2022 The best way to live in the second half of the year: it will pay attention to, can

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Master Dharma:

When you are proud, you are a love for life; when you are frustrated, you will be awe of life. It will be particular, or can you meet the best life.

Author: painting screen

Source: 10 o'clock reading (ID: duhaoshu)

The rainy season in the south stopped, the sun was shining, and the wind was gentle. Looking back, it had been half a year. In the past six months, how are you doing?

Some people say: Real elegance is to be able to pay attention, be able to enjoy, enjoy, and bear it. Because the real life does not shift with your will, you can pay attention to it when you are quiet;

When you go, you can enjoy the quietness of the years. When you adversity, you can also bear the flow of flow. Such a life is flexible and complete.

Regardless of the past, life in the second half of 2022 is good, you can pay attention, and it will be.

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During the Republic of China, Guo Wanying, a famous lady, was called Miss Guo's four. Her life can be described as two levels of differentiation.

Guo Wanying, who was born with a golden key, was very delicate from the small brocade and jade.

At that time, she was wearing exquisite white lace skirts, living in a large villa with white louver, and raised her beloved pony. At that time, the most famous aristocratic school at that time, in and out of the car to pick up and drop off, and live nanny care.

Her life is as happy as Hollywood movies.

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However, the world is unpredictable.

Later, in a special era, she not only was charged by the property, but also faced various campaign.

Many people in the same situation chose to commit suicide, and she not only survived stubbornly, but also did not become sloppy and mean because of humiliation.

The hands of the piano in the past digging the river mud in the smelly river, still diligent;

I used to wear millions of diamond rings to live a life of only 6 yuan a month, and she can still eat 8 cents of yang spring noodles with interest;

She and her family who lived in the big villa and the family squeezed in a 7 -square -meter leaky house, but never called. She cut a few stars and pasted on the plastic sheet to keep the loopholes. I imagined that she was sleeping under the starry sky.

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Even under such difficult conditions, she still had a taste of life.

When sweeping the toilet, put on a clean cheongsam; use the coal ball stove to steam the children with delicious cakes; use enamel tanks to prepare a rich afternoon tea for themselves.

Others asked her: "You are all like this, what else?"

She said, "Because this is how people live."

If people live, it is impossible to just make good luck all their lives. No one knows when the storm of destiny comes. Some people are full of mind and look at everything; in the adversity, they abandon themselves and blame the heavens. Such people are always the weak of life.

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Real life is often carried out by good luck. It can enjoy the wind and snow, and to withstand the wind and rain.

When you are proud, you are a love for life; when you are frustrated, you will be awe of life.

It will be particular, or can it be the best life.

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I saw a netizen who talked about his colleagues:

Netizens said that one year, I went to the mountainous area with my colleagues to support it. At that time, it was dark. Everyone was tired. The person responsible for the reception first took them to dinner.

There was a girl who grew up in the city from a young age. When she saw pickles and buns, she refused to eat and said that she never eaten steamed buns at home.

As a result, everyone was very difficult. The conditions for mountainous areas are limited. Northerners are mainly eating steamed buns. She does not eat steamed buns, and she has no other better food.

Finally, the person in charge of the reception drove a dozen miles mountain roads to take her to the county.

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For a few days to support teaching together, the female colleague kept complaining that the meal was unpalatable.

Some negative emotions were vent all day, making everyone very unhappy, and those responsible for reception always felt that their work was not done well.

When there are conditions, you can pay attention to it; when there is no condition, it will have to be.

Inconsistent with time, it is a bit pretentious.

The real emphasis is that in the face of reality, not escaping, not shrinking, the most bland life has aesthetic and poetic.

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Su Dongpo is hailed as the cutest person in the history of Chinese literature in China. Lin Yutang said: "As soon as Su Dongpo mentioned Su Dongpo, the Chinese always smiled warmly and warmly."

