Use yourself in the precipitation to accumulate more forces for the next long journey

The world road is rugged and can be done,

Notice the method of taking a step back.

Author: Lodge Yebo

At a sharing meeting, someone asked the writer Su Tong: Is there any good life advice?

Su Tong smiled and did not answer positively, but talked about football.

In the football game, after the offensive players took the ball through the midfield, they must face the opponent's strict guardian.

If you choose to make a hard break, it is easy to return without merit under the dense blockade, and even fight back by the opponent and lose the game.

And the real strong team often kicks the ball back to the backcourt, and then find opportunities to win one shot.

Life is like playing football. When you can't walk, you may take a step back to find the timing of rebound.

The more the paddle moves backwards, the faster the boat moves forward; the more the bow string is pulled back, the farther the distance from the arrow.

In this life, if you want to do something, you must know how to retreat.

1

Tell two stories first.

The first story happened in Rome more than a hundred years ago.

In February 1868, the young poet Felis Cavarotti received a refund letter in the apartment.

The sender is the famous editor of the Venice News.

In the letter, he euphemistically stated that Cavalotti's poems were not in line with the style of the newspaper. Please invest in another publication.

Earlier, Cavalotti published works in many local publications and has been appreciated a lot.

When he was about to do a big job, he did not expect that he touched his nose in the Venice News.

In unwillingness, Cavalotti picked out a few proud works and sent it to Marcola, asking him to "read it" again.

Soon he received a reply, saying that it could be published in the letter, but some places need to be modified.

Friends advised him to modify it. After all, publishing works in the Venice News is also very good for his career.

However, this requirement is insult to his reputation for Cavalotti, who is born.

He immediately returned a rigorous letter to the challenge to Makola.

At that time, the Cavaliers were prevalent. Whoever rejected the challenge of others would be regarded as a coward, and Marcala had no choice but to fight.

On March 7, 1868, the two held a duel at the corner field as scheduled.

In the third round, Cavalotti was hit by a shot and fell into a pool of blood.

He was preparing to show his literary career, and he ended abruptly.

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The second story happened when Jet Li first arrived in Hollywood.

At that time, in the Southeast Asian film market, Jet Li was a well -known king superstar.

But in the bright Hollywood Hollywood, he first arrived, but no one was optimistic at first.

After waiting for a long time, Warner Film Company issued an invitation to him, but the film paid only issued $ 1 million, and it was still a villain role.

1 million US dollars, which is far from Jet Li's expectations. He hesitated and said to think about it.

Two days later, when he agreed to act, the other party changed his mouth, and the paid fell to $ 500,000.

After listening to this, Jet Li was very hot. He insisted on $ 1 million as the bottom line.

In the end, the two sides were unhappy.

In the evening, he called his family and mentioned this, and he was still angry.

At this time, a word from his wife made him wake up like a dream: "There is no opportunity to show, no matter how strong your strength is, what's the use?"

Early the next morning, he dialed the number of the film company and said to the producer: "500,000, I play."

In this way, Jet Li filmed his first Hollywood movie "Deadly Weapon 4".

After the film was released, he praised the tide, and his superb acting skills left a deep impression on American audiences.

For a while, everyone was discussing this "Kung Fu Emperor" from the East.

Soon, the film came like snowflakes. Warner CEO even came to the door in person and asked him to play the protagonist of the next movie.

In this way, with this appearance, Jet Li successfully knocked on the door of Hollywood.

His value then rose, and the fourth film paid reached $ 17 million.

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From Cavalotti to Jet Li, the two who were opposite to us told us:

The path of life will not always be in Ma Pingchuan.

If you just hit a strong rush, you will only hit your head and break the blood.

As in "Cai Gen Tan", "The world road is rugged, and you can't do it. You must take a step back."

When you encounter difficulties in the past, you may take a step back and wait for a new turnaround.

"Three Kingdoms" records a story.

After the defeat of Guan Yu, he was surrounded by Cao Cao's army and had no way to go.

At this time, Zhang Liao stepped forward to stop him and said to him:

If the jade is burned today, how do you realize the ideal of Kuanguhan Room and how can you worthy of Liu Bei's trust? It is better to surrender temporarily, retain the useful body, and there will be a chance to come back in Dongshan in the future.

After listening to this, Guan Yu calmed down, and it was fierce, but he sacrificed in vain without any beneficial.

It is better to take a step back for a while and save the possibility of reverse wind turning.

So he gave up his resistance, settle down Cao Jun, and saved his life.

Sure enough, it didn't take long for him to wait for the opportunity to return to Hanying again, and followed Liu Bei to achieve a career.

I have heard a word:

If the spring is straight, it will slowly lose elasticity. Only when you compress it back can you stretch the power; the saw is always forward. At the moment of the beginning, it will return to the time in time.

It is precious quality without fear of difficulties, but if you know that there is a desperate situation ahead and break in, it will be stupid. Many times, concessions are not timid, but a roundabout wisdom.

The current way to enter is blocked, you may wish to change, and you can often usher in the peak circuit.

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I have seen the story of the sculptor Michelangelo.

Before he became famous, for a long time, he was hired by the court and carved statues in major cathedrals.

At that time, each project and the court would assign officials to supervise on -site.

Most officials did not understand art at all, but relying on power, they pointed at their hands.

When facing their unreasonable demands, many sculptors refused to give up, and finally resigned because of conflict.

When Michelangelo carved the statue of "David", the officials in charge often came to point out.

On one occasion, the official frowned and turned around the stone statue several times.

Michelangelo asked: "Self -adult, is there something wrong?"

The officials would say, "The nose is too big."

Michelangelo stood in front of the statue and yelled, "Isn't it? The nose is a bit bigger, I change it right away."

When he said, he picked up the tools and climbed up the shelf.

With his chisels, many marble powder dropped, and officials had to avoid it.

After a while, Michelangelo was repaired, climbed off the shelf, and asked the official to check again.

The official looked at it and said happily, "It's so great, so right!"

After sending away the official, Michelangelo hurried to wash his hands.

It turned out that he just secretly grabbed a small marble and a stone powder, and made it like it.

From beginning to end, he did not change the original sculpture at all.

In this way, Michelangelo was able to stay in the court and participated in the sculptures of various churches.

After this long -term practical exercise, his skills became more and more perfect, and eventually became a generation of masters.

In life, we will also encounter unreasonable people and bad things.

If you do n’t know how to avoid the agent, you can only get yourself into it, and the farther the target.

Sometimes, like Michelangelo, appropriate roundabings are often the most wise way.

Russell said, "No matter how far we go back, we can always go further."

On the road of life, when you are in trouble and hardships, remember to retreat in time to let the space for survival.

Set yourself in the precipitation to save more forces for the next long travel.

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During the Song Dynasty, some people drew a dragon and tiger map and got the academy for appreciation. Everyone said, "The painting is wonderful, but always feels wrong."

At this time, a teacher said something to let everyone pour the top:

This painter has the appearance of the dragon and tiger without soul. You know, when the tiger is bite, his head will press down. When the dragon moves forward, the head will shrink back. The more curved the dragon body, the lower the tiger's head, the more momentum.

The same is true of life. If you have retreating, you can go to the way, and you can have amazing power when you need to storage and dormant.

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