The best rest of your life: let go of the past, hide your mind, do a good job

In this life, it is long and short.

Along the way, we have experienced many ups and downs, and we have experienced many entanglements.

If you always carry your heart, you will be destined to miss the many beauty in life.

The best thing for the rest of your life is to let go of the past, hide your mind, and do small things.

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I like a word very much: "Persevere in one thought, you will be trapped; let go of a thought, you will be in your heart."

The reason why people worry about is often in their hearts. The greater the obsession, the deeper the trouble.

Human hands are only so big that they can't catch everything.

This world will not stay for whom, everything will be the past.

Those who come, those who go to let go, cannot go out of their own obsession, and they are prisoners everywhere.

Luo Jian in the popular drama "The Gate of Rebirth" this year, because of dissatisfaction with the task assigned in the bureau, quarreled with the master Fang Haizhong.

In the subsequent mission, Fang Haizhong, who was alone, encountered danger and quickly called Luo Jian for help. But Luo Jian, who was still angry, actually hung up the master's phone.

Until the news of the death of the master, Luo Jian regretted it, and he had been blame himself in the following 12 years. In order to let himself out of the haze, Luo Jian finally decided to apologize to the mother -in -law.

But when the maid lady saw Luo Jian, she did not blame him, but gave Luo Jian an apple to persuade him to let go and pay attention to safety.

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There is a hot topic that has attracted 863,000 people to browse: How can I really let go of the past?

One of the highest praises is:

"You can recall, you can experience it, but please don't immerse them. If you ca n’t let it go, let it go with the past. Whenever you think of the past, you will remind yourself that you ca n’t go back, whether you are good or bad in the past."

Sometimes life is a disconnection.

Only by knowing how to let go can you return to your heart.

Ni Ping and Song Dandan were originally good friends, but for 20 years because of a joke.

At a party at that time, Song Dandan saw Ni Ping, so he happily told everyone: "Ni Ping and I are a particularly good friend." Ni Ping said "coldly": "Do I know you?"

At this time, Song Dandan was caught in a divorce storm, and he was in a bad mood. He urgently needed Ni Ping as a friend's care, but Ni Ping even said that. Since then, the two have gradually alienated and no longer.

Last year, in the variety show "Surprising Heart", Ni Ping took the initiative to come forward to embrace Song Dandan and said, "I officially apologize for you now."

Song Dandan also said in public: "I know Ni Ping is talking to jokes, but this joke is not funny at all."

Twenty years later, the two finally let go and reconcile each other. Song Dandan, who was relaxed in his heart, also took the initiative to add contact information with Ni Ping.

Putting down is more difficult than picking up, but more meaningful.

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Hiding

I wonder if you find that there are only some things in life that can only be carried by yourself, and some words can only be listened by yourself.

Even if your experience is extremely exciting, it is difficult to get the favor of others; even if your experience is extremely bumpy, it is difficult to evoke the empathy of others.

Just like in "A Zen Monk", the master answered a Zen:

"Even if your heart has been wrapped around, but in the eyes of others, you are just a little more silent than usual."

During the trough, don't complain when you are at all others. Those who care about it will naturally understand, and people who have nothing to do will only ridicule.

Last year, the real estate company where the neighbor Lao Zhang was located closed down, but Lao Zhang's middle age suddenly encountered unemployment. He was afraid that his family was worried that he would still "get off work" on time as usual every day.

Lao Zhang first voted a few resumes on the Internet, but most of them were sinking. Lao Zhang was unwilling to ask his classmates and friends for help, and continued to find a job, and reluctantly maintained his life on the one hand.

One day, Lao Zhang attended the small gatherings of several students. He was afraid of sweeping everyone's prosperity, and he didn't talk about work. Soon after, Lao Zhang opened Didi. Although it was much tired than the original, he was practical.

Life is sometimes just a self -crossed, walking through the cause of the cause, until it lives into an omnipotent look.

There is such a sentence in the book "Ferryman": "If life is a lonely river, who will be the ferryman of your soul?"

In fact, people who can cross us in this world can meet and not ask for.

After all, you must go to you alone; the problems in life only have to solve them one by one. Hidden the mind deeply, forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up again.

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Do a good job

In the 1860s, the United States raised oil mining fever, and the young Rockefeller also came to the oil collection area.

At the beginning, Rockefeller only found an extremely simple job. He was unbalanced in his heart, thinking that doing this type of work with his creativity was simply buried.

So, Rockefeller went to the supervisor to change his job. He did not expect that the supervisor only returned him: "Either do it well or go!"

Rockefeller blushed to resign immediately, but was afraid that he could not find a better thing for a while, so he had to return to his original post.

Later, Rockefeller suddenly thought: Isn't I creative? So why not start with small things in this ordinary post?

Rockefeller immediately conducted an in -depth study of his work and found that one of the small processes can save a drop of oil if optimized. After repeated experiments, Rockefeller finally invented a more fuel -saving machine and saved huge costs for the company.

Li Siguang has an eight -character saying: travel far away, ascend to inferiority (from "Book of Rites · Mean").

Persist in doing everything well, and you will find:

One step at a time is the best shortcut in the world.

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As the saying goes: a bite can not be a fat man, and you can't get the sky in one step.

When confused, slow down and think carefully.

Doing small things well will also harvest the fruitful results of life.

Chaplin once said: "Time is a great author, it will write a perfect ending to everyone."

Everyone is just a passenger in this world. The first half of her life has gradually become the past.

Let go of the past, do not compete with yourself, and let your life move forward; hide your mind, do not talk to others, and become your own ferry; do a good job, do not be so high to harvest the fruit of life.

The rest of my life does not seek perfection, but it is best to ask for no regrets.

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