Three meetings: people can be people, speak, and do things

Three meetings: people can be people, speak, and do things

2022-07-05 17: 12. Wanliwen style

Being a person is a realm that requires skills; speaking is an art, which requires wisdom; doing things are a kind of ability, and need methods. For a lifetime, you can't do without three things: doing people, speaking, doing things.

1. Can be a person

If you do n’t drag, do n’t talk much, people do n’t do it, and you can trust you at ease, you can get the external recognition of you.

In fact, if a person wants to be based on society and based on interpersonal relationships, these most basic and simplest doctrines of people still need to understand.

Integrity is the foundation of being a person. Integrity is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. In modern society, people and people have become increasingly close. Integrity is the foundation of individuals. The way of life is the moral quality and literacy that everyone should have.

Constantly self -cultivation, improve yourself, better integrate into the circle, and then succeed.

Being a person, don't take the goodness of others to you as a matter of course. In this world, no one except your parents will get used to you.

You can take advantage of it, it is what others let you, you can grab the benefits, it is sent by others. Others are good to you because you are worth it, not because you are noble.

2. Talk

Cai Kangyong once said: "I don't care about the technique of speaking, but cares about the way of speaking. The way of my speech is to put you on my heart."

Whether you are good at living, depending on whether a person can speak.

"Speaking of good, the exquisite, the right to say" became the essence of speaking.

Many times, doing itself and impolite, often only between the front line.

Think more about the other way before speaking, and consider the feelings of the other party. Swallow it back and pick the thorns in the words.

After all, engraving and humor are two different things, and the mouthlessness and frankness are two different things; there are two things without education and randomness, and the difference between the inferiority and the uprightness is the two things.

A good word is warm in three winter, and the evil language hurts people in June cold.

Whenever we hope that we can understand: In this life, we don't have to be a person that everyone likes, but we can work hard to be a sincere warm and well -known person.

3. Can do things

There are no people in the world, only those who can't do things.

If a person is in society, if you want to survive, and if you want to succeed, you need to deal with various problems and face all kinds of people.

Can you stand in the society and walk steadily? Can you control the life situation freely in a complicated environment? To achieve success, it depends on whether you have the necessary survival skills-you can do things.

The so -called doing things means that they can distinguish between things and the severity, difficulty in size, and can grasp the heat of saying and doing when doing things: weighing their identity before the work, and understanding the other person's temper and preference. At the same time Follow the rules and rules involved in the process of doing things, and ultimately achieve their own purposes.

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