People are middle -aged, just the right happiness

Zhuangzi said: "Between the world of life, if the white horse is gathered, it will be suddenly."

Life is short, just like seeing the white horse passing through through the gap, but for a moment.

As if we were still ignorant of the teenager yesterday, we entered the ranks of middle -aged people unknowingly.

The four seasons are replaced, and the years are flowing. We cannot stop it. We can only adjust our pace to spend every life season.

When people reach middle age, the best state should be: mature mind, young mentality, and peace of mind.

01

Mature

In the TV series "The Second Time", the heroine An'an University got married and had children as soon as she graduated, but she did not become mature because of the character's conversion, and her mind was always at the university stage.

She will call her husband at any time. Regardless of whether the other party is working, if she does not answer her, An An will rush to the studio. In front of the company's employees, she is noisy and makes her husband as a president.

Every time he quarrels, An An will take his son to run away from home. He must let her husband admit the mistake and then pick her back. As long as the other party does not meet her requirements, An An will endlessly entangle.

In addition to playing a small character, An An's life is also very chaotic. Every day at home is either chasing dramas or playing games. Once, my husband returned home in the middle of the night and saw his son sleeping on the sofa in the living room. The coffee table was full of takeaway lunch boxes and snacks.

Later, her husband finally couldn't stand it and proposed a divorce.

For a long time, An An has regarded her husband as her own world and gave up her self -growth. As everyone knows, this has caused a gap between the two.

After the divorce, An An finally faced his own problems. With the help and encouragement of friends, with her own efforts, she became independent and strong. She regained the comic creation and regained love.

M. Scott Parker said in "The Road to Less": All evaders are hindering the maturity of their minds; all mature mental people, their life journey starts from the problem.

If you don't want to grow up, it may be the mentality of many people. He wants to be taken care of and loved.

However, in the real world, everyone has their own responsibilities, and we must carry the burden of life alone.

If you abandon progress and growth, you will rely on others to bottom out for you. Over time, the people around you will be overwhelmed.

Blind escape and retreat will only cause yourself to be passive.

Every adult should have a mature mind and dare to face their lives.

02

Youthful mentality

Someone asked, "What do people do to live younger and younger?"

There is an answer: "Have a young mentality."

Life is alive.

Only by maintaining a young man forever can you live as a person who is not afraid of old and "not old".

Meyer Musk is a person who breaks through age.

She returned to the model stage at the age of 60, and the silver hair image was shining.

At the age of 69, she became an international supermodel and appeared on the cover of a well -known magazine. Her image exclusively occupied 4 billboards in the American Times Square.

When someone asked her if she was afraid of being old, she laughed and said, "Don't be afraid, because I'm too busy, I don't have time to be afraid."

As long as you are passionate about life, there is no fear of the passage of years.

I have heard such a sentence: "If the wrinkles climb up on our forehead, all we can do is not to let it climb into our hearts."

Old age is not the white hair appearing on the head, nor the wrinkles on the face.

But when you start to give up yourself and give up your love for life, it is the beginning of getting old.

Mr. Yang Yan once said: "Life, one year old, one year old, one stop for one stop, your age should become the medal of your life, not your sad reason."

Indeed, when you have a young mentality, you will not be stunned by age, you will not be depressed because of your age, but you will seriously live in the present, enjoy the beauty of each age, and live the best on the best. Own.

Spring is full of flowers, and autumn is fruitful. There is a season of beauty in the season, and a moment of interest.

Rather than worrying about the passage of years, it is better to devote yourself to self -growth.

Pay attention to your own heart and try to do what you want to do. Regardless of the results, what you gain is the abundance and satisfaction of the heart.

The best way to fight aging is to maintain a young mentality forever.

03

Mood peace

Arthur Conan Dour said: "Mind is better than good medicine. Only the mood is the world that makes people galloping freely. The state of mind can turn hell into heaven and make hells of heaven."

Happiness and pain are all in the thoughts of people.

Sun Shuao was the Chu Guo Ling Yin during the Spring and Autumn Period. In Chinese history, there is a saying "Sun Shu'ao Zhichu, three years and Chu Kingdom". In fact, his career was not smooth sailing, and he had experienced three or three settlements.

A hermit named him asked him: "You are the three times as Ling Yin, and you don't feel glory; you leave Ling Yin's position three times, and you don't have a worry. What do you think? "

Sun Shuao replied, "I just know that many times and loss of loss depends on myself. Don't lose your heart because of this."

People with simple mood live, living calmly, suffering is just a test of life for him.

There is a manpower tricycle in his hometown, in his 40s, looks like a dignified look.

Someone asked him why he didn't do something relaxed. He jumped off the car with a smile, and took a few steps to show everyone. It turned out that he was born with a natural lame, his left leg long, and his right leg was short.

He said frankly that because of his legs, he lost a lot of job opportunities. In order to prevent others from seeing the problem of the legs, he chose to step on the tricycle.

I have no culture, but I have a good energy. I can also support their families and can earn a hundred yuan a day. Although I can't make a fortune, my life is pretty comfortable.

He also told everyone that his life was full of happiness.

Goethe once said: "The happiness of people is all of the happiness of the heart."

Life is alive, frustration and suffering are inevitable, the key is what kind of mood you use to look at.

When your mood is safe, all problems will be solved.

04

Liang Shiqiu once said in "Middle -aged": The fun of middle age is that he knows life, knows himself, so as to do what he can do, and enjoy the life he can enjoy.

When people reach middle age, they have experienced the ups and downs of life, and they have tasted the bitterness and bitterness of life, and they should know how to operate their own lives.

Seeking everything is the transparency of adults.

The mind is mature to be independent and strong, facing a complicated and trivial life.

Young mentality can not be afraid of years, and taste the world.

The mood is peaceful, so I can live in this life safely.

In the first half of life, it depends on passion and energy, and in the second half, wisdom and calmness must be rely on.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can face every day of life with a mature, positive and optimistic attitude.

Looking at the vicissitudes of the world, the heart is clear and peaceful.

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