The ability to deal with complex problems exposes your level

Life is a process of continuous experience, and the road of growth is destined to be covered with thorns.

Facing the problems that may occur at all times, different treatment methods reflect a person's level. Only by continuously improving yourself can you not panic, think calmly, and resolve the dilemma at ease.

01 Dare to break the game

The main difference between the fate of people and people is the gap between thinking.

If the idea is wrong, no matter how much enthusiasm and effort are futile.

Excellent people are not necessarily stronger than us, IQ is better than us, and fixing is better than us.

It is just because they think deeper than us and have wider knowledge than us. They see a larger system and have the ability to solve more complex problems.

The so -called person who does not break and know how to break the routine thinking can become an unusual person.

When the situation is complicated, we must be good at finding the "meta problem", that is, the essence.

When the situation cannot be advanced, we must be good at discovering "highlights", that is, find advantages from the shortcomings, turn disadvantages to profit, and turn crisis into opportunities.

02 Analysis in the heart, solving the problem in your hand

Smart people will not choose to escape and compromise in front of difficulties. They will recognize the problem as soon as possible and solve the problem.

In the article "Zhuangzi Da Sheng", there is a story of a concubine inherited.

One day, Confucius was going to the Chu State. He walked out of the woods and saw that an old man was sticking to the cicada with sticky rods, and his movements were as light as picking things on the ground.

Confucius said: "Sir's technology is really clever! Is there any tricks in it?"

The old man in the hump told Confucius: "I have my way. Although the sticky rod is very long, the sticky pills on the head of the pole are not easy to master the balance, and the cicada is also climbing high, but I can practice hard.

When sticking, I will stand firmly, just like the broken wood near the ground. My arm that raises the pole is like the branches of withered wood;

Although the world is large and there are many scenery in front of me, I only pay attention to the wings of the cicada. Why not change the cicada wings because of the complicated things, why not succeed! "

In the face of the problem, the smart person is just like the old man sticks to the problem, and he is analyzing the problem and solving the problem.

They often have a clear positioning of themselves, are willing to make a hundred and thousands of efforts, to overcome the problems, and make things to the extreme. Facing the problem, do your best and perfect.

03 Accept the results other than expected

There is a saying in "The Analects of Confucius · Zihan":

"Zi Zendi: No, no, no solid, no me."

In this world, there are never absolute gains, loss, goodness, and bad.

The world is not absolute, life cannot be satisfactory everywhere, and many things will not always develop in the direction we expect.

Just like many times, we cannot accept failure, but because we think of things too much.

The results outside of expectations can better control your life.

There are countless intersections in life. The road in front of you may turn around, and you will see a different scenery.

Don't blame yourself because of a moment of incident, and give yourself a prison.

There are more than one way of living in life, and there are more than one way to succeed. Each unsatisfactory transfer may be hidden behind.

Setting limits will only make the world narrow, try to accept, life may be another wonderful.

The beauty is everywhere. If you want to go uphill, you must allow accidents and accept the results outside of expectations.

04 Not easily controlled by emotions

Pressing the fire at a critical moment, no matter how difficult the situation, it will usher in a turnaround.

Goethe walks in the park and meets the critics on a narrow road in a small road that can only pass by.

"I never give the stupidity," the critic said.

"I just do the opposite!" Goethe finished speaking and retreated to the side of the road with a smile.

It is inevitable to be provoked for no reason, or the misunderstanding of the bad guys. If the trouble is arbitrarily attacked, it can only be self -destroying and self -injury.

As Shakespeare said:

"Who can keep calm in the surprise, keep stable under the anger, and stay sober between anger, who is the real hero."

Only in your heart can be methodical; if you do not get angry, you can live calmly.

Source of data | Insight, Fan Deng Reading, Jingbo Guoxue, and Books; pictures are from the Internet

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