His life from the temple to the rivers and lakes, from a bachelor to a farmer, no matter what kind of situation in his life, he can have a colorful life.

In his youth, Su Dongpo was the guest of the emperor. He drafted a script for the emperor and gave poetry with a celebrity bachelor.

After being degraded, Su Dongpo opened a wasteland on the east side of the home, sowed the cultivated land, moved trees to plant seedlings, and became friends with trafficking. It became a qualified farmer.

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When he was in Beijing, he ate good mutton and drank the most mellow wine. After being degraded, he ate the martial arts in the mountains.

The hands of writing articles in the past can now be used to do farm work; in the past, they were used to the mouth of mountains and sea flavors, and they were unambiguous.

Learning to accept reality and lowering your posture will be a little bit. This is the openness and optimism of Su Dongpo.

Conditions will pay attention to the taste and attitude of life. If there is no condition, it can be a kind of atmosphere and mind. The situation turned with the heart and settled with it.

The hardest thing in life is that it can be high or low. No matter whether good or bad, it can become a landscape on the road of life, and such talents live transparent.

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Although Miao Yu in the Dream of Red Mansions is a lady of a large family, her parents died, and they lived in the Cuili of Jiafu in Jiafu.

However, Miao Yu is the first high -lonely person in "Dream of Red Mansions", which is more particular than anyone else.

She made tea and used the old snow water collected on the plum blossoms. Drinking tea was a baby green jade bucket that was rare in Jiafu.

The Chengyao Maoyao Clock of the Kiln Kiln Liu Ye, she was going to smash it. The ground that Liu Ye stepped on, she asked Xiaoyu to get four or five barrels of water to clean it;

Baoyu's birthday, she sent someone to send a post, and she was self -touched with "threshold outsiders", making Baoyu's second monk who couldn't touch it;

In the entire "Dream of Red Mansions", only she dares to laugh at Lin Daiyu as a layman.

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It's just a pity that what Miao Yu's actions are just pretending to be in the eyes of others, but just a woman under the fence, but everywhere, many people in the Grand View Garden do not like Miao Yu, few people will set foot in Cui Cui Cui Cui .

In the best age of Miao Yu, she lives the most lonely. She has no family, no loved ones, and no friends.

She is too particular about her, but she is just a high -cold coat to cover up the loneliness of her heart.

If Miao Yu can "just" and "pay attention" less, will life be more colorful?

It will be particular, and you can live more comfortably.

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Knowing a reporter friend, in an interview, she wore jeans, sneakers, backpacks, carried a machine, running everywhere, eating box lunch, drinking mineral water, not bathing for a few days, and no complaints.

During the interview, she wore a fine heel, dress, exquisite makeup, made cakes, and drink coffee.

Friends like to associate with her because they are comfortable to get along.

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Some people are too particular about it. They want to give people a sense of superiority of standing chicken groups, and this kind of particularity is like a cage that imprisons themselves.

In fact, if you are easy -going, you will be a little bit. You are not so tired, and others will not have pressure, but you will live more freely.

The truly noble state of life will be particular, and it can be justified.

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Everyone wants to live decent and particular, but many people in life are like this: eating, you must go to a clean and bright restaurant; dress, must be a famous brand endorsement; travel, non -high -speed aircraft without sitting.

These people seem to be particular, in fact, under the banner of "particular", pursuing material enjoyment, this is not really particular.

The real emphasis is that when life is in trouble, it can be flexed and stretching, which can maintain an elegant attitude and can calmly accept the challenges of suffering.

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In fact, regardless of whether it is particular or or not, we are telling us a profound and simple truth. Only once, we must live well.

Facing happiness and happiness with a smile, you have to smile and face hardships and difficulties.

Only those who can pay attention to, can people who can enjoy both, can also resist all kinds of hardships of life, and live a wonderful boldness.

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· To my dear object, the people ·

On the midsummer night, a flash of flowers,

For a while, the most worthy cherish.

If you are happy, please like Qinghe!

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