To achieve these 4 points, it is considered a real "sober on earth"

What is a real "sober on earth"?

A high praise answers said so:

"Faced with the gorgeous world and world, always remained sober. Don't lose yourself, clarify your positioning, and live and work rationally and practically."

Indeed, the real "sober" person:

Whether it is smooth or adversity, you can maintain a calm heart;

You can maintain a peaceful and gentle state regardless of whether it is to others or yourself;

When the rationality is rational, the kindness is good, and the sharp time is sharp.

The real "sober on earth" has a big heart.

No matter what kind of thing you encounter, you can maintain a calm state.

In the hit drama "Costume", Chen Kaiyi is such a person with a stable emotion.

Faced with the sudden death of colleagues and friends, she did not collapse, but instead used a calm attitude to clean up the leftover disputes.

Facing the sudden turn and difficulties of her boss, she was not anxious, but instead put a long vacation for herself to find a way to solve the problem.

Because she handled her emotions before dealing with things, she could handle various disputes in a more proper way in a more appropriate way.

It is also because of her habit that not only let her return to its peak with the endangered fashion magazine "Costume", but also made her career get better and better.

The direction of one thing is often determined by the response at the event.

When people are angry, they often lose their rationality.

Not only can't solve the problem, but also push things to a worse situation.

Liang Shiqiu once sighed: "When the blood is boiling, the sense of reason is not very sober, the words and deeds are easy to exceed points, and it is not suitable for others."

On the contrary, truly powerful people can often control emotions freely.

It is said that losing temper is instinct and controlling the temper is the ability.

At this time, things often develop in a better direction.

Before dealing with things, it is both a kind of cultivation and wisdom, but also a sober on earth.

People who are truly sober can control their emotions and use the best state to deal with disputes;

In life, no matter whether anyone loves, they can love themselves frankly and make life look like they want.

Yin Tao, who became popular again because of "The World", is such a person.

At the age of 42, she still has not met a good person, but she is not in a hurry, nor will she not be.

Instead, according to your own rhythm, he lives his own brilliant life.

She bought a small villa in the suburbs of Beijing and planted some flowers and plants in the yard.

When she works, she plays with her heart and uses past experience to create the soul of the role.

When she did not work, she went to yoga, fitness, and meditation to experience the original appearance of life.

Today, her soul is becoming more and more prosperous, but she still seems to stay in her 20s.

Living has become the envy of a lot of girls: there is money in the pocket, there is goods in my mind, light in my eyes, and love in my heart.

She told us that marriage is very important, and a lover is beautiful.

But more importantly, before encountering love, learn to love yourself.

Zhou Guoping once said:

If love is an art, appropriate self -love is a quality. Only those with this quality can become a love artist.

In this life, although he will meet all kinds of people and feel all kinds of feelings.

But only yourself has been with you from beginning to end.

Learning to love yourself is not only the beginning of lifelong romance, but also a must for soberness in the world.

Kindness is the greatest blessing of people's life. It can help you help you encounter, and someone will help.

But you must also clearly realize that with the kindness of sharpness, it is more precious.

When Yuanyuan was just at work, she was very happy who needed her to deal with the problem, and she always handled her work after helping others to deal with things.

Once, because she was too busy, she rejected others.

Within two days, the voice of "she was floating" went one after another in the office.

She suddenly realized that when she had always helped others and did not understand the rejection, her kindness became cheap.

From that day, she began to focus on improving herself.

Other people's help, unless she encounters a gang, she will refuse in a proper way.

After a period of time, colleagues seemed to adapt to her transformation and improved her attitude.

And because of her outstanding work, she was promoted and wages.

In this life, everything is good, and the same is true. There must be bottom lines and principles.

As the saying goes: "Shengmian, Doumi revenge."

When you pay for others without reservation, it is likely to make others get inch to you.

Getting with others, wanting to live easily and happily, be sure to avoid: Don't be too good for others.

Kindness is precious, but the kindness that does not grow to teeth is weak.

The heart is so good, it is easy to be pinched as a soft persimmon, the eyes are so good, and it is easy to be treated with a shortage of heart;

If you are so good that there is no reservation, the other party will be so bad.

One of the principles of soberness in the world is: you can be kind, but you must bring sharpness.

When many people were young, they were confused, lazy, and inactive. Unconsciously, they were mixed with such attitudes to middle age.

When he felt that he needed to work hard, he shrank because he was afraid of the vision of others' review and the fruitlessness.

However, the real "awakening" understands that as long as you want, it will not start.

Because the best time to plant the next tree, although it was ten years ago; the second best time was at this moment. An old friend, when he was middle -aged, suddenly realized that his hobbies were drama performances.

When he proposed to the people around him, when he wanted to open a theater, he did not hear the voices of his imagination, and everyone praised his feat.

Even the funds of the theater at the beginning were raised by one person.

He is the founder of Pengwa Theater, Wang Xiang.

So he started a middle -aged entrepreneurial move with his team.

Although hard, he was happy.

In this life, the most fearful thing is that you will never start too late, but that you have been hesitating and shrinking.

The first half of our lives may not be able to engage in their favorite careers because of the constraints of all kinds of people.

But the real sober world understands the life of people, and after all, it is time to live according to what you like.

Whether you want to study hard, you want to work hard, or you want to work hard to be a person.

To understand, as long as you are willing, it is not too late when you start.

After all, there is a must -have for a young general, and there is an old man with a lot of ambitions.

Many people say that they are soberly living.

But the real "soberness" is a person who can pull away the fog and go straight forward.

They allow themselves to be kind, but they can protect themselves very well;

They allow themselves to get out of control, but before making important choices, they can make their emotions stable;

They are eager to love, but before they meet love, they can still love themselves with hard work;

They allow themselves to be lazy, but as long as they recognize one thing, they will go all out ...

On the journey of life, whether they encounter wind waves or thorns, they can not be afraid or shrink.

Light at the end of the text [Looking at], willing to be the breeze of the mountain in the world of strong people like forests, the bright moon of the river, and use a clear mind to be invincible.

Author | Natto, I traveled around the earth between my fingers. Personal public account: four or five (dreaminggirls3)

Picture | Visual China

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