The two inconspicuous little people in the dream of the Red Mansion are respectful.

There is a bridge section in the TV series "Zhen Huan Biography", which is often discussed on the Internet: Si Ge Hongli, who was idle because of his biological mother's low background, was idle for infinitely time by his father. His distress. Zhen Huan's educational Hongli said: "People are expensive. It doesn't matter if others are light and cheap. The important thing is that you don't be cheap yourself. If you come to the day of the day, you will not dare to divide it lightly." (Let's talk about things around the TV drama plot. It has nothing to do between the between and out of the time.)

"Self -respect" is indeed a high -quality, high -end personality existence. This existence requires people, even if the location is underneath, the person is light and light, but "it doesn't matter how cheap others are, the important thing is that you don't be cheap yourself" -the performance is to be generous and dignified, not because the objective status is low, you are not low because of the low objective status. As a result, the inner soul is humble and the external behavior is insignificant.

Cao Gong has shaped us for us. Because Cao Gong's respect and preference for women, such typicals are often concentrated on women.

The Dream of Red Mansion is undoubtedly a tragedy, especially a series of marriage tragedies. However, there are still two pairs of relatively happy heavenly works in it. Our example this time fell on the female lead of these two ends.

Look at Lin Hongyu first.

This is a little girl who was originally inconspicuous and even had to be renamed to avoid the name of the master. Even if her parents had a certain management position in Jiafu, it didn't seem to have any "shade" effect on her.

In the Yihongyuan of the owner who was busy and looked at her face to eat, although she adhered to the rules and diligent and dedicated, she was proud of the proud of the proud -for example: you can keep the "two -inch long" and "spring onion tube nails". (Seventy -seventh time), "Sit only on the cage", "You have a day, I am used for a day" (51st), you can scold the aunt "Mei Xiang Bai Shi -all slaves" (Sixteenth), even dare to clamorize "to pour the old lady's tea dumplings" (fifty -fifth) -hin, it is difficult to get ahead.

However, such a harsh environment did not cause her to be in a state of self -violence. Her soul has always been fresh and bright, and she is overweight.

When "Sister Feng stands on the hillside andck" -this is a call without a goal. Most people will worry about their identity and dare not casually apply for "Grandma II". And she dares to ask "what is something to say, just tell me to say", "Clean and pretty, speak and know" the external temperament allows the more discerning Feng Sister Feng to give her things to her.

In the past, in front of everyone's recognized "famous fierce goods" (fourteenth round), there was no panic disorder. The praise of "complete", and got the opportunity of "Ming'er me and Baoyu, told him to go again, and call this girl to go with me". With the fate of "following grandma, we also learn some eyebrows, go in and out of the bottom" fate " , I opened the door to change the track.

We can imagine that the guys who made Sister Feng "anxious to me", the reason why they were "twisted, mosquito -like", "Pulling one sentence into two or three cuts, bite the text, hold the cavity, hold the cavity, and hold the cavity. "Humming", on the one hand, it may not be possible, but the most fundamental reason is that it is cheaply yourself first, and you have a bad mouth.

There is also an episode here: During the process of doing things for Sister Feng, Xiaohong encountered an unprecedented accusation, "You are just crazy! The flowers in the yard are not poured, the birds are not fed, and the tea stove will not be done, so she will not get it. "Walking outside", as a result, this self -respective little girl was a series of powerful and powerful words- "Yesterday, the second grandfather said, so I do n’t need to pour flowers today, pour it once a day. , My sister is still sleeping. "" The class that shouldn't be made today, there is tea without tea, "I asked me" I greeted it.

It is normal to say that in the face of the soul that Sister Feng can calm down and talk about it, will you be panicked and shrank by the "deputy ladies" who are petted and proud of you? joke! (The text quoted above is specifically specified, all from the twenty -seventh time)

Below, let's look at the female lead in another marriage -Xing Yanyan.

(In the previous text, we once analyzed Lin Hongyu multiple angles, but for the first time to discuss Xing Yanyan for the first time, it would not help but spend more pen and ink, which is also there.)

Xing Yanyan's status is even lower than Lin Hongyu -first, his parents took "the hard work of Mrs. Xing" and "the heart of the family in the family. Parents are people with leisurel, and they are normal in their daughters. "" Mrs. Xing is just a face, nor does it really love "(57th). Naturally, there is nothing good to make this girl own.

When I entered Jiafu from the "one hand and four water onions", I saw the loneliness faced by Xing Yanyan- "Li Yan, Baodi naturally, and my aunt and sisters to leave parting." As soon as the wife saw it, she liked it, and she had forced the wife to recognize her daughter. The old lady was going to feed, and she had just settled it. " Feng Ruo's gods and words "I should hurt my daughter is just a reason", I am sighing "God, God! How many essences do you have, give birth to these people," in the emotional monologue, " It actually ignored the existence of Xing Yanyan! After entering the house, the aunt except that "it can't be used in two or two silver in a month, and asked me to send it out to my parents one or two. Fifty -seventh time) In addition to this kind of idea, I did not see a word of concern to the niece; and the result of Sister Feng's "calculation" was "Mo Ruo sent to Yingchun. "No work with yourself" -i is just a common living creature.

