Level, the biggest gap between people

I often hear a sentence: different levels are destined to be not all the way.

The same thing, some people can see through at a glance, some people need one year, and some people may not understand it for a lifetime.

This is because each of us has gone through the road, the scenery we have seen, and the people we are in contact with each other.

The largest gap between people is not in the rich and the poor, not in talent, but in the level.

In the 2022 college entrance examination pen, the sword has been accepted into the sheath, but a topic about the college entrance examination on the Internet continues to trigger heated discussions:

750 points for the college entrance examination and 7.5 million yuan for you, which one do you choose?

There is a high praise comment: I choose 750 points. If I have the ability to take 750 points, I will definitely have a chance to earn 7.5 million in the future.

"People's Daily" reported a news that a father didn't want to let his child study in college.

Because he thinks that it takes four years to study in universities, and it costs a total of 80,000 tuition. After reading it, the job he is looking for may be two or three thousand yuan a month. He feels good.

In this father's opinion, only if you come out earlier to make money, life will live well.

He said, "I let my daughter go to work after the college entrance examination. I can earn more than 100,000 for four years.

Then it can also be entrepreneurial, buy a house, and invest in investment. "

I was impressive that the writer Liu Tong reposted the news and wrote a long article. One of them was:

Reading is not to get a diploma or to get rich, but to become a person with temperature, interest, and thinking.

In fact, the difference between people between people is because they are not at the same level, and the world they see is different.

It is logical to a person's opinion, and in the eyes of another person, it may be tantamount to heaven and night.

Because it is completely beyond his understanding.

People with lower cognitive levels often can only see the narrow side of things.

On the contrary, only people with higher levels will have the opportunity to see the truth of the world.

A British high -scoring documentary "Rich Brother and poor brother" followed the filming of a pair of brothers.

The two grew up in the same ordinary family. My brother Ivan was only one year older than his brother David, but he lived a completely different life.

When I was young, when my brother was still intoxicated in the dreamland, his brother had gone up early to send a newspaper to repair the lawn to earn pocket money.

In the evening, my brother would go to the supermarket to work, and his brother was mixed with various playgrounds.

After growing up, my brother step by step. For thirty years, his career is successful and the family is happy.

The younger brother was still working everywhere at the age of 50. He had no house, no family, and wandered alone.

When he graduated from his brother at the age of 21, his brother went to the repair shop to do apprentices because he did not go to college.

When my brother made the first bucket of gold in life, his brother was jealous of the wealth that his brother quickly accumulated, and he was unwilling to be a migrant worker.

In order to be able to get rich overnight, he gave up the positive quota of the repair shop and tried all kinds of occupations, but he did not have been doing it for a long time.

Over time, my brother began to abandon himself and became cynical.

In fact, in recent years, his brother has been secretly helping his brother, and encouraged him to do a good job at a down -to -earth.

He wanted his brother to understand that the reason why he succeeded was not to hit the Universiade, but to make a lot of effort.

But the younger brother laughed at the people who went to work every day were fools, and they also ridiculed that my brother was a hypocritical capitalist:

"What's so great about the rich? Isn't it the blood that sucks our poor?"

In front of the camera, he expressed his dislike to his brother more than once, and he was more blame his brother not to help himself.

Two people, from a little gap from a young age, grow growing, the more clearly visible.

Writer Liu Run wrote in his wisdom in his life:

The gap between people is that you are standing on the first floor, the 10th floor, or the 100th floor to see the world.

When you experience more, you know that people and people really have different lives.

Someone can see the stars and sea in the eyes, and live hot;

Some people have a lifetime, and they can only see the garlic in their eyes, and they have a mess.

Just as a classic line in the movie "Godfather":

Seeing the essence of the essence in a second, and the person who can't see the essence of one thing for half a life is naturally a different fate.

Any unexplained subtle gap, false time, will become an irreplaceable gap between people.

As the old saying, the three realms are six, and people are divided into nine.

The level of a person determines the height of the world.

The lower the level, the less opportunities, and the more vulnerable to one acre in front of you;

The more you go up, the larger the space, the more opportunities, the more you can see the broad world.

No matter what kind of environment is, just grab the three points and do yourself:

1. Broken cognitive barriers: I know, you don't know

A story in "Isso Fables".

Two wolves came to a large grassland.

One of the wolves was lost because it did not see a sheep;

The other wolf was very excited, because it knew that there would be sheep in the place where there was grass.

This is the gap, I know the difference between you don't know.

Simply put, the cognition is different, and the eyes of the world will change.

The person who only stares between Fangchi will only be trapped in front of him.

Whoever dares to break the barriers can stand out.

2. Improving the mind dimension: I can understand, but you don’t understand

Psychologist Dr. De Bonno has proposed that knowledge is the basis of the acquiredness of thinking. To this end, he specifically explained that three people have different choices when facing a cross -intersection.

Passenger A only mastered the knowledge of simple walking, so he can only choose an intersection based on instincts;

Passers -by B mastered the knowledge of looking at the arrows of the street signs, and you can refer to the specific mark to choose the intersection of the movement;

Passerby C not only knows the arrows of the street signs, but also knows the text on the signs, it can be sure which road is correct.

From the performance of the three people, the more the dimensions of the knowledge are explained, the easier it is to enter deep thinking.

In reality, each of us is following our own thinking to take the right way we think is correct.

Sometimes, the road of life is getting narrower and narrower, not because it is not smart enough, but the lack of thinking.

Only by reading more, more reading, more enlightenment, and provinces can we improve their minds and move towards a higher level.

3. Realize hierarchical transition: I achieve 10 points, you only do 5 points

There is a saying in the book "You to be worthy of your suffering": action force is the key to success in life.

Those who are better than you are not because he is superior to you, but because he uses action to open the distance with you.

You want to get rich from time to time, but do not accumulate energy, but others seize the opportunity, accumulate and thin;

You shouted to lose weight every day, but you can't control your mouth and can't open your legs. Others have already completed the daily running and punching cards;

You have a plan every year, but you can get fish for three days and two days, but others are competing for time to learn ...

You know, life is not that you start to act, but that you will become more and more powerful when you act.

Help you go to higher levels of keys, always in your own hands.

The Buddhist said that one leaf and one Bodhi.

Some people are observed, and they see the trees without seeing the forest; others know the autumn, knowing that the cool breeze has the boundless autumn and the moon.

People with different levels are difficult to understand each other.

What we can do is to polish ourselves and advance ourselves.

I really like a word: I am afraid of the truth, there is an inch of joy in one inch.

I would like to use hard work and persistence to fill the gap between the gap step by step.

Because of the upward life, you need to refresh yourself.

Author | Le is in Qi Qi, love the text, express himself, sort out emotions, and pay tribute to life.

Picture | Visual China

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