Who is the most kind person around you?

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Defending fate, virtue, scattered people

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Author: cherry

Source: Jingbo Guoxue (ID: jingboguoxue)

Zuo Zongtang said: "Being a man is not as kind."

In fact, not only do you have to be kind, but also make friends.

Smart people often work hard and difficult to make care, which is a great waste of time and energy.

And the kind people always hold a sincerity, get along well and at ease, the most worthy of our deepening.

Who is the most kind person around you?

Not taking advantage, educated

Zeng Guofan said: "Everything is cheap at all."

Those who love to take advantage of others always treat others as fools and rack their brains.

Really kind people are willing to take advantage of others, nor do they want to take advantage of others.

The well -known collector Ma Weidu lived in a farmer's house when he went to the countryside.

He noticed that the small table for eating was an antique, so he bought it at a expensive price.

Later, Ma Weidu invited someone to identify and found that the value of the collection was extremely high. He gave a lot of money to others.

Small merchants who do not understand the market usually find him to trade, and he gives reasonable prices every time.

This approach allows him to have a monument in the collection world, and everyone is willing to be friends with him.

Not the cheap person, it is the education of a person to the bones.

They are kind, know how to make losses, and will not only care about Xiaoli in front of their eyes, let alone calculate oil everywhere.

Get along with such people and relax. You don't have to guard against it, you are afraid of being deceived and fooled, and they will really take the initiative to help you.

Treat people with sincerity and affection

"Zhuangzi" said: "True, sincere."

The kind people, sincerely, will not be able to disappoint the truth.

If you determine one thing, you will insist on doing it; determine that a person will never change your mind.

Zhuge Liang is like this.

He was loyal to the protagonist, and a "Teacher's Watch" was touching, making Liu Bei Emperor City's lonely.

Not only that, he was also very affectionate to his wife Huang Yueying.

Even if Huang Yueying's face was ugly, Zhuge Liang was joked by others, and he never disliked each other.

In the era of the general three wives and four concubines, Zhuge Liang even had only Huang Yueying, who was old.

The kind people are affectionate and affectionate to their loved ones.

It will not harm relatives and friends for money, abandon love and children, always have conscience, and cherish it.

He will treat your friendship seriously; if you pay, he will not hesitate to return, such people are people who can warm up your life.

Careful and responsible

The old saying always says: "Doing seriously and doing things."

Personal people cannot work together because they are not attitude and will only harm others.

Really kind people are serious and rigorous, and they will spare no effort to complete.

Even if they have leaked, they will not shirk responsibility, but they will be brave and make people feel reliable.

An old carpenter intends to return to the hometown, but there is just a guest to make a box.

The boss trusted the craftsmanship of the old carpenter, so he asked him to do it before leaving.

The old carpenter thanked the boss's knowledge, and he agreed after thinking about it.

Unexpectedly, this is six months.

On the day he returned to his hometown, the boss deliberately prepared to give the gifts, and said with gratitude:

"Fortunately, you do things seriously and rigorous. Later, I knew that the box was given to the prime minister.

In real life, there are many people with outstanding abilities, but there are not many people who are solid and reliable.

The kind people are not necessarily the best, but must be a serious and responsible person.

No matter how small things are, they will do their best to complete it, not perfunctory, not lazy.

They are absolutely assured that such people are worthy of our true intersection.

The principle of integrity and observance

"Mencius" has a saying: "People have nothing to do, and then they can do something."

The kind people have morality and principles in their hearts. They know what should be done and what is determined.

They stand steadily, do right, go far, do not bully others, and be ashamed.

Yan Shu in the Northern Song Dynasty was upright and adhered to the principles in his heart.

When he was 14 years old, he was recommended to enter the DPRK in the name of a prodigy.

During the temple test, he found that he had just done the test questions, and he even asked for a request to change the question.

The emperor appreciated his honesty and gave him a jinshi.

After finishing business daily, the ministers were enthusiastic about playing banquets, but Yan Shu was studying closed doors.

After hearing about it, the emperor appreciated him and sealed him as a prince, but he bluntly said: "It's not because you don't like it, it's because there is no money."

The kind people can keep the heart and bottom line, do what they should do, and get what they deserve.

Whenever they are, they are like one, less disguise, more frank, bright in their hearts, and intersecting such people is the most meaningful.

Compare your heart to your heart, understand the replacement

"The Analects of Confucius" said: "Do not do what you want, do not do it."

The most rare thing between people is to suffer.

Only those who are kind to know how to compare their hearts and understand that no one is, knowing that anyone has difficulty.

Therefore, I will never think about others, and I will also think about it. From the perspective of each other, I think.

They have a sincere and kind heart, good at tolerance and consideration, and bring sun warmth to the world.

I have read a story.

There was a drunk man on the train and accidentally collided into a pair of mothers and daughters.

When the girl saw it, she asked her, "Mom, is he a bad guy?"

The mother thought for a while and said with a smile, "No, he is just unhappy."

This mother thought that she had a period of frustration and suffering, and sometimes hurt others.

Therefore, she would not compare with the other party, but chose tolerance and understanding.

This kind of kindness who can make the heart better than anyone else is the deepest kindness behind it.

Talking to them with feelings and building friendship is even more comfortable, warm, and long -term.

The ancients said, "The deeds are gathered, and the German is scattered."

At the end of a relationship, it is not talented, not ability, but character.

High -level is the highest character of a person.

Because of her kindness, it is not cheap and educated;

Because of her kindness, I am sincere and affectionate;

Because of her kindness, it is upright and keeping principles;

Because of her kindness, I will compare my heart and understand the place.

Because of this, we prefer to be friends and kind people.

Click on it, in the future, I hope you and I can: be a kind person, friends who have a high way.

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