When "Liuli World White Snow Red Plum", I am afraid that it is the most exciting time for ordinary people -in a variety of skirts, only she looks so helpless. (The text quoted above is specifically specified, all from the 49th round)

However, in the dark tone of this piece, what we see in Xing Yanyan is not the Tang and desolate of the general vanity, but the feminine feminine style of self -respect and stability.

She was silent, and if she lived in a group of people with vitality and stories, she was not in the focus of the C position at any time. However, she was not embarrassed and embarrassed because of the marginalization of status and the trapped life of life, but slowly stretched her temperament slowly and silently, just like the old man chant in the middle of the mountain, "the corner (this word (this word (this word (this word It is particularly appropriate here) several plums, Ling Han opened alone. It is known that it is not snow, for a dark fragrance. "

Generally, the vanity person will be ashamed, "it is not the kind of shame, fragrant, blindly created" (fifty -seventh time), but she can accept it quietly ——

Other people wearing red and green, although they are "still old -fashioned clothes and do not avoid snow" (49th), but it does not hinder participation in "contest is the scenery poetry". Tide, easy to hang and sparse branches "has already shown that it is not inferior to those luxurious people -although there is only one sentence than Sister Feng, as much as Li Yan, less than those three" water onions ", but then that, but then that, then that, then that, then that, then that, then that, then that, that, then that, then that, then that, that, then that, then that, then that, that, then that, then that, then that that, but then that, then that, then that that, but then that, then that, then that, then that. The "red" of the first red plum blossom immediately confirmed that she was either talented nor retreat, but was humble and just right.

Especially the phrase "seems to be unusual, and the thickness is in the ice and snow", it is simply a portrayal of Xing Yanyan's tranquil and peaceful life! (Fifty rounds)

In the face of the future little aunt, telling himself "Although in that house, I dare not make them very good. After three days and five days, I have to take some money to buy them to buy snacks. Therefore, in January, in January, in January Two or two silver is not enough, now I have gone to one or two "experiences, and even" quietly calling people clothes as a few money "dilemma. Although it is not inevitable, it is still a martyrdom, and it is still coming. There is no miserable look. Even the joke of "people haven't come, clothes come here first" are just "red face, smiling" -how powerful the inner self -respect is needed! (Fifty -seven)

The time of the world, the gentle and tough personality power also changed the view of Sister Feng. Although Sister Feng has a lot of problems, she is not confused, and it will be compared soon- "" cold eyes and smoke, but not like Mrs. Xing and her parents, but she is a very warm and painful person. Therefore, Sister Feng Sister Feng The child was pitying her poor life, and it hurts her more than other sisters. "

"Although some leather clothes are half -new and not old, it may not be warm." It is a "shameful, interested", "keeping poverty and being rich", and a clear portrayal of personal personality.

"It doesn't matter if a piece of dress is, it is cold at this time, and it is personal. Why don't you ask?" In addition to the objects that need to be inherited to the old lady, we seem to rarely hear Sister Feng said so warmly and clearly; "When I arrived in my own room, I told Ping'er to take a big red jacket, a small leather jacket with a pine flower color darton, a treasure blue plate brocade flower cotton skirt, a Buddha youth silver and mouse gown , Bai Hao asked people to send it "(Ninth Time) —— Sister Feng seems to rarely help others in this way. In addition to this time, it is to send Daiyu to two silver to buy medicine (that's the situation of the purple cuckoo opening. Next), change to the attacker to wear a good dress (that is mainly on Mrs. Wang's face).

Aunt Xue once carried out three family affairs, but a daughter killed her daughter, and a son pitted (although Uncle Xue had a lot of problems, but after all, he was not like Jin Gui), but on the nephew's family affairs Not only did I see the blood seeing "Xing Yan was born elegant and stable, and the family was poor, she was a daughter of a Jingjing skirt", but also wisely acknowledged that "Xue Yisu Xi Xingxing stopped floating extravagance, and she was afraid of being collapsed by her daughter." In the end Created "a couple of natural land" (57th).

"I think the second sister -in -law is now reluctant to respect my mother, ten times stronger than my dear daughter -in -law. The second brother is also a good woman, and Xiang Ling is very good. The second brother is not at home. Live. Although it is poorer, my mother has been so comfortable recently. "(1144). The words of Baodi are one of the few comfortable words after Cheng Gao's post -Cheng Gao. - It was contributed by Xing Yanyan. Lin Hongyu and Xing Yanyan do things that look different. If Xiaohong can "support the edge", Yan Yan has always maintained "gentleness as jade". In fact, the same goal and the same work are the same. Two different external people are two self -reliable souls inside.

In fact, there are many such people. We also know that a person has such a self -reliable soul. Although the house is falling, the people are poor and do not fall down. They are alive "warm and moist", lively, but also "supporting the edge". No need to say his great and glorious name, right?

Author: wind and rain autumn window, this article is the original work of the Red Mansion less.

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