Yingze Night Reading 丨 From 4 details of the world, see if a person is reliable

Famous Gallery ｜ Lin Fengmian, family name Shao Qiong, the word Fengming, and later changed to Fengmian. The painter, art educator, and National Art Academy (now renamed the Chinese Academy of Fine Arts )'s first dean.

Reliable people can accompany their lives for a lifetime.

There is a saying very good: "In this world, there is no shortage of clever people, and what is missing is reliable people."

Smart people may be accompanied by each other, but reliable people can accompany each other for a lifetime.

Reliable people come with warmth and be with them without having suspicion and worry, because they speak warm, assured of things, and enthusiasm for others.

Some people have said: "Human beings seek comfort, value and protection in mutual exchanges."

The following four details are enough to see if a person is reliable.

Words are well -propelled

A writer said: "The real emotional quotient should be comfortable and comfortable to others while making themselves comfortable."

Being able to speak does not mean that you can speak, saying a lot, not to speak right. Many times, the mouth is flying, which is not comparable to the timely silence.

A person's cultivation is not reflected in the high weight and gorgeous wearing, but whether there is a sense of session.

If you hurt your self -esteem, do not say, because it will become a knife and pierce each other.

If you look face, don't say, because it will become a sharp needle and pierce the other skin.

Discussing the words of others, not to mention, because it will become countless rumors and hurt each other's feelings.

The more familiar friends, the more you know the scale of grasping the speaking, compare your heart to the heart, and talk about the other person's heart.

Famous Gallery ｜ Lin Fengmian

Acting

There is a cloud in the old saying: "If you do not take refuge, you will not escape."

In life, each of us must bear the responsibility of ourselves.

What is responsible? Simply put, it is to encounter things that do not escape or push.

The more responsible people, the easier it is to harvest sincerity, resolve difficulties, and succeed.

Getting along with a person who has not been responsible, we will find that the other party is accustomed to escape and is not worthy. Over time, we will establish a line of defense and become scared.

Getting along with those who are responsible, we will find that the other party is willing to take the initiative to take responsibility and be good at solving the problem. Over time, we will continue to improve our responsibility.

Famous Gallery ｜ Lin Fengmian

Do things always

Starting things and ending. One thing is either not doing or doing well. As long as you start, you will be eliminated and persist to the end.

Always try to stop, walking around and watching flowers, not only in good things, but also easy to leave a negative impression of unreliable and unwavering.

In life, it is not IQ, but whether there is something to do with things.

When I was studying, some people were tired after learning for a few minutes, but some people could be patient and sit in the library for a whole day;

When working, some people give up when they encounter difficulties, but some people can study hard and actively find various solutions;

During the exercise, someone ran a few laps and stopped, but some could insist on it, and followed the plan ...

As long as the goals are formulated, it will advance steadily, start good and end, and never quit halfway. This is reliable.

Famous Gallery ｜ Lin Fengmian

There is a bottom line

Some people have said a word: "No matter what you are born, it has nothing to do with the purpose, but you must have a way to be a man."

The so -called way of being a man refers to the principle and bottom line of being a human.

Only by adhering to the principles and keeping the bottom line can he find his position in the vast world and keep his dignity and future.

Everyone has a bottom line that cannot be touched, and there is a bottom line of doing things. We must keep our bottom line, or to penetrate the bottom line of others. This is the principle of doing things.

For a lifetime, people are frank, practical, diligent, and the dilemma will pass, and the days will become better and better.

▌ Source: Xinhua News Agency

School pair: Zhao Yanzhu Lanjie

Review: Yuan Yanfang

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