted Baodi and was willing to be accompanied by her and cared. She handled her sincerely to others, and slowly removed the line of defense. This is very difficult for patients with depression.

They often dare not do so, for fear that one is not careful and the abyss. They long for salvation and know that there is no so -called redemption, so they are no longer willing to open their hearts. They seem to be separated from the world: the world cannot hear them, and they are unwilling to listen to the world.

The main point of judging whether to suffer from depression is that patients with depression have no expectations for tomorrow, and they cannot find happiness in life at all. But this is not the case. She listened to Yu Guanhe, splashed the piano piano, taught Xiang Ling to learn poetry, started the poetry club with the sisters, and even gave Liu Ye nicknamed. It is not difficult to see that although we are entangled by loneliness, Daiyu is still trying to live, nor is it light.

In fact, Daiyu's personality characteristics belong to the fourth type of type 9: artist. And this kind of personality is generally more depressed. When they feel uniquely recognized, they usually have strong creativity and are humorous seriously. They are generally introverted, emotional, and like to idealize what they yearn for.

When people of such characteristics are in adversity, they generally close their own closed, self -destruction, and sink to play the victims. Daiyu is the smooth personality of the four -type personality. Patients with depression are more preferred to adverse personality in the four types of personality, self -harm, and loss of identity.

Xiangqiu, who is pursuing the head of Daiyu, is an ideal world, and depression patients will tear their world. They eager to move towards death, or the bloody blood, or the dumb rises, or the bitter sleeping pills that were hard to swallow. Death is the only way to escape. The night is the day of dreaming, and the light is the darkness of dreaming. For a few years, the soul was pulled away, and anxiety was always there.

If you can't live according to your own wishes, is it better to preview a curtain of life? This is not the case. Even if we do n’t have Baodi's follow -up, there is no sudden optimism of Xiangyun, and we are still ourselves.

即使生活并不会按照你预想的轨道前进，即使你写了一些不知所谓的东西，发表一些没人在意的想法，我们仍然要面对生活的千山万水，翻过去，翻不过去，沿路They are all our scenery.

We may have discarded ourselves, but it doesn't matter. Taking together again, even if it will be decaying, we will still face the starting point of life again.

Author: Jiang Haifeng, this article is the original work of the Red Mansion.

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